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How to say no?
jmh_90
Posts: 17 Member
I have been good with my diet for the past months. I am trying to have a clean diet with whole food. But I noticed that every time I "cheat" it is because someone has offered me something to eat (a cookie, a piece of chocolate, chips, etc). The thing is that I have issues with saying "no". I feel bad refusing and of course who wouldn't disagree if someone gives you free food? How do you deal with that?
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People could give a s*** less about you saying no to food they offer you. Seriously. Don't worry about hurting their feelings.
Just say no thanks, I'm good. You could even add maybe later, just to soften the blow.
Practice makes perfect. No,nope,nah, no thanks, pass, next time...take your pick.0 -
Just say "no thank you" and move on. You are not obligated to explain.0
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Agree with the above.0
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Don't feel bad for saying no. Also, There's really nothing wrong with having A PIECE of chocolate.0
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My work colleagues always have treats for breaks. I just say no every time they offer me something and now they know that I only eat my own food and they don't even bother to offer it. If they think I'm fussy/weird etc so what. It's my belly!0
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It can be tough. I've struggled with this in the past year. It gets easier and more natural with time. I have done everything from say no, to accept a cookie and throw it away later. These day days I can usually just say a simple no thanks. Practice makes perfect:-) And you will feel great, and have more success, if you take care of yourself around this issue. Good luck:-)0
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I accept and throw it away unless its something that someone made specially for me then i eat it0
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There's no reason not to have "less clean" foods in your diet, unless you hate them and don't want to eat them again. Stuff like chips, chocolate, "junk food"...
But if you feel like you couldn't stop at the one cookie being offered, you might be better off just saying no thanks.0 -
u will feel better about yourself after you eat it and cheat? then just say NO0
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To me it depends WHAT is being offered to me. If my colleague offers me store-bought cookies, I'll say no because to my mind, the calories aren't worth it. Since most of my colleagues are in better shape than me, telling them I'm watching my calories usually leads to them not offering anything for a week or two ;-)
However, if my best friend offers me one of his homemade cinnamon-nut rolls, I take it. Because they are amazing and I'd rather go over once in a while than deny myself this pleasure. As long as it's a once in a while thing, it's ok to say yes.0 -
You have to decide if you're more concerned about how they'll feel or how you'll feel when you answer.0
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Do you want it? Then say "yes, please".
Don't want it? Say "no, thank you".
Practice makes perfevt0 -
I usually say "not right now" if it's someone who's feelings I don't want to hurt. The "maybe later" just never happens. This is only true of work snacks/temptations. I am not perfect at saying no all of the time to all of the things. So also, log the food and move on in those cases.0
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This might be an unpopular opinion but I'm not comfortable refusing people's generosity either and I don't think that's a bad thing.
I would just accept the treats, enjoy the smallest amount possible, and make sure to record the calories.
ETA: Unless it's a family member or a close friend who knows what you're trying to accomplish, those people should be respecting your positive lifestyle decisions.0 -
This might sound snarky and I do not mean for it to be that way... but (and here is the but)..
Just say no! Stop worrying about what anyone thinks except you! This person can care less or does not know you have decided to have a certain goal in mind with food..0 -
I say no a lot. A lot of things just are not worth the calories to me (or I'd rather save calories for something else that day). I have Invisalign though so the choice is pretty much made for me (can't eat with the things on my teeth and it would be even more awkward to take them off). But I learned that it's just fine to say no. People get over it. Heck I find myself saying no at times when I don't have the things on now. You just have to stand your ground.
But if I know that I'm going to be in a situation where people might offer me food, and I have the calories for it, I'll go without my aligners on and will make room for them in my day.0 -
I have just politely turned down one of my boyfriend's mom's famous curries, I felt bad but sometimes you have to risk offending people to look after yourself. I usually feel bad (for the person) if I don't take the food offered but I feel worse if I do with the guilt and regret and the gain. Do what's best for you, people will get used to it.0
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You could always say oh no I've just eaten, make out like you're full. Or just be honest and say you're eating healthy and want to keep a note of what you're eating0
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no one offers me food.
maybe because i always say no thanks0 -
Ask yourself if you'll be happy you ate that tomorrow. Usually that works for me.0
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