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    "Too heavy" he said to me

    Posts: 85 Member
    edited November 2024 in Introduce Yourself
    After 4 months of constantly seeing each other (no sex involved).... He decided I was too heavy to have a relationship with me... Big shock since he saw what I looked like before he met me. Sooo confused?!?! We had so much in common and alway had a blast when we were together.

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    • Posts: 13 Member
      You'll show him! Stay on track and don't give up!
    • Posts: 7 Member
      Sounds like you dodged a bullet there!

      If you want to lose weight it should be for you, not for some d-bag.
    • Posts: 1,137 Member
      You dodged a bullet. He's not worth your time or energy. Don't try to figure him out.
    • Posts: 18,748 Member
      Sounds like he wanted out and went the cowards way by trying to make it your fault. You dodged a bullet for sure.
    • Posts: 2,765 Member
      Not so much in common as you thought. His loss friend. Find a guy that likes you for YOU, not just how you look.
    • Posts: 85 Member
      Thank you
    • Posts: 85 Member
      Alatariel75 wrote: »
      Sounds like he wanted out and went the cowards way by trying to make it your fault. You dodged a bullet for sure.

      Yes I think you're right
    • Posts: 85 Member
      edited September 2015
      Wow 3 people said the same thing!
      Thanks!
    • Posts: 190 Member
      edited September 2015
      Just forget that dude.
    • Posts: 830 Member
      edited September 2015
      :/ please elaborate the exact words he told you , like "yeah you're actually too heavy so no thank you? "
    • Posts: 5 Member
      That is ridiculous. You don't need someone in your life that is willing to judge you purely based on appearance. I am sure you are beautiful. Keep at it girl. Keep motivated

      <3.
    • Posts: 85 Member
      This was the tex I received from him "I really do enjoy hanging out with you and you are lots of fun. There's a lot of characteristics about you that I do like. However I'm afraid of myself. I've never dated anyone heavier than me. I'm not sure how I would handle that in the long run. That may not be fair to you. that may not be fair to you. And perhaps I'm the one with the problem.
      karyabc wrote: »
      :/ please elaborate the exact words he told you , like "yeah you're actually too heave so no thank you? "
    • Posts: 950 Member
      This is about him, not about you. Some deserving guy is going to be very lucky to have you in his life!
    • Posts: 85 Member
      Thank you for your kind words!
    • Posts: 15,573 Member
      what a turd
    • Posts: 85 Member
      It hurt like hell what he said, but I have a feeling is going to motivate me to keep loosing weight
    • Posts: 15,573 Member
      tcarmen85 wrote: »
      It hurt like hell what he said, but I have a feeling is going to motivate me to keep loosing weight

      If you want it, do it for yourself! You have nothing to prove to anyone else :)
    • Posts: 12 Member
      edited September 2015
      If he isn't in love with the inside, then don't let him be in love with the outside! :) So glad he was honest! Agree- Dodged a nasty bullet. Onto a better one
    • Posts: 830 Member
      tcarmen85 wrote: »
      This was the tex I received from him "I really do enjoy hanging out with you and you are lots of fun. There's a lot of characteristics about you that I do like. However I'm afraid of myself. I've never dated anyone heavier than me. I'm not sure how I would handle that in the long run. That may not be fair to you. that may not be fair to you. And perhaps I'm the one with the problem.
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      Facepalm- a text? @&amp;#%$! I'm all for everyone set their mind to lose weight for ourself and nothing more butttt girl in the name of all the female's out there bite his *kitten* with revenge , what an effing coward he admits that he likes you but won't give it a chance?

      Honey he indeed made you a favor , the only thing for sure is that he is the one with the problem.

      I'm sorry you have to go through this, stick around and enjoy the forum !
    • Posts: 85 Member
      Thank you and I will
    • Posts: 830 Member
      *And clearly I suck 100% at quoting :D
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    • Posts: 85 Member
      Yes I'm glad he was honest
      phoenix26z wrote: »
      If he isn't in love with the inside, then don't let him be in love with the outside! :) So glad he was honest! Agree- Dodged a nasty bullet. Onto a better one

    • Posts: 18 Member
      Alatariel75 wrote: »
      Sounds like he wanted out and went the cowards way by trying to make it your fault. You dodged a bullet for sure.

      ^^^This

    • Posts: 85 Member
      Me too lol
      karyabc wrote: »
      *And clearly I suck 100% at quoting :D

    • Posts: 85 Member
      Yes I need to move on since this did happen 6 days ago
      catt952 wrote: »
      Just forget that dude.

    • Posts: 85 Member
      Yes I will, thank you
      dfwbeat wrote: »
      You'll show him! Stay on track and don't give up!

    • Posts: 85 Member
      Lmfao!!
      arditarose wrote: »
      what a turd

    • Posts: 85 Member
      Yes I agree.
      xena80s wrote: »
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      ^^^This

    • Posts: 85 Member
      Yes you're right!
      Annr wrote: »
      Not so much in common as you thought. His loss friend. Find a guy that likes you for YOU, not just how you look.

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