So this guy stares at me at gym....
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_incogNEATo_ wrote: »I'm just here to point out that if a guy made this post about a girl, it would be full of people telling OP to leave the girl alone, she's not there for romantic relationships, and that he's a creep.
OP - Leave him alone. He's there to work out, not for a romantic relationship. It's kinda creepy.
Well shucks I told her that. And it seemed to touch quite a few nerves, both romantically, philosophically and from a social justice angle.
As to your observation regarding how differently the dilemma would be responded to if the genders were reversed - you hit the nail on the head.
Nope. You told her it "makes a 2016 gal look too eager, and consequently, she'll appear vulnerable or, ahem, a tad too easy" @_incogNEATo_ said that there is a double standard as far as hitting on someone at the gym (which there is) and to just leave him to workout. Not the same, just saying.
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OP, I agree with those who say you should smile at him. It will make you seem more approachable and if he was nervous about being turned down, a smile will help him feel more confident about approaching you.
Let us know how it went1 -
As above posters have said.. Smile0
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Let one toot next time he stands behind you.
If he's still standing there you've found yourself a soldier!5 -
Yeah he probably finds you attractive. Stare back at him intensely until he looks away. Alternatively just smile.....1
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He wants to show you his hip thrusting exercise .2
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_incogNEATo_ wrote: »I'm just here to point out that if a guy made this post about a girl, it would be full of people telling OP to leave the girl alone, she's not there for romantic relationships, and that he's a creep.
OP - Leave him alone. He's there to work out, not for a romantic relationship. It's kinda creepy.
I thought the creepy one would have been the one staring at the worker outer0 -
_incogNEATo_ wrote: »I'm just here to point out that if a guy made this post about a girl, it would be full of people telling OP to leave the girl alone, she's not there for romantic relationships, and that he's a creep.
OP - Leave him alone. He's there to work out, not for a romantic relationship. It's kinda creepy.
I thought the creepy one would have been the one staring at the worker outer
That's my point. When a guy writes a post like this, it's "she wasn't staring at you. You're fabricating this story to give yourself an excuse to talk to her. Let it go. She's there to work out and doesn't need you harassing her. You're gross. Do you even lift?"1 -
Probably because your hot ♨0
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