Do you get hit on?
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I literally never get hit on, ever. I'm really shy and I think to most people that translates as being bitchy or stand offish. But I'm ok with it, being hit on is always awkward and uncomfortable anyway.
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MrsMoviestar wrote: »I always do, but men usually try to feel me out first by doing it subtly. However, they dont get very far because I let them know right off the bat I'm married (though they usually notice my ring seconds into the conversation).
Really? :shrug:0 -
I honestly noticed it more when I was 400+ pounds, people would say "you're really handsome, you should lose some weight...". So I did and now I wonder if people are intimidated...0
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msharrington315 wrote: »I honestly noticed it more when I was 400+ pounds, people would say "you're really handsome, you should lose some weight...". So I did and now I wonder if people are intimidated...
Nothing pissed me off more then that comment .... You are attractive just lose some weight... My response was go fist yourself
im such a peach 0 -
Jacwhite22 wrote: »MrsMoviestar wrote: »I always do, but men usually try to feel me out first by doing it subtly. However, they dont get very far because I let them know right off the bat I'm married (though they usually notice my ring seconds into the conversation).
Really? :shrug:
I read that at first as "men usually try to feel me up " and thought whoa where do you live0 -
I literally never get hit on, ever. I'm really shy and I think to most people that translates as being bitchy or stand offish. But I'm ok with it, being hit on is always awkward and uncomfortable anyway.
I think people see what the want to see. Some people want all the attention and assume they are always getting hit on even if someone is just being nice or something. Some people don't care for the attention and unconsciously ignore those minor advances. I say minor to because its hard to ignore major blatant advances.0 -
lawandfitness wrote: »msharrington315 wrote: »I honestly noticed it more when I was 400+ pounds, people would say "you're really handsome, you should lose some weight...". So I did and now I wonder if people are intimidated...
Nothing pissed me off more then that comment .... You are attractive just lose some weight... My response was go fist yourself im such a peach
Yeah, but at the time it actually gave me some hope. I was feeling really bad about myself and was losing my will to live. But I get what you mean.0 -
I just lost 10 minutes of my life reading all this crap. I'll never get that time back. What a freakin' space cadet. *smh*0
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lawandfitness wrote: »msharrington315 wrote: »I honestly noticed it more when I was 400+ pounds, people would say "you're really handsome, you should lose some weight...". So I did and now I wonder if people are intimidated...
Nothing pissed me off more then that comment .... You are attractive just lose some weight... My response was go fist yourself im such a peach
Im right there with you!! Youre so good looking... EXCEPT.
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msharrington315 wrote: »lawandfitness wrote: »msharrington315 wrote: »I honestly noticed it more when I was 400+ pounds, people would say "you're really handsome, you should lose some weight...". So I did and now I wonder if people are intimidated...
Nothing pissed me off more then that comment .... You are attractive just lose some weight... My response was go fist yourself im such a peach
Yeah, but at the time it actually gave me some hope. I was feeling really bad about myself and was losing my will to live. But I get what you mean.
I get what you are saying as well... I just think that people could just say I think you are attractive, just not my type - straight and simple ... no need to point out my biggest flaw in the process of giving me a backhanded compliment0 -
lawandfitness wrote: »
The Grace chick that got on her soap box.0 -
lawandfitness wrote: »
The Grace chick that got on her soap box.
Ohhh Grace.... well Grace needs a lot of things..... and let's be honest.... this thread is amusing0 -
lawandfitness wrote: »msharrington315 wrote: »lawandfitness wrote: »msharrington315 wrote: »I honestly noticed it more when I was 400+ pounds, people would say "you're really handsome, you should lose some weight...". So I did and now I wonder if people are intimidated...
Nothing pissed me off more then that comment .... You are attractive just lose some weight... My response was go fist yourself im such a peach
Yeah, but at the time it actually gave me some hope. I was feeling really bad about myself and was losing my will to live. But I get what you mean.
I get what you are saying as well... I just think that people could just say I think you are attractive, just not my type - straight and simple ... no need to point out my biggest flaw in the process of giving me a backhanded compliment
I can see that now. My self-esteem was so low at the time I was use to people making comments. I even heard someone say "look at how fat he is..." as I was walking by one day. Or calling me "big guy" over and over at the gym. Anyways, all of that is over now. 0 -
lawandfitness wrote: »
The Grace chick that got on her soap box.
I actually never read the entire thing. I read pieces of it and the shear length of it made up mind that this lady was special.0 -
lawandfitness wrote: »lawandfitness wrote: »
The Grace chick that got on her soap box.
Ohhh Grace.... well Grace needs a lot of things..... and let's be honest.... this thread is amusing
Yeah...I agree its a little amusing. It's a resurrected thread from a couple of years ago. Clearly I must be really bored at work.
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lawandfitness wrote: »lawandfitness wrote: »
The Grace chick that got on her soap box.
Ohhh Grace.... well Grace needs a lot of things..... and let's be honest.... this thread is amusing
Yeah...I agree its a little amusing. It's a resurrected thread from a couple of years ago. Clearly I must be really bored at work.
You and I both hunny!!!!0
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