SAHM 6/1-6/30

Katie-Your swimsuit is very cute! Happy Birthday too!

I am a SAHM to identical twin boys- 18 months old- with Down syndrome. My boys are COMPLETELY amazing and wonderful but I find myself really struggling somedays to put me in the line to take care of- let alone putting me first! I worked two very active jobs before I had kids and I am finding it WAY more difficult to lose weight now that I am home. How do you find the time to exercise and do dishes and play and do the physical therapy and speech therapy and occupational therapy and support the hubby who is in school and working 3rd shift?? I never thought it would be so hard to balance everything. I am NOT whining! On the contrary I feel ecstatic there is a group for SAHM on MFP!

My current weight is 206 and my first goals is 199. I think my ultimate goal is 145 though I think I set it at 135 on my ticker.

Hi girls, Can I join in? I'm a SAHM mama of five kids, ages 1 to 8. For the first time in 9 years I'm taking the time to take care of my body (for some reason other than it's incubating someone else. LOL)

MrsMatt, I've got a third-shift hubby too, and since I'm homeschooling the kids, that takes up some time and energy. None of my kids are special needs, but I've found the same problems with trying to do workouts -- or even prepare healthy food for myself, or drink water, or even go to the bathroom! -- with them around, needing something from me periodically.

Doing shorter workouts can help. Right now I can manage to squeeze the 30 Day Shred in in the afternoon, which is 20 minutes, but I just got a Moms Into Fitness Bootcamp DVD that has several 10 minute work outs, because many moms just don't have a longer block of time than that. But maybe you could do some in the morning, and some in the evening - spread it out over the day, but still get the time in? Doing work outs that involve your boys might help too, there are mom-and-kid yoga videos, etc ... even vigorous play with them counts as calorie burn, if you're getting your heart rate up. Just do what you can, and let the rest go. Your marriage is important, and of course your kids are highest priority - but there are almost certainly ways you can take care of yourself too. The juggling can be tough -- or at least it feels that way, it feels like there's just no way to do it, and then it's easy to get discouraged before you ever really get started. That's the story of the last several years for me! But it can happen, just keep doing what you can, even if it's just 10 push ups before your shower, and you'll figure it out as you go along.

Hi!

We're military, too! We're stationed in NEW JERSEY (anyone else?!)

I'm a SAHM and over the last 4+ years I've seem to have taken the back seat to putting myself anywhere near the top of the pecking order. I think it is common, right?! Well, I was reading a book a couple of weeks ago, and one of the characters was talking about putting herself first and she called it the, "summer of ME". So, I, too, was inspired to do the same. I have a girls' weekend coming up in the middle of July and I decided that I was NOT going to be the only one in a skirted bathing suit, so I put my walking shoes on and officially started the summer of ME!

I began working out using the Slim in 6 series a few weeks ago, started counting my calories and walking 3+ miles. I've already lost 4 pounds, toned up, and am feeling GREAT! The summer of ME is off to a great start!

Anyway, it's hard to stay motivated some days, but I have a goal in mind and I'm going to reach it! Good luck to everyone on here and hopefully we can keep each other going!

Morning Everyone!

Katie- I really like your swimsuit! Then again I always like other people's swimsuits and dislike mine.

KC- My husband is in the Navy too and we are stationed in San Diego...tough I know. He's a lifer so we are out here for a while.

Barb- Props to you for giving up pop!

Welcome to all the new comers to the board!

I don't know what has been up with me lately but I am SO tired lately! I worked out yesterday and usually that gives me energy but this time it didn't. I think I am due for that time of the month but I am usually never this tired. Today Is an off day so I won't be working out but I might do some yoga before bed.

My son is on a Toy Story kick and we have watched Toy Story & Toy Story 2 over and over. He sings along to the songs...hilarious to hear. We recently got a trailer that attaches to my bike so we might go for a bike ride today. It's beautiful outside today!

Well, I better eat some breakfast. Hope everyone has a marvelous day!

Thanks Katie and mama! So far, I'm doing great again! Hubby and I went out to lunch this afteroon, and I ordered water instead of soda! Yay me! I can do this! :drinker:

Pop is my weakness too... well actually just Pepsi!!! I've gone 5 days without Pepsi - I did buy Pepsi Max (0 calories) but only drank half a can, either my body didn't want it or its just not the same.

I joined Curves today (I got a really good deal for 3 months) and went in for my initial assessment today - and as I knew I would be... I am in within my weight, BMI and Body Fat for my height - so its all about toning what I got. I was a little worried that I wasn't going to get a good workout here, but all the machines are resisitance and double positive machines (work 2 muscle areas) and it really is about how much you put into it. You give it your all and you're going to feel it - so I am excited to get to my workout tomorrow and see where this takes me.

I cut out sprite ~ i was drinking like 8 a day! YIKES! now i've replaced it with water and haven't missed it at all! i will still have one at dinner every once in a while, but only 1. it's mind over matter and YOU CAN DO IT!

Thanks Victorious_One! I hope you and your husband enjoy his birthday! Don't get discouraged ~ scales are a funny thing! Take a deep breath and continue on your journey! Today is another day to get it right...and, so is tomorrow!

HeatherFeather - Let us know how Curves goes. They've been expensive in my neck of the woods so I haven't had the opportunity to check them out.

Yes, Curves can be pricey, fortunately I was able to get a 3 month unlimited access for 79.00 and seeing how its just a 5 minute walk away - I couldn't resist. I was able to take advantage of this through a WAG JAG deal - not sure if you have them in your area - but they have amazing deals. I was also able to get one for Kettlecore Bootcamp as well (8 weeks) for 59.00 - that starts at the end of June.

Have not read all the posts maybe I will have time later. Today was the last day of school for the kids. They are all happy about it except dd1 she is sad. I say bring on the summer let's see if we can keep them busy and happy this time around. :laugh: Well got to go the hubby is getting grumpy at me. :laugh:

HOYL BATMAN AND ROBIN..
I am on Day 2 of the 30 day slimdown and MAN JILLIAN hates me..I know she does lmao.

Shannon, I've been there! I had to go back to work full time when my baby was 9 weeks old. I pray too that you'll be able to be home and be a full-time mom. It really is a blessing.

I haven't read everyone else's updates. I've been too busy walking and drinking water. Can you even believe it? It's a miracle! :bigsmile: I'm still trying to break through the 150 lb barrier and get to my goal of 148. It seems illusive, but I have to believe I will get there soon.

Yesterday was the last day of school. Today my daughter spent the day with her best school buddy. I've already got activities lined up for her all month. I think our only "bonding" day will be tomorrow. My baby's growing up!

BlueRose/Barb, congratulations! That's a great milestone.

Today, I'm headed to the pool with my kid. I'm dreading it, but it's a beautiful day and I'm out of excuses. What's wrong with me? I love to swim, but I hate going to the pool here. Too many people around, I think.

OK, have a great day and a great weekend!