Do u like getting flirted with?
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TigerLilly98a wrote: »slideaway1 wrote: »TigerLilly98a wrote: »slideaway1 wrote: »I have no idea of the flirting rules and cant be arsed to google them.
I'm sure you can figure them out
Are you flirting with me?
Depends, would you like me to be? LOL
Things are escalating to quick, It's not me it's you (I think that's the right?), I just need to be on my own for a bit. See, I'm rubbish at this!!
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It's a contraction of "flatulance" and "squirt", and I'm surprised how many people here freely admit to being in to that sort of thing.TheCounselorx wrote: »I don't know what this "flirting" thing means
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slideaway1 wrote: »TigerLilly98a wrote: »slideaway1 wrote: »TigerLilly98a wrote: »slideaway1 wrote: »I have no idea of the flirting rules and cant be arsed to google them.
I'm sure you can figure them out
Are you flirting with me?
Depends, would you like me to be? LOL
Things are escalating to quick, It's not me it's you (I think that's the right?), I just need to be on my own for a bit. See, I'm rubbish at this!!
ROFL.......crash and burn!0 -
365andstillalive wrote: »365andstillalive wrote: »Yes! What I don't understand - why do men flirt and then not follow through with asking for a date. A gentleman, friend flirted hot & heavy for an extended period of time then didn't ask me out. We are both single, age compatible and have similar interests. When he didn't ask, I shifted gears and decided not to waste my time. He is still a good friend, but he will stay in the friend zone. My position, step up or step off.
Not to pick on you, but this is something that drives me a little nutty. Why the heck didn't YOU just ask him out if you were interested? He likely could have felt the same... Just sayin'.
Different generation. I believe in some old fashioned dating customs.... If a man wants a date, he calls in advance, plans the evening, opens doors etc. I value my time and energy. If he wants me to pay attention then he will make the effort.
Would you rather date a man or treats you like one of the guys (always available, no planning, doesn't open the car door) or a man who treats you like a lady? Respect and integrity are always appropriate.
I think where we disagree is that I think you can have all those things out of a relationship: mutual respect, etc. I don't think that you expressing interest and physically saying the words "would you like to go on a date?" undermine the level of respect you'd receive.
Just because I made the first move, doesn't mean a man going to treat me "like one of the guys". It does mean that I value my own time and energy; if I've put in weeks flirting with someone (which I wouldn't do without a date anyway) I'd rather follow through than go "eh, time to move on. He's not following the schedule I've set in my head and haven't bothered to discuss with him".
We just have different dating philosophies. I hope that you can find a good, straight forward gent like you're looking for
It would be so much less complicated if more women thought of it like this.
Some of us men need to be trained also. If I'm into someone, I want to make her happy. Sometimes I fail only because I don't know what she wants/needs. Expecting men to know your individual desires is unreasonable, yet so many women want exactly that. Communicate what you need... if I want something to work out, I will follow directions.0 -
slideaway1 wrote: »TigerLilly98a wrote: »slideaway1 wrote: »TigerLilly98a wrote: »slideaway1 wrote: »I have no idea of the flirting rules and cant be arsed to google them.
I'm sure you can figure them out
Are you flirting with me?
Depends, would you like me to be? LOL
Things are escalating to quick, It's not me it's you (I think that's the right?), I just need to be on my own for a bit. See, I'm rubbish at this!!
Duuuuuuuuude....you were soooooo close! Still have a shot! Don't give up!!0 -
Flirting,farting is such good fun :-)0
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slideaway1 wrote: »TigerLilly98a wrote: »slideaway1 wrote: »TigerLilly98a wrote: »slideaway1 wrote: »I have no idea of the flirting rules and cant be arsed to google them.
I'm sure you can figure them out
Are you flirting with me?
Depends, would you like me to be? LOL
Things are escalating to quick, It's not me it's you (I think that's the right?), I just need to be on my own for a bit. See, I'm rubbish at this!!
Duuuuuuuuude....you were soooooo close! Still have a shot! Don't give up!!
Thanks man. Your optimisme means a lot to me. I'll just chalk it up to experience. Another one that got away. I've got this!0 -
slideaway1 wrote: »slideaway1 wrote: »TigerLilly98a wrote: »slideaway1 wrote: »TigerLilly98a wrote: »slideaway1 wrote: »I have no idea of the flirting rules and cant be arsed to google them.
I'm sure you can figure them out
Are you flirting with me?
Depends, would you like me to be? LOL
Things are escalating to quick, It's not me it's you (I think that's the right?), I just need to be on my own for a bit. See, I'm rubbish at this!!
Duuuuuuuuude....you were soooooo close! Still have a shot! Don't give up!!
Thanks man. Your optimisme means a lot to me. I'll just chalk it up to experience. Another one that got away. I've got this!
Rejected is enough, glad I could help with your experience!0 -
slideaway1 wrote: »slideaway1 wrote: »TigerLilly98a wrote: »slideaway1 wrote: »TigerLilly98a wrote: »slideaway1 wrote: »I have no idea of the flirting rules and cant be arsed to google them.
I'm sure you can figure them out
Are you flirting with me?
Depends, would you like me to be? LOL
Things are escalating to quick, It's not me it's you (I think that's the right?), I just need to be on my own for a bit. See, I'm rubbish at this!!
Duuuuuuuuude....you were soooooo close! Still have a shot! Don't give up!!
Thanks man. Your optimisme means a lot to me. I'll just chalk it up to experience. Another one that got away. I've got this!
She laughed at your comment, and made a joke about it. As a matter of fact, she was on the floor laughing! Rolling around, no less. so there's still a chance man!0 -
slideaway1 wrote: »slideaway1 wrote: »TigerLilly98a wrote: »slideaway1 wrote: »TigerLilly98a wrote: »slideaway1 wrote: »I have no idea of the flirting rules and cant be arsed to google them.
I'm sure you can figure them out
Are you flirting with me?
Depends, would you like me to be? LOL
Things are escalating to quick, It's not me it's you (I think that's the right?), I just need to be on my own for a bit. See, I'm rubbish at this!!
Duuuuuuuuude....you were soooooo close! Still have a shot! Don't give up!!
Thanks man. Your optimisme means a lot to me. I'll just chalk it up to experience. Another one that got away. I've got this!
It's alright, bro. We got this.
We just need someone to start a "Flirting for Dummies" thread. Lesson #1, ladies and gents: Winky faces 0 -
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That winky face means it's a flirt? Just figure it meant I'm a dumba$$ or something0
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I like flirting I might not be good at it but I enjoy it lol0
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I never get approached. Plus I suck at flirting. I'm not subtle. Lol0
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aawwww... I'll flirt with ya!!0
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TheCounselorx wrote: »aawwww... I'll flirt with ya!!
Haha thanks sweets0 -
Stereophoney wrote: »I'm never sure it's happening but it's a confidence booster
^^This^^ I never think I'm being flirted with until the person makes it blatantly obvious. (Like finally walks up and says so! lol)
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I'm annoyingly specific. So, mostly no. But then there is an occasional "oh, yeah".0
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Sure, I'd think we all do to a point. Most of us suck at it or think we do anyway.0
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On Line Flirting is an even bigger minefield to real life. I have no idea what Emoticons represent and I once thought a girl was ROFL and it turned out she was having a fit! 0
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I once told a girl she had "Come to bed eyes"...turns out is was Glaucoma! 0
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slideaway1 wrote: »I once told a girl she had "Come to bed eyes"...turns out is was Glaucoma!
Sorry dude.....I feel ya on the glaucoma thing0 -
I evidently was being flirted with at the feed & tack store today. I was clueless, but my 19 year old son ribbed me about it the entire drive home! Bright side...my son was applying for a job & it was the shift manager, so can't hurt, right?? Lol!0
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I want to run away when someone flirts with me.LOL.I feel really on the spot and Im a bit shy when I first meet people.I get flirted with a lot.May be Im just fun to tease? on the flip side, when I do talk to people Im really open and friendly and its misconstrued a lot as flirting when Im just being friendly.I like direct guys.Games arent my style.0
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Regarding the whole "depends on the person doing the flirting" thing... I don't drink, and the first time I'd been to a bar was actually a few months ago. And while I was there nursing my Dr. Pepper, this old dude came up and started hitting on me. Like, very visibly old dude, probably could've been my grandpa. Made me super uncomfortable and I could not wait to get outta there.0
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Regarding the whole "depends on the person doing the flirting" thing... I don't drink, and the first time I'd been to a bar was actually a few months ago. And while I was there nursing my Dr. Pepper, this old dude came up and started hitting on me. Like, very visibly old dude, probably could've been my grandpa. Made me super uncomfortable and I could not wait to get outta there.
hey... If i remember correctly... you were coming onto me!!..... although..... I was very drunk... so couldn't rightly ay what happened...0 -
I want to run away when someone flirts with me.LOL.I feel really on the spot and Im a bit shy when I first meet people.I get flirted with a lot.May be Im just fun to tease? on the flip side, when I do talk to people Im really open and friendly and its misconstrued a lot as flirting when Im just being friendly.I like direct guys.Games arent my style.
It's probably that open, friendliness that's getting you flirted with haha.
If I'm out in public, at a bar with friends etc I'm never the one that gets flirted with because I'm more introverted in how I act.
Put me at work where I run face-to-face fundraising teams and interact with all sorts of people in the most open, friendly put-on personality you can imagine... Well, lets just say there's a reason I own a fake engagement ring AND wedding band.
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365andstillalive wrote: »I want to run away when someone flirts with me.LOL.I feel really on the spot and Im a bit shy when I first meet people.I get flirted with a lot.May be Im just fun to tease? on the flip side, when I do talk to people Im really open and friendly and its misconstrued a lot as flirting when Im just being friendly.I like direct guys.Games arent my style.
It's probably that open, friendliness that's getting you flirted with haha.
If I'm out in public, at a bar with friends etc I'm never the one that gets flirted with because I'm more introverted in how I act.
Put me at work where I run face-to-face fundraising teams and interact with all sorts of people in the most open, friendly put-on personality you can imagine... Well, lets just say there's a reason I own a fake engagement ring AND wedding band.
You could raise my funds anyday! Sorry, I'm horrible at this. 0 -
365andstillalive wrote: »I want to run away when someone flirts with me.LOL.I feel really on the spot and Im a bit shy when I first meet people.I get flirted with a lot.May be Im just fun to tease? on the flip side, when I do talk to people Im really open and friendly and its misconstrued a lot as flirting when Im just being friendly.I like direct guys.Games arent my style.
It's probably that open, friendliness that's getting you flirted with haha.
If I'm out in public, at a bar with friends etc I'm never the one that gets flirted with because I'm more introverted in how I act.
Put me at work where I run face-to-face fundraising teams and interact with all sorts of people in the most open, friendly put-on personality you can imagine... Well, lets just say there's a reason I own a fake engagement ring AND wedding band.
engagement and wedding rings probably wouldn't stop a lot of guys.... not saying its right tho..0
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