ok ladies, what's a good way to a womens heart???

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  • dave8623
    dave8623 Posts: 61 Member
    misfit6812 wrote: »
    Create a routine. Lol... call her every night at like 8pm or something and make sure you text her every morning! And always pick her up and make the effort of taking her with your car. [/quote

    Good suggestions, thank you. But if I text her that much wouldn't she think i bug?
  • dave8623
    dave8623 Posts: 61 Member
    onmyweigh_ wrote: »
    Feed me and tell me I'm pretty

    food and compliments???? :)

  • Alatariel75
    Alatariel75 Posts: 18,329 Member
    The trick to getting a woman's heart is to realise that women are unique, individual creatures and no arbitrary list of things on an internet forum are going to help you get one. Some love lots of texts, others would think you're a creeper. Some like routine, others would be bored stupid. Some want you to cook, others want you to stay the hell out of their kitchen. etc, etc etc.

    The way to truly make a connection is to actually make a connection with someone you like for being them, and who likes you for being you. Everything else is a recipe for fakedom and singletown.
  • misfit6812
    misfit6812 Posts: 11 Member
    dave8623 wrote: »
    misfit6812 wrote: »
    Create a routine. Lol... call her every night at like 8pm or something and make sure you text her every morning! And always pick her up and make the effort of taking her with your car. [/quote

    Good suggestions, thank you. But if I text her that much wouldn't she think i bug?

    if you text her all day then yeah that's bugging.
    But if you text her once in the morning and call atleast once in the night that's not. It shows you think of her and care.
    When you get in the routine she will
    Wonder what happend to you if you don't even call her after you miss just a day...
    lol serious
  • misfit6812
    misfit6812 Posts: 11 Member
    Michael_Lucas wrote: »
    misfit6812 wrote: »
    Create a routine. Lol... call her every night at like 8pm or something and make sure you text her every morning! And always pick her up and make the effort of taking her with your car.

    Doing something like this will make her think you're boring and is also another one way ticket to the friend zone


    Not if the girl is looking to settle down for a relationship
  • Alatariel75
    Alatariel75 Posts: 18,329 Member
    misfit6812 wrote: »
    Michael_Lucas wrote: »
    misfit6812 wrote: »
    Create a routine. Lol... call her every night at like 8pm or something and make sure you text her every morning! And always pick her up and make the effort of taking her with your car.

    Doing something like this will make her think you're boring and is also another one way ticket to the friend zone


    Not if the girl is looking to settle down for a relationship

    You're doing great at wildly generalising the wants and likes of women...
  • dave8623
    dave8623 Posts: 61 Member
    misfit6812 wrote: »
    dave8623 wrote: »
    misfit6812 wrote: »
    Create a routine. Lol... call her every night at like 8pm or something and make sure you text her every morning! And always pick her up and make the effort of taking her with your car. [/quote

    Good suggestions, thank you. But if I text her that much wouldn't she think i bug?

    if you text her all day then yeah that's bugging.
    But if you text her once in the morning and call atleast once in the night that's not. It shows you think of her and care.
    When you get in the routine she will
    Wonder what happend to you if you don't even call her after you miss just a day...
    lol serious

    Lol really? Then I should definitely be consistent.
    Now I just gotta find someone.lol
  • Hey_Its_That_One_Guy
    Hey_Its_That_One_Guy Posts: 21,763 Member
    edited August 2015
    misfit6812 wrote: »
    Michael_Lucas wrote: »
    misfit6812 wrote: »
    Create a routine. Lol... call her every night at like 8pm or something and make sure you text her every morning! And always pick her up and make the effort of taking her with your car.

    Doing something like this will make her think you're boring and is also another one way ticket to the friend zone


    Not if the girl is looking to settle down for a relationship

    If a girl is interested in you and wants to be in a relationship she isn't some magical mystery puzzle to solve. She'll let you know, it's pretty obvious.
  • dave8623
    dave8623 Posts: 61 Member
    Alatariel75 wrote: »
    The trick to getting a woman's heart is to realise that women are unique, individual creatures and no arbitrary list of things on an internet forum are going to help you get one. Some love lots of texts, others would think you're a creeper. Some like routine, others would be bored stupid. Some want you to cook, others want you to stay the hell out of their kitchen. etc, etc etc.

    The way to truly make a connection is to actually make a connection with someone you like for being them, and who likes you for being you. Everything else is a recipe for fakedom and singletown.

    very true
  • misfit6812
    misfit6812 Posts: 11 Member
    Alatariel75 wrote: »
    The trick to getting a woman's heart is to realise that women are unique, individual creatures and no arbitrary list of things on an internet forum are going to help you get one. Some love lots of texts, others would think you're a creeper. Some like routine, others would be bored stupid. Some want you to cook, others want you to stay the hell out of their kitchen. etc, etc etc.

    The way to truly make a connection is to actually make a connection with someone you like for being them, and who likes you for being you. Everything else is a recipe for fakedom and singletown.

    You're genius! Discussion closed....
  • Hey_Its_That_One_Guy
    Hey_Its_That_One_Guy Posts: 21,763 Member
    Basically thread asking for advice on women ends with woman telling you that you're SOL. Sounds about par for the course. Another mystery solved, great job Scooby and the gang.
  • lilbitoftrouble
    lilbitoftrouble Posts: 2,052 Member
    Honesty and a good sense of humor plain and simple.
  • katnroyal1987
    katnroyal1987 Posts: 3,449 Member
    dave8623 wrote: »
    katnroyal1987 wrote: »
    dave8623 wrote: »
    katnroyal1987 wrote: »
    Feed me chocolate!
    Chocolate??? That's was does it for you??
    Preferably with peanut butter in it!!!!

    Chocolate & peanut butter??? ok cool, note taken lol

    Ohhhhhh and hot dogs
  • Becka4Real
    Becka4Real Posts: 1,527 Member
    Don't do anything or act in any way that you are not willing to do/ act 10 years later. Don't trick her into thinking you are romantic/sweet when it's not your true nature
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  • glovepuppet
    glovepuppet Posts: 1,710 Member
    edited August 2015
    dear certain men,

    women aren't rejecting you because you're not rich & hung, they're rejecting you because you're bitter and have no respect for us.

    dear thread starter,

    each guy I dated had something different that attracted me. usually a passion or talent that intrigued me, sometimes i couldn't put my finger on what it was that fascinated me, sometimes I just felt comfortable enough to relax and be myself with them. whatever the attraction, it stopped as soon as I saw any sign of nastiness or game playing. yuck!

  • dgoodie92
    dgoodie92 Posts: 624 Member
    An irish accent like mine
  • dave8623
    dave8623 Posts: 61 Member
    katnroyal1987 wrote: »
    dave8623 wrote: »
    katnroyal1987 wrote: »
    dave8623 wrote: »
    katnroyal1987 wrote: »
    Feed me chocolate!
    Chocolate??? That's was does it for you??
    Preferably with peanut butter in it!!!!

    Chocolate & peanut butter??? ok cool, note taken lol

    Ohhhhhh and hot dogs

    hot dogs??? Toppings??? Lol

  • dave8623
    dave8623 Posts: 61 Member
    Becka4prez wrote: »
    Don't do anything or act in any way that you are not willing to do/ act 10 years later. Don't trick her into thinking you are romantic/sweet when it's not your true nature

    Hmmmm good point :)
  • stunningalmond
    stunningalmond Posts: 275 Member
    Remembering things she says and things that are important to her.
  • sw33tp3a11
    sw33tp3a11 Posts: 4,646 Member
    For me honesty & loyalty Also don't tell a girl you feel a certain way then you go and sweet talk to another one at the same time.
  • dave8623
    dave8623 Posts: 61 Member
    dgoodie92 wrote: »
    An irish accent like mine
    sw33tp3a11 wrote: »
    For me honesty & loyalty Also don't tell a girl you feel a certain way then you go and sweet talk to another one at the same time.

    Hmmmmm.... Deep!
  • dave8623
    dave8623 Posts: 61 Member
    stunningalmond wrote: »
    Remembering things she says and things that are important to her.

    Definitely! Listen.
  • funfitat42
    funfitat42 Posts: 1,176 Member
    For me it's someone who is strong enough to make me feel safe but also soft spoken and gentle
  • Andrea761
    Andrea761 Posts: 19 Member
    Be honest, faithful, funny and keep in touch-it's proving elusive I tell ya!
  • brettb97
    brettb97 Posts: 240 Member
    Keep her laughing is good....but not when having bedroom fun, that might not be a good sign :)
  • Alatariel75
    Alatariel75 Posts: 18,329 Member
    brettb97 wrote: »
    Keep her laughing is good....but not when having bedroom fun, that might not be a good sign :)

    Depends, I think being able to have a laugh in the bedroom is the sign of a very comfortable relationship. Let's face it - sometimes sex is just funny.
  • brettb97
    brettb97 Posts: 240 Member
    I agree, but both need to be laughing :):)
  • Alatariel75
    Alatariel75 Posts: 18,329 Member
    brettb97 wrote: »
    I agree, but both need to be laughing :):)

    Very true :D
  • PurringMyrrh
    PurringMyrrh Posts: 5,276 Member
    edited August 2015
    Alatariel75 wrote: »
    brettb97 wrote: »
    Keep her laughing is good....but not when having bedroom fun, that might not be a good sign :)

    Depends, I think being able to have a laugh in the bedroom is the sign of a very comfortable relationship. Let's face it - sometimes sex is just funny.
    Laughing in the bedroom is the best. One winter night, I was all the way under the blankets taking care of some business for my then man. He lifted up the covers after a little while and jokingly said "Need air yet?" but I thought he said "Are we there yet?". Commence five to ten minutes of us both laughing until breathless and crying...then back to finish of course.
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