Do u like getting flirted with?

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  • maximus542
    maximus542 Posts: 3 Member
    Yeah I guess I do
  • Cindy4FunFit
    Cindy4FunFit Posts: 2,732 Member
    ^ who would think to flirt with him in that tight, wet t-shirt.....wait, a line is forming. Ladies to the right, men to the left.
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  • fobs13
    fobs13 Posts: 1,080 Member
    Yes it's nice to flirt and be flirted with ax lo g as it doesn't cross the line into crassness.
  • arian10daddy
    arian10daddy Posts: 2,758 Member
    I'd love to be flirted with.. but how do I know if I'm being flirted with? :tongue:
  • MonkeyMel21
    MonkeyMel21 Posts: 2,396 Member
    arian10daddy wrote: »
    I'd love to be flirted with.. but how do I know if I'm being flirted with? :tongue:

    Do like me and just assume that any person of the opposite sex (or same sex, who knows!) making eye contact with you is flirting.

    That's legit...right?
  • Lifeonmars2015
    Lifeonmars2015 Posts: 667 Member
    Flirting - bring it on
  • slideaway1
    slideaway1 Posts: 1,006 Member
    If someone flirts with me, they better be prepared to back it up. ;)
  • MonkeyMel21
    MonkeyMel21 Posts: 2,396 Member
    edited June 2015
    @slideaway1

    Is that a threat, or a promise?
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  • EmpireApple
    EmpireApple Posts: 264 Member
    katnroyal87 wrote: »
    AZbaseball33 wrote: »
    I really don't catch that it's happening much so when I know it's happening...ya I do.

    Same here!

    havent expirenced mine yet:)
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  • Drdisney
    Drdisney Posts: 90 Member
    flirting .. whats that?
  • Lifeonmars2015
    Lifeonmars2015 Posts: 667 Member
    Still waiting to experience MFP flirting, perhaps l'm not the flirting type :p
  • cassandrag93
    cassandrag93 Posts: 825 Member
    Absolutely :)
  • MinmoInk
    MinmoInk Posts: 345 Member
    edited June 2015
    No I find it uncomfortable, especially in person. It's partially why I'm a hermit now- I make better friends with guys.

    I had a fat security blanket before so that's probably why. I was invisible
  • joeboland
    joeboland Posts: 205 Member
    I have no clue when I'm being flirted with. Friends (particularly female ones) usually have to clue me in - I'm oblivious.
  • cassandrag93
    cassandrag93 Posts: 825 Member
    joeboland wrote: »
    I have no clue when I'm being flirted with. Friends (particularly female ones) usually have to clue me in - I'm oblivious.

    Haha you'd be surprised how common at is. :)
  • MrFitness225
    MrFitness225 Posts: 54 Member
    Flirt with me (but only if your HOT!) No need to waste time with flukes, lol P.S. MEN ONLY. Sorry ladies.
  • jennismagic
    jennismagic Posts: 243 Member
    If the person is attractive and has a good personality, then I'm generally okay with it. Otherwise, it's a complete waste of my time, and depending on the situation, am capslock pissed off that it even happened.

    I'm at that point in my weight loss that old men and sleaze bags are taking notice of me. They seem to think, "Oh, hey, that girl is big, but she's shapely, and probably has LOADS of self-esteem issues. Easy prey."

    What they don't realize is that 1. I prefer to be alone and not date anyone; 2. am only attracted to a certain type of man; and 3. am intelligent and mature enough to know what they're up to.

    My grandmother didn't raise no fool. Maybe there are loads of girls who just give it away to unworthy men, but I'm not one of them.
  • Elle_Bronwyn15
    Elle_Bronwyn15 Posts: 296 Member
    Only if it is someone I am mutually interested in...otherwise no. But I'm married so that's out of the question now, I just feel awkward if someone tries to now.
  • JSurita2
    JSurita2 Posts: 1,304 Member
    jennismagic wrote: »
    If the person is attractive and has a good personality, then I'm generally okay with it. Otherwise, it's a complete waste of my time, and depending on the situation, am capslock pissed off that it even happened.

    I'm at that point in my weight loss that old men and sleaze bags are taking notice of me. They seem to think, "Oh, hey, that girl is big, but she's shapely, and probably has LOADS of self-esteem issues. Easy prey."

    What they don't realize is that 1. I prefer to be alone and not date anyone; 2. am only attracted to a certain type of man; and 3. am intelligent and mature enough to know what they're up to.

    My grandmother didn't raise no fool. Maybe there are loads of girls who just give it away to unworthy men, but I'm not one of them.

    Wow, tell us how you really feel though.
  • Cindy4FunFit
    Cindy4FunFit Posts: 2,732 Member
    edited June 2015
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  • mom216
    mom216 Posts: 287 Member
    Yes! What I don't understand - why do men flirt and then not follow through with asking for a date. A gentleman, friend flirted hot & heavy for an extended period of time then didn't ask me out. We are both single, age compatible and have similar interests. When he didn't ask, I shifted gears and decided not to waste my time. He is still a good friend, but he will stay in the friend zone. My position, step up or step off. >:)
  • mom216
    mom216 Posts: 287 Member

    My grandmother didn't raise no fool. Maybe there are loads of girls who just give it away to unworthy men, but I'm not one of them.

    Hahahaha.......

    As Mama used to say.... With one of these I can have as many of "those" as I want. :D

  • MonkeyMel21
    MonkeyMel21 Posts: 2,396 Member
    [quote==

    = Maybe there are loads of girls who just give it away to unworthy men, but I'm not one of them.[/quote]

    I didn't know flirting = giving anything away.... I thought it was just fun.
  • aprilthomson
    aprilthomson Posts: 1 Member
    Personally, I love flirting, both giving and receiving. :wink:
  • Commander_Keen
    Commander_Keen Posts: 1,179 Member
    CasandraNS wrote: »
    I'm a major flirt
    So if I offend u let me know lol!

    Can I be your friend
  • JSurita2
    JSurita2 Posts: 1,304 Member
    MonkeyMel21 wrote: »
    [quote==

    = Maybe there are loads of girls who just give it away to unworthy men, but I'm not one of them.

    I didn't know flirting = giving anything away.... I thought it was just fun. [/quote]

    Exactly. I think people confuse flirting with something else. It can be totally innocent and fun.
  • GBrady43068
    GBrady43068 Posts: 1,256 Member
    edited June 2015
    joesgal22 wrote: »
    Why is it men say that they are usually not sure that they are being flirted with? Just curious.

    You gals are a lot more subtle (to us) than you probably think you are. As a general rule, I think most guys PERCEIVE the female sex as being "nicer"....so we aren't sure whether to interpret your continued conversation with us as you just being generally friendly or you being interested.

    So ladies...if you're trying to tell us "I'm interested"..be kind of obvious.

    And to answer the OP...even if you're happily married, I think it's always an ego boost to know to know that there's more than one person on the planet that finds you attractive. :smiley:

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