Confession Time! ((ABSOLUTELY NO JUDGEMENT))

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  • BodyByBex
    BodyByBex Posts: 3,685 Member
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    bw_conway wrote: »
    I judge people who go the the gym religiously 4-5 days a week but never seem to lose weight or otherwise appear fit as having bad eating habits that are completely undoing their hard work.

    My husband went to the gym with me for a little while before he changed his eating habits. But I have a few people in my gym whom I have seen there regularly since I joined and they always do the same machine for 30 minutes and leave and I can think of two women and one man who have gained fat. (I have gained weight lifting, but I look better.) I guess doing something is better than doing nothing, but it isn't doing much good if you let that thirty minutes on the treadmill give you permission to eat all the foods, then I judge you as doing it wrong.

    SSP says he gets in the mindset of "Oh I totally worked out today! I DESERVE that extra large coke and fries!"

    He also knows it is the most unhelpful thought he gets when he exercises.

    I definitely used to be that way. Now I just eat within my calories and rarely exercise... :disappointed:
  • MelissaPhippsFeagins
    MelissaPhippsFeagins Posts: 8,063 Member
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    bw_conway wrote: »
    I judge people who go the the gym religiously 4-5 days a week but never seem to lose weight or otherwise appear fit as having bad eating habits that are completely undoing their hard work.

    My husband went to the gym with me for a little while before he changed his eating habits. But I have a few people in my gym whom I have seen there regularly since I joined and they always do the same machine for 30 minutes and leave and I can think of two women and one man who have gained fat. (I have gained weight lifting, but I look better.) I guess doing something is better than doing nothing, but it isn't doing much good if you let that thirty minutes on the treadmill give you permission to eat all the foods, then I judge you as doing it wrong.

    SSP says he gets in the mindset of "Oh I totally worked out today! I DESERVE that extra large coke and fries!"

    He also knows it is the most unhelpful thought he gets when he exercises.

    I definitely used to be that way. Now I just eat within my calories and rarely exercise... :disappointed:

    I think I judge because I was guilty so for my first year on MFP, most of my exercise was walking. Once you're in the habit of controlling the eating, it's easier to say no to the giant cookie or finishing son 3's fries, whether you've worked out or not.
  • Bry_Fitness70
    Bry_Fitness70 Posts: 2,480 Member
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    nonoelmo wrote: »
    bw_conway wrote: »
    I judge people who go the the gym religiously 4-5 days a week but never seem to lose weight or otherwise appear fit as having bad eating habits that are completely undoing their hard work.

    I half way agree and half way don't. I am thinking of a whole crowd of older gents who come to play racquetball, get on the stationary bike with their newspaper or to watch a game. Their beer belly stays the same, but hey, they are getting in some cardio and burning some calories... so better than nothing?

    I do respect that - and it is much better than doing nothing. There is just that little voice in the back of my mind mentioning that if these people got it together in the kitchen they could would get so much more from their efforts, which are an investment of 100s of hours per year of hard work. And there is more than just their improved personal appearance to be gained, as their bloodwork and other medical tests would show appreciable benefits!
  • ShibaEars
    ShibaEars Posts: 3,928 Member
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    bw_conway wrote: »
    nonoelmo wrote: »
    bw_conway wrote: »
    I judge people who go the the gym religiously 4-5 days a week but never seem to lose weight or otherwise appear fit as having bad eating habits that are completely undoing their hard work.

    I half way agree and half way don't. I am thinking of a whole crowd of older gents who come to play racquetball, get on the stationary bike with their newspaper or to watch a game. Their beer belly stays the same, but hey, they are getting in some cardio and burning some calories... so better than nothing?

    I do respect that - and it is much better than doing nothing. There is just that little voice in the back of my mind mentioning that if these people got it together in the kitchen they could would get so much more from their efforts, which are an investment of 100s of hours per year of hard work. And there is more than just their improved personal appearance to be gained, as their bloodwork and other medical tests would show appreciable benefits!

    This little voice is in my head too. If I could clean up my diet I would look & feel amazing! But for some reason I self sabotage and still haven't figured out the reason behind it to put an end to it.
  • Bry_Fitness70
    Bry_Fitness70 Posts: 2,480 Member
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    ShibaEars wrote: »
    bw_conway wrote: »
    nonoelmo wrote: »
    bw_conway wrote: »
    I judge people who go the the gym religiously 4-5 days a week but never seem to lose weight or otherwise appear fit as having bad eating habits that are completely undoing their hard work.

    I half way agree and half way don't. I am thinking of a whole crowd of older gents who come to play racquetball, get on the stationary bike with their newspaper or to watch a game. Their beer belly stays the same, but hey, they are getting in some cardio and burning some calories... so better than nothing?

    I do respect that - and it is much better than doing nothing. There is just that little voice in the back of my mind mentioning that if these people got it together in the kitchen they could would get so much more from their efforts, which are an investment of 100s of hours per year of hard work. And there is more than just their improved personal appearance to be gained, as their bloodwork and other medical tests would show appreciable benefits!

    This little voice is in my head too. If I could clean up my diet I would look & feel amazing! But for some reason I self sabotage and still haven't figured out the reason behind it to put an end to it.

    Your recognition that you have that issue is half the battle...
  • BodyByBex
    BodyByBex Posts: 3,685 Member
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    bw_conway wrote: »
    ShibaEars wrote: »
    bw_conway wrote: »
    nonoelmo wrote: »
    bw_conway wrote: »
    I judge people who go the the gym religiously 4-5 days a week but never seem to lose weight or otherwise appear fit as having bad eating habits that are completely undoing their hard work.

    I half way agree and half way don't. I am thinking of a whole crowd of older gents who come to play racquetball, get on the stationary bike with their newspaper or to watch a game. Their beer belly stays the same, but hey, they are getting in some cardio and burning some calories... so better than nothing?

    I do respect that - and it is much better than doing nothing. There is just that little voice in the back of my mind mentioning that if these people got it together in the kitchen they could would get so much more from their efforts, which are an investment of 100s of hours per year of hard work. And there is more than just their improved personal appearance to be gained, as their bloodwork and other medical tests would show appreciable benefits!

    This little voice is in my head too. If I could clean up my diet I would look & feel amazing! But for some reason I self sabotage and still haven't figured out the reason behind it to put an end to it.

    Your recognition that you have that issue is half the battle...

    10/10 This.
  • MelissaPhippsFeagins
    MelissaPhippsFeagins Posts: 8,063 Member
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    bw_conway wrote: »
    ShibaEars wrote: »
    bw_conway wrote: »
    nonoelmo wrote: »
    bw_conway wrote: »
    I judge people who go the the gym religiously 4-5 days a week but never seem to lose weight or otherwise appear fit as having bad eating habits that are completely undoing their hard work.

    I half way agree and half way don't. I am thinking of a whole crowd of older gents who come to play racquetball, get on the stationary bike with their newspaper or to watch a game. Their beer belly stays the same, but hey, they are getting in some cardio and burning some calories... so better than nothing?

    I do respect that - and it is much better than doing nothing. There is just that little voice in the back of my mind mentioning that if these people got it together in the kitchen they could would get so much more from their efforts, which are an investment of 100s of hours per year of hard work. And there is more than just their improved personal appearance to be gained, as their bloodwork and other medical tests would show appreciable benefits!

    This little voice is in my head too. If I could clean up my diet I would look & feel amazing! But for some reason I self sabotage and still haven't figured out the reason behind it to put an end to it.

    Your recognition that you have that issue is half the battle...

    10/10 This.

    What they said.
  • MelissaPhippsFeagins
    MelissaPhippsFeagins Posts: 8,063 Member
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    I confess that I ordered Irish Nachos for our team Christmas lunch today. Almost 1200 calories in one meal. Good thing it's barre class followed by lifting tonight.
  • rungirl1973
    rungirl1973 Posts: 2,559 Member
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    I confess that I ordered Irish Nachos for our team Christmas lunch today. Almost 1200 calories in one meal. Good thing it's barre class followed by lifting tonight.

    Irish nachos?
  • riderfangal
    riderfangal Posts: 1,965 Member
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    I confess that I ordered Irish Nachos for our team Christmas lunch today. Almost 1200 calories in one meal. Good thing it's barre class followed by lifting tonight.

    Irish nachos?

    Yes. Inquiring minds need to know!!!
  • AngryViking1970
    AngryViking1970 Posts: 2,847 Member
    edited December 2015
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    There is a guy from IT in the office right now popping his gum like it's his job and I want to punch him in the face.
  • quiksylver296
    quiksylver296 Posts: 28,442 Member
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    There is a guy from IT in the office right now popping his gum like it's his job and I want to punch him in the face.

    Do it. I'll bail you out....LOL.

    (I'm in a mood today. >:) )
  • MelissaPhippsFeagins
    MelissaPhippsFeagins Posts: 8,063 Member
    edited December 2015
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    I confess that I ordered Irish Nachos for our team Christmas lunch today. Almost 1200 calories in one meal. Good thing it's barre class followed by lifting tonight.

    Irish nachos?

    Homemade potato chips (really thick cut), chili cheese, sour cream, tomatoes, jalapenos, black olives and onions.

    Edit: I'll try to remember to take a picture for you.
  • MelissaPhippsFeagins
    MelissaPhippsFeagins Posts: 8,063 Member
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    @quiksylver296 - wouldn't it save money and trouble if you just arrest him for creating a disturbance? LOL
  • rungirl1973
    rungirl1973 Posts: 2,559 Member
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    I confess that I ordered Irish Nachos for our team Christmas lunch today. Almost 1200 calories in one meal. Good thing it's barre class followed by lifting tonight.

    Irish nachos?

    Homemade potato chips (really thick cut), chili cheese, sour cream, tomatoes, jalapenos, black olives and onions.

    Edit: I'll try to remember to take a picture for you.

    Yum! Now I need Irish nachos... LOL
  • MelissaPhippsFeagins
    MelissaPhippsFeagins Posts: 8,063 Member
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    No picture. It came in four separate containers. So I ate all the chili and veggies, half the chips and 1/4 of the cheese.
  • kellyjellybellyjelly
    kellyjellybellyjelly Posts: 9,480 Member
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    There is a guy from IT in the office right now popping his gum like it's his job and I want to punch him in the face.

    Do it. I'll bail you out....LOL.

    (I'm in a mood today. >:) )

    Yeah! We'll be your witnesses!
  • crosbylee
    crosbylee Posts: 3,455 Member
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    Those Irish Nachos sounded great, I'd have to leave off the olives though. Almost as good as the IHOP meal I had yesterday that ate up my calorie bank. The pumpkin spice belgian waffle was delicious.....
  • rungirl1973
    rungirl1973 Posts: 2,559 Member
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    I confess that after 3 days of eating like it was my job, I skipped dinner last night. I wasn't hungry again until 10:45am this morning.
  • MelissaPhippsFeagins
    MelissaPhippsFeagins Posts: 8,063 Member
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    I confess that after 3 days of eating like it was my job, I skipped dinner last night. I wasn't hungry again until 10:45am this morning.

    I have done that before and in fact only ate a protein bar for dinner last night because I was going to the gym and didn't want to fail at lifts because I had eaten nothing. I was not hungry.