the one thing you miss about being fat?
gundon
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So just curious what's the one thing that you miss most about being unhealthy... Mine is zaxbys.. My god if I could have a chicken tender plate with hot honey mustard sauce calorie free I would punch a baby in the face
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Sleeping without a pillow between my knees!!! Damn bones, never felt them before. Ouch.6
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A massive pizza washed down with five beers!5
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Not thinking about what I eat, and cake.13
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When I was fat, my cat Tigertom was alive. He would purr into my neck and tangle himself in my hair. He would never leave my side, all 17 years.
He died three years ago. I lost my weight right before he died.
So he is what I miss most about being fat. Other than that, I can't think of a damn thing.12 -
I'm in on the pillow thing too. To live without the knees and hips getting in the way. Also. Eating cake without a second thought. I never felt guilt on eating, before I lost the weight.. So I think going out to a fancy tea house and having a over the top cake with a full fat milkshake!4
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Being able to eat whatever I want in general.6
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Mine is people leaving me alone.
I'm not completely antisocial, but the weirdos on public transport hassle me more than what they did when I was 40kg/88lb lighter. Crazy man smelling of week old cigarettes, go annoy another lady and let me read my damn book. You didn't notice me 6 months ago, and I'd like it to stay that way.7 -
The Chubby Invisibility cloak has its good and bad side. It is nice to walk into a room and just observe and be left alone when you are overweight - quite pleasant in the geek gaming scene which I am a big part of. Now that I have shed a bit, suddenly the men are all strange around me (these are geek men, they don't get flirty when they find you attractive, they get terrified and act like serial killers) and the women are hostile.19
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The Chubby Invisibility cloak has its good and bad side. It is nice to walk into a room and just observe and be left alone when you are overweight...
^I agree. I had to adjust my self-view when I lost weight and not get hostile myself - It took a while to realize the attention was positive.0 -
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same - being able to eat what ever and when ever I fancied.... and no loose skin!0
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Not thinking about what I eat, and cake.jennifer_417 wrote: »Being able to eat whatever I want in general.
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The food and amount you might eat, it still tastes nice and always will.0
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Just not exercising any self control.3
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Nothing - absolutely nothing11
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I desperately miss sleeping comfortably. It seems no matter what I do now I wake up aching.2
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I was going to say "excuses", because I used to have all sorts of excuses for not doing stuff, because I was fat. But I deleted that, because I don't miss having excuses.
My boobs are kind of floppy though. that's sad.3 -
I miss having a fuller bottom like Kim Kardashian...now that I'm a lot smaller 80lbs it's not as round.
I miss being able to eat without family gawking/commenting in amazement...I have a healthy appetite
I miss how no one commented on my weight when I was heavier1 -
Eating whatever I had the slightest desire for...1
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Being able to eat whatever took my fancy.0
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I miss being able to fly under the radar.
I'm constantly being watched. What am I eating? How much? Have I gained any weight back? What workouts I'm doing to stay fit? What am I wearing etc.
The attention I get from strangers (the stares, random conversations etc.) can get overwhelming too.
When I think about it though, I'd rather deal with that occasionally than deal with the problems being 80 lbs overweight can cause, but I do miss being invisible most times.6 -
As nice as it was to not be constantly mindful of what I'm putting in my mouth and to eat what I felt like eating at pretty much any time, I don't miss it. There's something that's so confidence-boosting when you actually control what you're eating--when your brain says "ya know, not going to have that second and third slice of pizza"--that doesn't happen with me when I didn't control my food. The rationalizations I made while shoving X and Y into my mouth started to just. get. me. down.
Even though that very first meal on the very first day of my losing-weight journey I didn't weigh an ounce less than I did the day before, when I tracked my food and said "no" to just a couple things--the confidence just started building and building--and hasn't stopped. The confidence was way more addicting than my desire to eat something massive, rationalize it, and feel guilty afterwards.
I'll take THAT any day over whatever 2nd or 3rd, or even 1st, thing I might have missed.
There were a few nice clothes I had when I was 75 pounds heavier that now I just had to give away....maybe that, but I can deal!4 -
CarlydogsMom wrote: »There were a few nice clothes I had when I was 75 pounds heavier that now I just had to give away....maybe that, but I can deal!
I understand!
Also I have a pair of really cute knee-high leather boots that are too big and made for wide calves. I lost 2 shoe sizes and tons of inches in my calves. I just can't give them away just yet, but I will one day...I hope!
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This may seem a little rough, but...
Walking down a Manhattan or Brooklyn street, and when someone is walking on the wrong side, rude, or just oblivious; or a group of six across rufusing to allow me to pass; having the bulk to send another person to the ground. Now it's I who's going to likely end up there.4 -
I can only think of one thing.. Not caring a bit about how I look.
Now I'm starting to care again and I'm not used to it anymore. Haha.1 -
I still have a long way to go but I miss not being constantly harassed. It's always happened to me from my early teens, then I gained a lot of weight and it petered out to just the odd catcall but the more I lose the more it's ramping up again. Catcalled from cars, vans, on the street, at the supermarket and it's honestly tiresome.
That and constantly pigging out on my favourite foods! But I actually feel a lot better being in control of myself in that respect.2 -
I'm always cold now, I miss my heat from blubber7
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Rainboots80 wrote: »I'm always cold now, I miss my heat from blubber
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I don't miss anything about being fat. But it's definitely harder to stay thin.4
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