My boyfriend is 12 years older than me. Do guys want kids quite soon after marriage?
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Escloflowne wrote: »kshama2001 wrote: »Capt_Apollo wrote: »what kind of thirty year old dates an 18 year old?? you guys can't even have a drink together.
I dated a 36 yo when I was 18. We had plenty of drinks together. He wanted me to be the third Mrs. R., but I joined the military instead. We were too far apart for it to work out long term, but it was fun while it lasted. We hooked back up for a while when I was 30. I still think of him fondly.
I hope when I'm 36-40 I can talk 18 year old chicks into sleeping with me, sounds fun!
My body was hotter then, but I am way better in bed now
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kshama2001 wrote: »Escloflowne wrote: »kshama2001 wrote: »Capt_Apollo wrote: »what kind of thirty year old dates an 18 year old?? you guys can't even have a drink together.
I dated a 36 yo when I was 18. We had plenty of drinks together. He wanted me to be the third Mrs. R., but I joined the military instead. We were too far apart for it to work out long term, but it was fun while it lasted. We hooked back up for a while when I was 30. I still think of him fondly.
I hope when I'm 36-40 I can talk 18 year old chicks into sleeping with me, sounds fun!
My body was hotter then, but I am way better in bed now
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Escloflowne wrote: »kshama2001 wrote: »Capt_Apollo wrote: »what kind of thirty year old dates an 18 year old?? you guys can't even have a drink together.
I dated a 36 yo when I was 18. We had plenty of drinks together. He wanted me to be the third Mrs. R., but I joined the military instead. We were too far apart for it to work out long term, but it was fun while it lasted. We hooked back up for a while when I was 30. I still think of him fondly.
I hope when I'm 36-40 I can talk 18 year old chicks into sleeping with me, sounds fun!
When I was 20 I dated a man that was 40. Nothing wrong with that at all. I don't know that it would have been a forever thing but it was great while it lasted.
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How long have y'all been together?0
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Capt_Apollo wrote: »what kind of thirty year old dates an 18 year old?? you guys can't even have a drink together.
Don't be silly, they're sooooo marrying and having babies.
According to the dating formula, you are too young to date him. His minimum dating age is 22. The only way he is having a baby with you is if he knocks you up. Enjoy being his fling that he doesn't have to take out anywhere because you're too young to get in.
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MiloBloom83 wrote: »Capt_Apollo wrote: »what kind of thirty year old dates an 18 year old?? you guys can't even have a drink together.
Don't be silly, they're sooooo marrying and having babies.
According to the dating formula, you are too young to date him. His minimum dating age is 22. The only way he is having a baby with you is if he knocks you up. Enjoy being his fling that he doesn't have to take out anywhere because you're too young to get in.
What dating formula?
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CircumcisedCokeCan wrote: »MiloBloom83 wrote: »Capt_Apollo wrote: »what kind of
thirty year old dates an 18 year old?? you guys can't even have a drink together.
Don't be silly, they're sooooo marrying and having babies.
According to the dating formula, you are too young to date him. His minimum dating age is 22. The only way he is having a baby with you is if he knocks you up. Enjoy being his fling that he doesn't have to take out anywhere because you're too young to get in.
What dating formula?
half your age plus 7- anything younger and its creepy.
I don't think that's totally true once you're at least 21. I understand that 18 - 20 is a bit too young to hang out at clubs but after that I wouldn't call it creepy.
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CircumcisedCokeCan wrote: »MiloBloom83 wrote: »Capt_Apollo wrote: »what kind of
thirty year old dates an 18 year old?? you guys can't even have a drink together.
Don't be silly, they're sooooo marrying and having babies.
According to the dating formula, you are too young to date him. His minimum dating age is 22. The only way he is having a baby with you is if he knocks you up. Enjoy being his fling that he doesn't have to take out anywhere because you're too young to get in.
What dating formula?
half your age plus 7- anything younger and its creepy.
I don't think that's totally true once you're at least 21. I understand that 18 - 20 is a bit too young to hang out at clubs but after that I wouldn't call it creepy.
zbakrjc
There isn't any real forumula for human interaction but hey people believe in all sorts of crazy stuff. However, there is a point where you have to think there is something a little off.0 -
CircumcisedCokeCan wrote: »CircumcisedCokeCan wrote: »MiloBloom83 wrote: »Capt_Apollo wrote: »what kind of
Don't be silly, they're sooooo marrying and having babies.
According to the dating formula, you are too young to date him. His minimum dating age is 22. The only way he is having a baby with you is if he knocks you up. Enjoy being his fling that he doesn't have to take out anywhere because you're too young to get in.
What dating formula?
half your age plus 7- anything younger and its creepy.
I don't think that's totally true once you're at least 21. I understand that 18 - 20 is a bit too young to hang out at clubs but after that I wouldn't call it creepy.
zbakrjc
ain't my rules. that's just what society says man
LOL, I've never seen "society" give that rule out, especially since "society" can't even read at a grade 10 level or do math at a grade 8 level.0 -
So much judgement on the age gap here, there aren't rules on this other than what the law says. And the law in this case has no problem. Nobody has the right to turn their nose up at these two for their difference in years, that is entirely up to them.0
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CircumcisedCokeCan wrote: »Wheelhouse15 wrote: »CircumcisedCokeCan wrote: »CircumcisedCokeCan wrote: »MiloBloom83 wrote: »Capt_Apollo wrote: »what kind of
Don't be silly, they're sooooo marrying and having babies.
According to the dating formula, you are too young to date him. His minimum dating age is 22. The only way he is having a baby with you is if he knocks you up. Enjoy being his fling that he doesn't have to take out anywhere because you're too young to get in.
What dating formula?
half your age plus 7- anything younger and its creepy.
I don't think that's totally true once you're at least 21. I understand that 18 - 20 is a bit too young to hang out at clubs but after that I wouldn't call it creepy.
zbakrjc
ain't my rules. that's just what society says man
LOL, I've never seen "society" give that rule out, especially since "society" can't even read at a grade 10 level or do math at a grade 8 level.
https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=half+your+age+plus+7
its gotta be true if its on urban dictionary
I know the Urban Dictionary is up there with the Constitution for law, with Nature for scientific facts and the Bible for religious truths! Oh, and something about a bunch of modern slangs...0 -
Capt_Apollo wrote: »what kind of thirty year old dates an 18 year old?? you guys can't even have a drink together.
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If you're not able to speak about this openly, you're not ready to get married. Talk to him, not to random strangers on the internet.0
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Krishnaya108 wrote: »Hello, my boyfriend is 12 years older than me. There's a possibility that I will get married when I'm 20 or 22. Do older guys want kids only after couple years of marriage? I personally don't want kids until my late 20s or early 30s. I just feel like they're a huge responsibility and I won't have much time to have fun. Plus, I want to make the most out of my career before having kids. Thoughts?
Shouldn't you be asking your boyfriend these questions????0 -
TavistockToad wrote: »Krishnaya108 wrote: »Hello, my boyfriend is 12 years older than me. There's a possibility that I will get married when I'm 20 or 22. Do older guys want kids only after couple years of marriage? I personally don't want kids until my late 20s or early 30s. I just feel like they're a huge responsibility and I won't have much time to have fun. Plus, I want to make the most out of my career before having kids. Thoughts?
Shouldn't you be asking your boyfriend these questions????
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thirty year old dates an 18 year old?? you guys can't even have a drink together.
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