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  • Posts: 2,016 Member
    Most of the women I see flirt ALL the time!! Its all about if we (men) can pick up on it. Whether its the woman bending over at the gym to stretch RIGHT IN FRONT of u even tho there's more room elsewhere, or the ones smile and laugh at anything u say even if its not funny.. They always throw subtle hints out there but u have to have on ur flirty detection goggles to be able to pick up on them B) lol
  • Posts: 4,696 Member
    A man was flirting with me today at work. Co workers told me that it happens all the time. Apparently I am too dense to notice. I guess I just don't expect it to be what's going on. Now I am going to be uncomfortable.
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    airdale8263 wrote: »
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    you are??? okay with me...lol

    hahaha! You know how those thoughts pop in my head.... And usually come right out of my mouth. Or in this case, my finger tips. Oh and speaking of finger tips....
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    losinit4Jean wrote: »
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    and speaking of finger tips......hmmmm

    those thoughts....Do the "pop" in your head or........
  • Posts: 474 Member
    I've never been flirted with, ever. But I probably wouldn't like it, I get pretty uncomfortable in those kinds of situations.
  • Posts: 1,058 Member
    no. i grew up a fat kid, so i assume anyone who flirts with me is making fun of me like they did before.
  • Posts: 2,016 Member
    People saying they don't like being flirted with but I think its encouraging.. If someone gives u a compliment whether its about ur body or ur car etc.. U immediately feel more confident. So u mean to tell me that if I give u a compliment, ur gonna feel "uncomfortable"? Riiiiight.... Lol
  • Posts: 167 Member
    edited June 2015
    i love being flirted with when it happens in a blue moon but not only do i need to be careful anyway due to being married but i tend to get too attached to the other person emotionally if it goes on for a while especially if its online (i dont get out much lol)
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    taylorromero84 wrote: »
    People saying they don't like being flirted with but I think its encouraging.. If someone gives u a compliment whether its about ur body or ur car etc.. U immediately feel more confident. So u mean to tell me that if I give u a compliment, ur gonna feel "uncomfortable"? Riiiiight.... Lol


    I hate being complimented. I don't like the attention. I never believe what the person is saying. I am just waiting for the catch, because there must be one. I have a tendency to be dismissive and extremely awkward. I do a fast retreat.

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    I've never flirted & if I have I honestly wouldn't have guessed I was. I've also never had a guy flirt with me. I'm a bit of a tomboy & super shy too.
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    cklbrown wrote: »
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    I hate being complimented. I don't like the attention. I never believe what the person is saying. I am just waiting for the catch, because there must be one. I have a tendency to be dismissive and extremely awkward. I do a fast retreat.

    I like ur smile darling and ur glasses make u look very sophisticated.. Will u teach me a few things? (Flirty lol)
  • Posts: 335 Member
    Flirting is fun if it's mutual, otherwise it's uncomfortable.
  • Posts: 1,410 Member
    JustJewels18 wrote: »
    Flirting is fun if it's mutual, otherwise it's uncomfortable.

    Yes. If I am flirting I try to read the response and pull back if it seems unwanted. I don't tend to come on that strong though at least in person. Online is just for fun. Half those pics aren't even those people I'd guess.
  • Posts: 7,939 Member
    i dont notice so as long as Im not busy I dont care
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    pechepanda wrote: »
    i dont notice so as long as Im not busy I dont care

    I'm sure you get flirted with with those pretty brown eyes!
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    Jag7694 wrote: »
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    I'm sure you get flirted with with those pretty brown eyes!

    doubtful but thanks
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    See you just got flirted with lol
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    pechepanda wrote: »
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    doubtful but thanks

    I think that our own insecurities get in the way of recognizing flirting. If I don't think it then no one can think it. You do have beautiful brown eyes!
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    JustJewels18 wrote: »
    See you just got flirted with lol
    thats flirting?
    Jag7694 wrote: »
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    I think that our own insecurities get in the way of recognizing flirting. If I don't think it then no one can think it. You do have beautiful brown eyes!

    I think Im pretty great, Im just also a bit oblivious and I dont really speak lots very often so it would be very difficult to try to flirt with me.
    and thank you, =)
  • Posts: 4,248 Member
    I used to get flirted with all the time when I was younger and I loved it! I'm not usually in a situation now where I could be flirted with...I'm either at work, the gym, or out with my hubby and kids or just kids. Last time I went on a proper girly night out I did get flirted with, and it was flattering, but I did subtly show my wedding ring.
    I expect I'd get ignore now though lol. I'm not as attractive as I was.
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    pechepanda wrote: »
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    thats flirting?
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    I think Im pretty great, Im just also a bit oblivious and I dont really speak lots very often so it would be very difficult to try to flirt with me.
    and thank you, =)

    Yes love that's flirting :)
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    JustJewels18 wrote: »
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    Yes love that's flirting :)
    oh...i dont think i understand the concept of flirting very well
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    pechepanda wrote: »
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    oh...i dont think i understand the concept of flirting very well

    It did take kind of a turn. It started as flirting and changed. You're a doll! I promise you get flirted with probably daily!
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    Jag7694 wrote: »
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    It did take kind of a turn. It started as flirting and changed. You're a doll! I promise you get flirted with probably daily!
    I didnt really notice the change,
    Thank you, youre sweet =)
  • Posts: 9,224 Member
    I like being complimented and I compliment people a lot too. But there is such a thing as being too complimentary. I start getting uncomfortable when that happens and I begin to think the person is just messing with me or has some ulterior motive. I usually don't mind light flirtation, depending on the person, some people come on too strong or maybe I'm just used to very mild flirting.

    I don't get flirted with in real life a lot so I'm not used to it which is why I don't know how to react at times on-line. The few times I do get flirted with in RL: its un-welcomed attention from creepy married old men. My friends say I can't tell when people flirt with me and that's why guys have to be blatantly obvious and then I get awkward and retreat, it's a crazy cycle. I don't think that's true.

    I extremely dislike it when I give hints or don't respond warmly and people continue to flirt and I then have to resort to telling them straight away and be labelled as a manhater. :neutral:
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    PewterSky wrote: »
    I like being complimented and I compliment people a lot too. But there is such a thing as being too complimentary. I start getting uncomfortable when that happens and I begin to think the person is just messing with me or has some ulterior motive. I usually don't mind light flirtation, depending on the person, some people come on too strong or maybe I'm just used to very mild flirting.

    I don't get flirted with in real life a lot so I'm not used to it which is why I don't know how to react at times on-line. The few times I do get flirted with in RL: its un-welcomed attention from creepy married old men. My friends say I can't tell when people flirt with me and that's why guys have to be blatantly obvious and then I get awkward and retreat, it's a crazy cycle. I don't think that's true.

    I extremely dislike it when I give hints or don't respond warmly and people continue to flirt and I then have to resort to telling them straight away and be labelled as a manhater. :neutral:

    Yea we can be creepy! I never want anyone to feel uncomfortable. I like to flirt but all in fun. I hope i didn't offend you at anytime.
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    No, you didn't.
  • Posts: 2,016 Member
    @pechepanda girl stop acting like u don't know.. Smart as u are, u probably predict the flirt before it happens lol!!
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    taylorromero84 wrote: »
    @pechepanda girl stop acting like u don't know.. Smart as u are, u probably predict the flirt before it happens lol!!
    thanks sweetie, lol, I wish I was that smart, people are always nice and very complimentary for the most part, and I dont pay enough attention to people so its difficult to tell if theyre flirting of just having a conversation,
  • Posts: 2,758 Member
    @taylorromero84, like "The next flirt starts in 3..2..1" ? LOL

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