Do you get hit on?
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I couldn't comment on her original post, until after I ate a piece of cake. I felt that guilty. I want a safer world!
Man.. I'm dying over here.
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Please, it's only "creepy" if it's some slob with marinara stains on his Atari shirt comes up to you with chunks of last night's anchovies and sausage lodged from in between his teeth are finally flying straight into your face like missile projectiles. Ranch dressing drippin' down the side of his lips and all.
But if it's some Brad Pitt-looking dude saying some crude, nasty, chauvinist crap, it won't matter, it's still gonna be like "Oh, he's so dreaaaammmyyyyy!"0 -
Seriously hit on, no.
Do I have girls/guys say something about being attractive or in shape, here and there.0 -
I blame it on my RBF (resting *kitten* face).0
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Nope, I don't get hit on.0
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I couldn't comment on her original post, until after I ate a piece of cake. I felt that guilty. I want a safer world!
Man.. I'm dying over here.
lol ^^ my new favorite person. Mostly because you dont wear pants to the gym.
Im eating cake. Its for the women and the children! (wtf is this, the Titanic?)0 -
I usually duck in time before actually getting hit on........
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lmfao0
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Never
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ThatFatAsianNerd wrote: »Please, it's only "creepy" if it's some slob with marinara stains on his Atari shirt comes up to you with chunks of last night's anchovies and sausage lodged from in between his teeth are finally flying straight into your face like missile projectiles. Ranch dressing drippin' down the side of his lips and all.
do these people still go out in public? It's 2016, you can work from home and get everything delivered to your house.0 -
I bet you got hit on at that bachelorette party ? Guys 9 out of 10 times are the one's who make a move and initiate conversation .0
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lol I had to go have ice-cream just to write on this page, to calm myself.
I for one ABSOLUTELY HATE married men hitting on single woman. How is it you can be having a normal conversation and go to being a disgusting pervert. You would think married men are a safe place to talk to because they are married so their minds are not going to go there with you!! It should be illegal for married men to hit on single woman so gross.
I once had a man with 7 children hit on me in a lift, and I was friends with his grown up children, and he was old enough to be my father, how disgusting is that. I have never talked to them since, and he said " nobody need know".
Dear whole world of men, A woman smiling does not mean she is interested in you that way, its just being friendly and she is just feeling happy. For God's sake, woman smile at shoes, puppies, children, handbags, rainbows, sunsets etc. Smiling is just a form of greeting. How does a douche-bag go from a smile to she is interested in you that way.
A smile is just a Smile ( bubbling inner joy), smile back thats all its like saying Hi I am having a wonderful day, you are not smiling let me cheer you up, like smiling at strangers on the street. Unless a woman drops her pants she is not interested in you in that way, ever. Get that through your heads!! A conversation is just a conversation. And just because we share the same interests ( parachute jumping, photography, white river rafting, micro-lighting, zip-lining, hiking etc does not mean I am into you, ever. And a hug is just a hug, I have a huge family 43 cousins and I hug all of them.
These perverts must even think air hostess are hitting on them, when its their job to smile all day. Now I have cut back on smiling so much, just because of perverts out there.
I realized going through trying to get thin again, part of my problem is anger at men & anger at woman ( I watched a movie on tube a few weeks back and realized woman can be disgusting as well). thats another story. being fat keeps you unattractive and therefore safe. Dear God I want this world to be a safe place for children and woman.
I have seen old men groom young girls with gifts and so on. thats like a pedophile, ( cut of their dicks, dear God.). Those girls need better father figures. A safe place to be.
Those of you worried about not being hit on, you should be happy. When its time when you want to settle down and have children, you will go looking for a man that will be a great father, and will treat their mother with respect and love.
Don't be desperate for the wrong kind of attention. Men who say they love you and use that to get in your pants are just liars they are evil men, with no character or worth. Jesus towards those men " lord lord..... why have you forsaken me"
Go find a hobby lol. An build your self worth and self respect first. ( Align yourself, like wheel alignment lol with the Almighty first.) And loneliness is no reason to be desperate. Go look for quality, And Great Character. This I think personally is very important, when you find the right one, men or women let your family and friends interview them before you jump in with both feet.
Can men and women be genuine friends? without being hit on? I mean you can not even touch someones arm without it being considered as being hit on.
What's up girl? I see you're into micro-lighting also. Nice. Don't worry, my wife is into macro-lighting so she doesn't understand the struggle. Anywho, I noticed you smiled at me. Score!1 -
I happen to like smart and high maintenance!0
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Quoting again just because that was so much more awesome than I was expecting. Will rip that mp3 for the gym!
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LiftingRiot wrote: »lol I had to go have ice-cream just to write on this page, to calm myself.
I for one ABSOLUTELY HATE married men hitting on single woman. How is it you can be having a normal conversation and go to being a disgusting pervert. You would think married men are a safe place to talk to because they are married so their minds are not going to go there with you!! It should be illegal for married men to hit on single woman so gross.
I once had a man with 7 children hit on me in a lift, and I was friends with his grown up children, and he was old enough to be my father, how disgusting is that. I have never talked to them since, and he said " nobody need know".
Dear whole world of men, A woman smiling does not mean she is interested in you that way, its just being friendly and she is just feeling happy. For God's sake, woman smile at shoes, puppies, children, handbags, rainbows, sunsets etc. Smiling is just a form of greeting. How does a douche-bag go from a smile to she is interested in you that way.
A smile is just a Smile ( bubbling inner joy), smile back thats all its like saying Hi I am having a wonderful day, you are not smiling let me cheer you up, like smiling at strangers on the street. Unless a woman drops her pants she is not interested in you in that way, ever. Get that through your heads!! A conversation is just a conversation. And just because we share the same interests ( parachute jumping, photography, white river rafting, micro-lighting, zip-lining, hiking etc does not mean I am into you, ever. And a hug is just a hug, I have a huge family 43 cousins and I hug all of them.
These perverts must even think air hostess are hitting on them, when its their job to smile all day. Now I have cut back on smiling so much, just because of perverts out there.
I realized going through trying to get thin again, part of my problem is anger at men & anger at woman ( I watched a movie on tube a few weeks back and realized woman can be disgusting as well). thats another story. being fat keeps you unattractive and therefore safe. Dear God I want this world to be a safe place for children and woman.
I have seen old men groom young girls with gifts and so on. thats like a pedophile, ( cut of their dicks, dear God.). Those girls need better father figures. A safe place to be.
Those of you worried about not being hit on, you should be happy. When its time when you want to settle down and have children, you will go looking for a man that will be a great father, and will treat their mother with respect and love.
Don't be desperate for the wrong kind of attention. Men who say they love you and use that to get in your pants are just liars they are evil men, with no character or worth. Jesus towards those men " lord lord..... why have you forsaken me"
Go find a hobby lol. An build your self worth and self respect first. ( Align yourself, like wheel alignment lol with the Almighty first.) And loneliness is no reason to be desperate. Go look for quality, And Great Character. This I think personally is very important, when you find the right one, men or women let your family and friends interview them before you jump in with both feet.
Can men and women be genuine friends? without being hit on? I mean you can not even touch someones arm without it being considered as being hit on.
Does this come off as psycho to anyone?[/quo
Just a little cra cra0 -
Hummmmm Nope cant say I have
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I used to think I never got hit on too, turns out I was just oblivious to the fact that I WAS getting hit on. I usually need someone to be very blunt for me to pick up on it.0
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Yes. It was mildly annoying/intimidating when I was in my 20s. Now that I'm in my 30s, it's amusing/flattering.0
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jraines1973 wrote: »Hummmmm Nope cant say I have
I'm thinking some women either don't know they are getting hit on or maybe live in a completely gay male society and haven't noticed it yet.0 -
lilsassy71 wrote: »chocolateandpb wrote: »Never. When you're a woman over 30 apparently you become invisible. Or maybe I'm just fugly. I'm a friendly and approachable person too, generally have at least a slight smile on my face, so I don't think I give off a "don't talk to me" vibe...so I'm going with fugly.
You're freaking adorable. I'm over 40 and don't seem to be invisible, clearly the people in your area are nuts. Come hang out with me, I can introduce you to Drugstore Wolverine, Skating Rink Dave, Grocery Store Nick
I'm over 40 as well and while I'm not invisible I seem to be on 20 something radar. Men my age or even 30 somethings do not see me!
@lilsassy71 SO THIS!! These young guys in their 20's and 30's love me, but I'm pretty much invisible to men who are more age appropriate
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Quoting again just because that was so much more awesome than I was expecting. Will rip that mp3 for the gym!
um, its pretty amazing. And it comes in quite handy, even in the most unexpected circumstances lol0 -
AskTracyAnnK28 wrote: »lilsassy71 wrote: »chocolateandpb wrote: »Never. When you're a woman over 30 apparently you become invisible. Or maybe I'm just fugly. I'm a friendly and approachable person too, generally have at least a slight smile on my face, so I don't think I give off a "don't talk to me" vibe...so I'm going with fugly.
You're freaking adorable. I'm over 40 and don't seem to be invisible, clearly the people in your area are nuts. Come hang out with me, I can introduce you to Drugstore Wolverine, Skating Rink Dave, Grocery Store Nick
I'm over 40 as well and while I'm not invisible I seem to be on 20 something radar. Men my age or even 30 somethings do not see me!
@lilsassy71 SO THIS!! These young guys in their 20's and 30's love me, but I'm pretty much invisible to men who are more age appropriate
Since turning 30.... all the young cubs seem to be the most interested..... Younger guys love older women I have noticed0 -
AskTracyAnnK28 wrote: »lilsassy71 wrote: »chocolateandpb wrote: »Never. When you're a woman over 30 apparently you become invisible. Or maybe I'm just fugly. I'm a friendly and approachable person too, generally have at least a slight smile on my face, so I don't think I give off a "don't talk to me" vibe...so I'm going with fugly.
You're freaking adorable. I'm over 40 and don't seem to be invisible, clearly the people in your area are nuts. Come hang out with me, I can introduce you to Drugstore Wolverine, Skating Rink Dave, Grocery Store Nick
I'm over 40 as well and while I'm not invisible I seem to be on 20 something radar. Men my age or even 30 somethings do not see me!
@lilsassy71 SO THIS!! These young guys in their 20's and 30's love me, but I'm pretty much invisible to men who are more age appropriate
Young guys are all-in for the Cougars.
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AskTracyAnnK28 wrote: »lilsassy71 wrote: »chocolateandpb wrote: »Never. When you're a woman over 30 apparently you become invisible. Or maybe I'm just fugly. I'm a friendly and approachable person too, generally have at least a slight smile on my face, so I don't think I give off a "don't talk to me" vibe...so I'm going with fugly.
You're freaking adorable. I'm over 40 and don't seem to be invisible, clearly the people in your area are nuts. Come hang out with me, I can introduce you to Drugstore Wolverine, Skating Rink Dave, Grocery Store Nick
I'm over 40 as well and while I'm not invisible I seem to be on 20 something radar. Men my age or even 30 somethings do not see me!
@lilsassy71 SO THIS!! These young guys in their 20's and 30's love me, but I'm pretty much invisible to men who are more age appropriate
I'd totally hit on you anyday
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Single and never. Anyone here want to change that?0
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All the time, don't do anything to attract it, pain in the *kitten* it can be0
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