I got pulled over this morning.

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  • Posts: 902 Member
    synchkat wrote: »
    my brother is a cop...you should see what he gets from "fans"

    My oldest son and my son-in-law are cops. I've heard about the groupies!
  • Posts: 432 Member
    I'd call that sexual harassment - LEO coming on to someone in a subordinate position. He'll catch some h*** I think if you report him. Would I? Yup, because that's not the kind of cops we need.
  • Posts: 219 Member
    Life must be tramendously hard for a person who chooses to care about such things. Crumple the paper up and throw it away.

    He has your plate number, if he really cared more than leaving the ball in your court, he can find you.
  • Posts: 26 Member
    Not to make light of the situation, but you just got a small taste of what it's like to be a woman...it's still not okay for anyone to abuse a position of power though...
  • Posts: 5,585 Member
    aduck2016 wrote: »
    Not to make light of the situation, but you just got a small taste of what it's like to be a woman...it's still not okay for anyone to abuse a position of power though...

    mmhmmm pretty much
  • Posts: 2,005 Member
    Oh my..... Lol, no I wouldn't report him, I'd just laugh and ignore :)
  • Posts: 46 Member
    Lol
  • Posts: 7,724 Member

    Already did, homeslice.

    Don't like my privacy violated if it's not in accordance with someone's job duties. A member of law enforcement isn't just "some guy" either.

    Can you dig it???



    He gave you his number and that's violating your privacy? How does that work?

    Would you be asking about a waitress or female officer who did the same thing? Just asking again since those questions were asked and I didn't see the answer
  • Posts: 71 Member
    Do most police officers in America abuse their powers like that? I swear whenever I hear about American police officers, it's never good. That said, I'd be so curious to call the number and call him out on what he did. It's not like he can take it to the police. I'd do it just to scare him a little. Karma is a *kitten*.
  • Posts: 1,507 Member
    salembambi wrote: »

    mmhmmm pretty much

    how is that relevant?
  • Posts: 2,855 Member
    Three pages.. not bad!
  • Posts: 3,472 Member
    Do most police officers in America abuse their powers like that? I swear whenever I hear about American police officers, it's never good. That said, I'd be so curious to call the number and call him out on what he did. It's not like he can take it to the police. I'd do it just to scare him a little. Karma is a *kitten*.
    40% are a-holes on a power trip
    60% are decent human beings


  • Posts: 339 Member
    report him, totally unprofessional. This is a person in a position of power. That is an abuse of said power.
  • Posts: 339 Member
    JaneiR36 wrote: »

    He gave you his number and that's violating your privacy? How does that work?

    Would you be asking about a waitress or female officer who did the same thing? Just asking again since those questions were asked and I didn't see the answer

    A waitress does not have the power to take away your freedom. This is not a gender issue.
  • Are you afraid your boyfriend is going to find out???
  • Posts: 1,507 Member
    Are you afraid your boyfriend is going to find out???


    ugh

    perfect username for this post.
  • Posts: 301 Member
    Hmm, I'd say let it go since he didn't say "Ok, if I don't give you a ticket you have to call me". Keep it though in case he uses your personal information, that way you have evidence. Really, it was pretty unprofessional but I don't think it was malicious or lascivious. Just take it as a compliment and move on with your life. :)
  • Posts: 2,561 Member

    Already did, homeslice.

    Don't like my privacy violated if it's not in accordance with someone's job duties. A member of law enforcement isn't just "some guy" either.

    Can you dig it???



    Can't say I do, home skillet. But feel free to be easily offended/shaken.
  • Posts: 265 Member
    Rage_Phish wrote: »
    so just a thoguht taht isnt really that well related to the topic. cool
    im with you man

    I'm with you guys. It would be a totally different conversation if you were a woman and a male cop did that. They take an oath and are not supposed to abuse their power. This is a fairly minor offense, although I understand you're concerns, but police shouldn't take any form of bribe or use their power to intimidate in any way. At least all he did was hand you the note, but it's wrong to have a cop out there using his power to get dates. I probably wouldn't report it. It feels minor enough, however, it's not for any of us to judge. If you feel wronged enough, report it. Let the department determine what to do about it. It's the department's job to balance the punishment with the offense. I'm sure they won't ruin his life over it.
  • Posts: 7,776 Member
    Hmm, I'd say let it go since he didn't say "Ok, if I don't give you a ticket you have to call me". Keep it though in case he uses your personal information, that way you have evidence. Really, it was pretty unprofessional but I don't think it was malicious or lascivious. Just take it as a compliment and move on with your life. :)

    I'm still not confident the OP was completely serious with his post (sorry, OP!) but, if it *is* I completely agree with the above. Give the guy the benefit of the doubt until he actually does something to violate your privacy.
  • Posts: 7,724 Member
    eeejer wrote: »

    A waitress does not have the power to take away your freedom. This is not a gender issue.

    Basically you'd be afraid a female cop would imprison you if she gave you her number?
  • Posts: 2,983 Member
    Probably a dumb question but... if I were to report him do I call 911?

  • Posts: 71 Member
    Probably a dumb question but... if I were to report him do I call 911?

    911 what's your emergency?

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    At the very least, you have a new NSV.

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    ninerbuff wrote: »
    At the very least, you have a new NSV.

    A.C.E. Certified Personal and Group Fitness Trainer
    IDEA Fitness member
    Kickboxing Certified Instructor
    Been in fitness for 30 years and have studied kinesiology and nutrition

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    ROFLMAO!
  • Posts: 247 Member
    edited April 2016
    Unless he stops you again, I'd ignore it and move on. Remember that he let you off. I'm glad you didn't come back with a smart remark like some have suggested. All that would have done is gotten you the ticket for sure.
  • Posts: 2,408 Member
    So I was driving to work this morning and got pulled over by a cop (I was speeding a little). The cop gets off his motorcycle and he looks about 35-40, broad shoulders, cop mustache and everything. Impressive tan also given that it's early Spring.

    He walks up to my window and says, "Good morning." I'm all nervous and say, "Hey whuh... wuz up?"

    He says to me, "Late for work?" I laugh and say, "Yeah."

    He goes on to tell me that I should leave earlier next time and speeding is not worth it. Then he tells me to wait.

    He goes back to his motorcycle and I can see him scribbling something down. He returns to my car and hands me the paper and says, "Alright buddy, have a good one."

    I waited for him to leave before checking the piece of paper which I'm thinking is a speeding ticket.

    It turns out the paper has his phone number on it!

    Should I report this incident or let it go? I'm still shaking as I type this.

    Not buying this for a second.
  • Posts: 22,001 Member
    edited April 2016
    ncboiler89 wrote: »

    Not buying this for a second.

    Me either,

    Just get over it !

    And I dont understand this abuse of power BS.
    He gave him his phone # supposedly.

    Cop didn't slobber on him,didn't touch him,didn't say call me or I will write you up or arrest you.
    He didn't threaten him or any other things that could be considered abuse of power.

    Abuse of power WTF ?
  • Posts: 1,413 Member
    if I were you, just be grateful that he didn't give you a ticket because you were speeding. Whether you are gay or straight or he is gay or straight is irrelevant here.. if you were to report him, he could have easily said that he was giving you his number to talk to you about the dangers of speeding...

    leave it alone.. enjoy your day ... there is nothing to sweat about here.. I would be shaking more with a ticket.. this guy isn't going to bother you... relax
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