Let's have an actual chat - no "would you date/*kitten*/marry/add the person below you" games

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  • OneHundredToLose
    OneHundredToLose Posts: 8,523 Member
    Wondering why I haven't seen this thread until now. The "forum games" get tiresome after a while, especially the ones that are 300+ pages of yes or no answers.

    I'm using MFP to lose 100lbs. I have been overweight most of my life, and not because of a health condition. The reason is, quite simply, that up until recently I didn't care about my weight and kept convincing myself that I'd get around to losing weight at some point, but it wasn't important right now. I suddenly realized how out of control it has gotten though, and now I'm going to do something about it. No more excuses, no more waiting.
  • PandaBWA
    PandaBWA Posts: 58 Member
    Wondering why I haven't seen this thread until now. The "forum games" get tiresome after a while, especially the ones that are 300+ pages of yes or no answers.

    I'm using MFP to lose 100lbs. I have been overweight most of my life, and not because of a health condition. The reason is, quite simply, that up until recently I didn't care about my weight and kept convincing myself that I'd get around to losing weight at some point, but it wasn't important right now. I suddenly realized how out of control it has gotten though, and now I'm going to do something about it. No more excuses, no more waiting.

    My life, right there. I'd always "lose weight someday". Hah... Oh, the lies we tell ourselves. I guess it's true now, though.
  • OneHundredToLose
    OneHundredToLose Posts: 8,523 Member
    PandaBWA wrote: »
    Wondering why I haven't seen this thread until now. The "forum games" get tiresome after a while, especially the ones that are 300+ pages of yes or no answers.

    I'm using MFP to lose 100lbs. I have been overweight most of my life, and not because of a health condition. The reason is, quite simply, that up until recently I didn't care about my weight and kept convincing myself that I'd get around to losing weight at some point, but it wasn't important right now. I suddenly realized how out of control it has gotten though, and now I'm going to do something about it. No more excuses, no more waiting.

    My life, right there. I'd always "lose weight someday". Hah... Oh, the lies we tell ourselves. I guess it's true now, though.

    Exactly. I always told myself it wasn't that out of hand, I wasn't that big, etc. Then one day not too long ago I stepped on the scale and saw a number I never thought I'd see.
  • PandaBWA
    PandaBWA Posts: 58 Member
    Exactly. I always told myself it wasn't that out of hand, I wasn't that big, etc. Then one day not too long ago I stepped on the scale and saw a number I never thought I'd see.

    Yeah... I kept telling myself "I'm not 200 yet, I've still got a way to go." Yeah, I'm only 20 pounds away from that, SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO, time to work on it.
  • OneHundredToLose
    OneHundredToLose Posts: 8,523 Member
    Now that I'm really trying to do this though, it's not anywhere near as bad as I imagined, and I'm already seeing results on the scale. I know I can do it, it's just a matter of not giving in to urges and temptations.
  • paul199madrid
    paul199madrid Posts: 413 Member
    Hey everyone how's it going ?
  • PandaBWA
    PandaBWA Posts: 58 Member
    Now that I'm really trying to do this though, it's not anywhere near as bad as I imagined, and I'm already seeing results on the scale. I know I can do it, it's just a matter of not giving in to urges and temptations.

    Yeah, it's not really that bad!
  • PandaBWA
    PandaBWA Posts: 58 Member
    Hey everyone how's it going ?
    Great here. Settling on my couch with the last of my snacks in my calorie allotment of the day, reading a book. Kids are asleep, I don't have to work, hubby isn't home yet... life is goooooood right now.
  • paul199madrid
    paul199madrid Posts: 413 Member
    Right glad to hear !!!
  • paul199madrid
    paul199madrid Posts: 413 Member
    Ehhh I'm alright just at work have 2 more days left then I get laid off
  • Crimson_Fire
    Crimson_Fire Posts: 2,504 Member
    Hi. I'm fat and I can't sleep. So I'm on mfp. :)

    Yall having a good Friday?
  • PurringMyrrh
    PurringMyrrh Posts: 5,276 Member
    Nah, still at work. In 4 hours it will be a great Saturday morning though!
  • PurringMyrrh
    PurringMyrrh Posts: 5,276 Member
    Ehhh I'm alright just at work have 2 more days left then I get laid off

    Laid off sucks. Is it a good thing or bad thing for you? Anything lined up?
  • suzreen
    suzreen Posts: 2,455 Member
    Ehhh I'm alright just at work have 2 more days left then I get laid off

    Are you worried, excited, happy, or what about getting laid off? Will you look for another job right away or take a break?
  • suzreen
    suzreen Posts: 2,455 Member
    Hi. I'm fat and I can't sleep. So I'm on mfp. :)

    Yall having a good Friday?

    hahaha! Yep, Friday is always good, Saturday & Sunday even better. It's those Mondays that really bite...

  • suzreen
    suzreen Posts: 2,455 Member
    I got laid off once, and was actually relieved. I really didn't like the job much, but didn't want to quit because I hadn't been there very long, and wanted to keep a stable work history on my resume. I couldn't believe how the weight lifted off of me when they told me. I was upset at first, then I was darn happy. They later offered to hire me back,and I said nope.
  • paul199madrid
    paul199madrid Posts: 413 Member
    Ehhh I'm alright just at work have 2 more days left then I get laid off

    Laid off sucks. Is it a good thing or bad thing for you? Anything lined up?

    Not really good cause I have a family but oh well something new to look forward to
  • PurringMyrrh
    PurringMyrrh Posts: 5,276 Member
    It would be hard to feel secure there after that anyhow.
  • paul199madrid
    paul199madrid Posts: 413 Member
    suzreen wrote: »
    Ehhh I'm alright just at work have 2 more days left then I get laid off

    Are you worried, excited, happy, or what about getting laid off? Will you look for another job right away or take a break?

    I have no idea my wife wants to work so maybe just stay at home dad ??
  • synchkat
    synchkat Posts: 37,368 Member
    Yikes Paul hope you find something quickly
  • Yogi_warrior
    Yogi_warrior Posts: 5,464 Member
    Ehhh I'm alright just at work have 2 more days left then I get laid off

    Sorry, it sucks! Try to do something on your own if its possible while you are looking. Good luck.
  • paul199madrid
    paul199madrid Posts: 413 Member
    Thanks everyone I'm sure *kitten* will get better
  • tylahquartez323
    tylahquartez323 Posts: 1,478 Member
    Keep positive thoughts and good will come ur way
  • paul199madrid
    paul199madrid Posts: 413 Member
    Thanks bro really means a lot
  • PandaBWA
    PandaBWA Posts: 58 Member
    suzreen wrote: »
    Ehhh I'm alright just at work have 2 more days left then I get laid off

    Are you worried, excited, happy, or what about getting laid off? Will you look for another job right away or take a break?

    I have no idea my wife wants to work so maybe just stay at home dad ??

    My husband was a SAHD for a year. Whatever works for you both! How old are your kids? :) I have a preschooler and a toddler.
  • PandaBWA
    PandaBWA Posts: 58 Member
    It was going to be an awesome Saturday, but work came in. Ahhh! Now I'm going to be stressed about getting it all done on deadline.
  • paul199madrid
    paul199madrid Posts: 413 Member
    PandaBWA wrote: »
    suzreen wrote: »
    Ehhh I'm alright just at work have 2 more days left then I get laid off

    Are you worried, excited, happy, or what about getting laid off? Will you look for another job right away or take a break?

    I have no idea my wife wants to work so maybe just stay at home dad ??

    My husband was a SAHD for a year. Whatever works for you both! How old are your kids? :) I have a preschooler and a toddler.

    I have 3 kids 6 year old 2 year old and a 7 month
  • PandaBWA
    PandaBWA Posts: 58 Member
    PandaBWA wrote: »
    suzreen wrote: »
    Ehhh I'm alright just at work have 2 more days left then I get laid off

    Are you worried, excited, happy, or what about getting laid off? Will you look for another job right away or take a break?

    I have no idea my wife wants to work so maybe just stay at home dad ??

    My husband was a SAHD for a year. Whatever works for you both! How old are your kids? :) I have a preschooler and a toddler.

    I have 3 kids 6 year old 2 year old and a 7 month

    Oh, fun! We are 3.5 and 10 months old here. Hopefully all works out well for you guys!
  • Mezzie1024
    Mezzie1024 Posts: 380 Member
    Hello. I thought I'd jump in.

    I'm just going to say to Paul... every friend of mine who has done the SAHD thing for a period of time has loved it. I know that as a kid I would have loved to see my dad more, too. Even if you're actively looking for a job during this time and it ends up being short, I hope you're able to create some amazing memories for yourself and your kids.
  • paul199madrid
    paul199madrid Posts: 413 Member
    Mezzie1024 wrote: »
    Hello. I thought I'd jump in.

    I'm just going to say to Paul... every friend of mine who has done the SAHD thing for a period of time has loved it. I know that as a kid I would have loved to see my dad more, too. Even if you're actively looking for a job during this time and it ends up being short, I hope you're able to create some amazing memories for yourself and your kids.

    Thank you!!! and yes it's gonna be amazing to be home with my kids especially cause my rotating shift work and my 7day work week where I could barely see them. It will be tough just have to stay positive.
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