Do u like getting flirted with?

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  • arian10daddy
    arian10daddy Posts: 2,758 Member
    PewterSky wrote: »
    I like being complimented and I compliment people a lot too. But there is such a thing as being too complimentary. I start getting uncomfortable when that happens and I begin to think the person is just messing with me or has some ulterior motive. I usually don't mind light flirtation, depending on the person, some people come on too strong or maybe I'm just used to very mild flirting.

    I don't get flirted with in real life a lot so I'm not used to it which is why I don't know how to react at times on-line. The few times I do get flirted with in RL: its un-welcomed attention from creepy married old men. My friends say I can't tell when people flirt with me and that's why guys have to be blatantly obvious and then I get awkward and retreat, it's a crazy cycle. I don't think that's true.

    I extremely dislike it when I give hints or don't respond warmly and people continue to flirt and I then have to resort to telling them straight away and be labelled as a manhater. :neutral:

    Hey @pewtersky any hints that you might have given me and I might have missed? :tongue:
  • teagirlmedium
    teagirlmedium Posts: 679 Member
    I like getting flirted with unless it is creepy. But it makes me happy to know someone thinks I am cute.
  • PewterSky
    PewterSky Posts: 9,224 Member
    @arian10daddy You're on your best behaviour around me so I never have to give any hints :D
  • arian10daddy
    arian10daddy Posts: 2,758 Member
    oh so if I get away from my best behavior, I do have a buffer before I start getting all creepy for you! LOL
  • Call_Me_BIGDADDY
    Call_Me_BIGDADDY Posts: 2,016 Member
    pechepanda wrote: »
    taylorromero84 wrote: »
    @pechepanda girl stop acting like u don't know.. Smart as u are, u probably predict the flirt before it happens lol!!
    thanks sweetie, lol, I wish I was that smart, people are always nice and very complimentary for the most part, and I dont pay enough attention to people so its difficult to tell if theyre flirting of just having a conversation,

    I beg to differ.. I can tell by how philosophical u are that picking up on a flirt is like peanuts to an elephant .

    @arian10daddy ikr!! Lol

    @teagirlmedium I think ur very cute sweetie and I can tell that u have a very bubbly personality.. I bet ur always the life of the party ;) <---- flirting lol
  • teagirlmedium
    teagirlmedium Posts: 679 Member
    Thanks @taylorromero84 I'm sure your every ladies favorite at the party.
  • madhu1981
    madhu1981 Posts: 4,829 Member
    PewterSky wrote: »
    I like being complimented and I compliment people a lot too. But there is such a thing as being too complimentary. I start getting uncomfortable when that happens and I begin to think the person is just messing with me or has some ulterior motive. I usually don't mind light flirtation, depending on the person, some people come on too strong or maybe I'm just used to very mild flirting.

    I don't get flirted with in real life a lot so I'm not used to it which is why I don't know how to react at times on-line. The few times I do get flirted with in RL: its un-welcomed attention from creepy married old men. My friends say I can't tell when people flirt with me and that's why guys have to be blatantly obvious and then I get awkward and retreat, it's a crazy cycle. I don't think that's true.

    I extremely dislike it when I give hints or don't respond warmly and people continue to flirt and I then have to resort to telling them straight away and be labelled as a manhater. :neutral:

    Hey @pewter-sky any hints that you might have given me and I might have missed? :tongue: [/quote]
  • Call_Me_BIGDADDY
    Call_Me_BIGDADDY Posts: 2,016 Member
    @teagirlmedium showing ur flirtatious side I see... :)
  • cklbrown
    cklbrown Posts: 4,696 Member
    taylorromero84 wrote: »
    cklbrown wrote: »
    taylorromero84 wrote: »
    People saying they don't like being flirted with but I think its encouraging.. If someone gives u a compliment whether its about ur body or ur car etc.. U immediately feel more confident. So u mean to tell me that if I give u a compliment, ur gonna feel "uncomfortable"? Riiiiight.... Lol


    I hate being complimented. I don't like the attention. I never believe what the person is saying. I am just waiting for the catch, because there must be one. I have a tendency to be dismissive and extremely awkward. I do a fast retreat.

    I like ur smile darling and ur glasses make u look very sophisticated.. Will u teach me a few things? (Flirty lol)



    Such a smarty pants!!

    Respect your elders ;)
  • madhu1981
    madhu1981 Posts: 4,829 Member
    yess
  • Call_Me_BIGDADDY
    Call_Me_BIGDADDY Posts: 2,016 Member
    @cklbrown elders? Where?? ;)
  • jazzine1
    jazzine1 Posts: 280 Member
    Depends who's flirting with me lol
  • MonkeyMel21
    MonkeyMel21 Posts: 2,396 Member
    I love flirting! I'm going to be totally honest, if you're a guy between 18 and 60 and not creepy or severely unattractive, then I'm flirting with you
  • Lanet27
    Lanet27 Posts: 127 Member
    I like when a cute guy/girl flirts with me. It's quite a confidence booster. However, I'm happily married so I usually try dodge out if it gets too serious. However, I'm not a flirt because it comes off weird whenever I try to. :wink:
  • Jonesingmucho
    Jonesingmucho Posts: 4,902 Member
    Flirting is a great cardio workout - There is STEADY STATE FLIRTING (SSF vs. SSC) like chatting very close while throwing in sexual innuendo at every opportunity... All the way up to HIGH INTENSITY INTERVAL FLIRTING (HIIF vs. HIIT) like making eye contact then looking away...then quickly looking back... touching someone on the arm and slowly teasing your finger tips across their skin... or even in business by just keeping your hand in the handshake too long while making eye contact and a sly grin...
  • SummerLovin0x
    SummerLovin0x Posts: 481 Member
    Pfft, why not ? It makes me more confident. I'm a bigger girl so its not like i'm fully hit on constant lol
  • Call_Me_BIGDADDY
    Call_Me_BIGDADDY Posts: 2,016 Member
    *fully hits on @SummerLovin0x lol
  • Call_Me_BIGDADDY
    Call_Me_BIGDADDY Posts: 2,016 Member
    And heyyy @MonkeyMel21 ;)
  • cuckoo_jenibeth
    cuckoo_jenibeth Posts: 1,434 Member
    I don't get flirted with in real life, so I tend not to recognize it online; therefore when I get friend requests, I always believe it is for genuine friendship and support! Wrong! Once I mention the hubby, bye-bye new friend! I am not trying to hide the fact that I am married... I even speak of my husband on my profile, so why the shock and feeling of betrayal?? You're the one that FR'ed me!!
    I think casual flirting is nice! It would be nice to feel attractive again after raising a kid, losing my weight, aging, etc...
  • MonkeyMel21
    MonkeyMel21 Posts: 2,396 Member
    Jonesingmucho wrote: »
    Flirting is a great cardio workout - There is STEADY STATE FLIRTING (SSF vs. SSC) like chatting very close while throwing in sexual innuendo at every opportunity... All the way up to HIGH INTENSITY INTERVAL FLIRTING (HIIF vs. HIIT) like making eye contact then looking away...then quickly looking back... touching someone on the arm and slowly teasing your finger tips across their skin... or even in business by just keeping your hand in the handshake too long while making eye contact and a sly grin...

    I don't know why, but this just turned me on.
  • mbaker566
    mbaker566 Posts: 11,233 Member
    nope, I don't like it. I find it intrusive. I don't mind a compliment for the sake of compliment but I don't like flirting
  • ACyclingAdmin
    ACyclingAdmin Posts: 444 Member
    MonkeyMel21 wrote: »
    Jonesingmucho wrote: »
    Flirting is a great cardio workout - There is STEADY STATE FLIRTING (SSF vs. SSC) like chatting very close while throwing in sexual innuendo at every opportunity... All the way up to HIGH INTENSITY INTERVAL FLIRTING (HIIF vs. HIIT) like making eye contact then looking away...then quickly looking back... touching someone on the arm and slowly teasing your finger tips across their skin... or even in business by just keeping your hand in the handshake too long while making eye contact and a sly grin...

    I don't know why, but this just turned me on.

    haha yeah.
  • SummerLovin0x
    SummerLovin0x Posts: 481 Member
    taylorromero84 wrote: »
    *fully hits on @SummerLovin0x lol

    You better
  • Pantera69
    Pantera69 Posts: 177 Member
    Im just shocked my thread made it this dam far :o lol
  • JSurita2
    JSurita2 Posts: 1,304 Member
    Pantera69 wrote: »
    Im just shocked my thread made it this dam far :o lol

    Goes to show you the majority of people here flirtatious. ;)
  • JSurita2
    JSurita2 Posts: 1,304 Member
    ....or bored, lol
  • PHStevenson
    PHStevenson Posts: 52 Member
    There is such a fine line of being friendly and being flirty. I am such a happy go lucky person and my husband says I cross the line sometimes. But i enjoy a good compliment and I know it would make someone else feel good too :)
  • vadersaysno
    vadersaysno Posts: 1,965 Member
    Okay...so im a little lost. Has someone on here been flirting with me? :smiley:
  • ACyclingAdmin
    ACyclingAdmin Posts: 444 Member
    PHStevenson wrote: »
    There is such a fine line of being friendly and being flirty. I am such a happy go lucky person and my husband says I cross the line sometimes. But i enjoy a good compliment and I know it would make someone else feel good too :)

    My wife lets me have at it because she thinks it's hilarious, I'm extremely introverted but I'm not shy at all so she thinks the contrast is funny. Introversion has absolutely nothing to do with shyness which is a common misunderstanding of introverts. It took her a while to get what it really means. She'll tell me hours later "do you realize you were flirting with that waitress right in front of me and she was flirting back" lol.
  • vadersaysno
    vadersaysno Posts: 1,965 Member
    thecyclingadmin wrote: »
    PHStevenson wrote: »
    There is such a fine line of being friendly and being flirty. I am such a happy go lucky person and my husband says I cross the line sometimes. But i enjoy a good compliment and I know it would make someone else feel good too :)

    My wife lets me have at it because she thinks it's hilarious, I'm extremely introverted but I'm not shy at all so she thinks the contrast is funny. Introversion has absolutely nothing to do with shyness which is a common misunderstanding of introverts. It took her a while to get what it really means. She'll tell me hours later "do you realize you were flirting with that waitress right in front of me and she was flirting back" lol.

    My wife is a flirt by nature and so am I. She totally flirts in front of me, but God help me if I flirt in front of her OR if some girl flirts at me in front of her!!

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