Do u like getting flirted with?

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  • brb_2013
    brb_2013 Posts: 1,197 Member
    I do not, it makes me insanely uncomfortable even if I were remotely interested. In my mind you're talking about a stranger approaching me at a public place to flirt, and I'm just too shy. My resting beyotch face helps a LOT to avoid unwanted contact.

    The last time I was flirted with/hit on it was actually in a really threatening situation and the guy totally didn't get it and didn't leave it when I said to leave it. It was actually at my place of work (nanny in a family's private residence) and he was there, alone, with me, alone, to install a dryer. Lots of telling me I'm beautiful, saying my eyes were so gorgeous they were distracting him, etc. All perfectly kind things to say but the context was all wrong, I ended up calling his boss and he was let go. He had been a temp or something but yeah, flirting with me with get you ignored or fired.
  • dwatson925
    dwatson925 Posts: 143 Member
    joesgal22 wrote: »
    Why is it men say that they are usually not sure that they are being flirted with? Just curious.
    joesgal22 wrote: »
    Why is it men say that they are usually not sure that they are being flirted with? Just curious.

    I guess I'm dense but I never think I am being flirted with.
  • Kvm11628
    Kvm11628 Posts: 7,386 Member
    synchkat wrote: »
    I'm married. Flirting is wrong. :p

    Correct. I must be locked away in s safe place. Never to see another man ever again.

    Oh, I crack myself up.

  • synchkat
    synchkat Posts: 37,368 Member
    Kvm11628 wrote: »
    synchkat wrote: »
    I'm married. Flirting is wrong. :p

    Correct. I must be locked away in s safe place. Never to see another man ever again.

    Oh, I crack myself up.

    You are so wise
  • Kvm11628
    Kvm11628 Posts: 7,386 Member
    synchkat wrote: »
    Kvm11628 wrote: »
    synchkat wrote: »
    I'm married. Flirting is wrong. :p

    Correct. I must be locked away in s safe place. Never to see another man ever again.

    Oh, I crack myself up.

    You are so wise

    15 years locked in the same room gives you time to think.

  • your_pal_crusher
    your_pal_crusher Posts: 4,437 Member
    I like it a lot.
  • duckforceone
    duckforceone Posts: 121 Member
    i love it when a lady knows how to flirt...
  • Kvm11628
    Kvm11628 Posts: 7,386 Member
    I like it a lot.

    You, Jeff? I'm shocked!
  • RavenLibra
    RavenLibra Posts: 1,737 Member
    it's a millisecond jolt of Wow!!! it's a momentary glimpse of a future life filled with happy endings for all... an exercise in quick thinking imagination.. it's a "happily ever after" moment free of drama... who would not be intoxicated by that little zap to the brain? Nothing more powerful than someone of the opposite sex stirring your imagination.
  • RavenLibra
    RavenLibra Posts: 1,737 Member
    it's about as rare as finding a woman who's purse, shoes and belt all match in this day and age
  • RavenLibra
    RavenLibra Posts: 1,737 Member
    umm put me in the yes column :)
  • synchkat
    synchkat Posts: 37,368 Member
    RavenLibra wrote: »
    it's a millisecond jolt of Wow!!! it's a momentary glimpse of a future life filled with happy endings for all... an exercise in quick thinking imagination.. it's a "happily ever after" moment free of drama... who would not be intoxicated by that little zap to the brain? Nothing more powerful than someone of the opposite sex stirring your imagination.

    a future of happy endings??? awwww the starry eyes of youth
  • avionicsman14
    avionicsman14 Posts: 68 Member
    I flirt a lot and enjoy when a woman flirts back with me! Keeps a person feeling good about themselves doesn't it??
  • synchkat
    synchkat Posts: 37,368 Member
    I flirt a lot and enjoy when a woman flirts back with me! Keeps a person feeling good about themselves doesn't it??

    but what about those who aren't flirted with? Ever think of their feelings? They haz the sadz when they have to watch this happening.
  • Simplifi
    Simplifi Posts: 128 Member
    It's often the case that I never realize I'm being flirted with until it's over and the person walked away LOL... but when it does happen yes, I do like it a lot. It feels good. :)
  • Simplifi
    Simplifi Posts: 128 Member
    synchkat wrote: »
    RavenLibra wrote: »
    it's a millisecond jolt of Wow!!! it's a momentary glimpse of a future life filled with happy endings for all... an exercise in quick thinking imagination.. it's a "happily ever after" moment free of drama... who would not be intoxicated by that little zap to the brain? Nothing more powerful than someone of the opposite sex stirring your imagination.

    a future of happy endings??? awwww the starry eyes of youth

    Bazinga!
  • saramarie495
    saramarie495 Posts: 48 Member
    Haha, it depends. If someone is really sweet, then sure! :) I hate catcalls though. Frankly, they're creepy.
  • Cameron_1969
    Cameron_1969 Posts: 2,855 Member
    I am expecting lots of flirting now that I have abs.
  • synchkat
    synchkat Posts: 37,368 Member
    I am expecting lots of flirting now that I have abs.

    I'm not sure you understand how it works. :p
  • Simplifi
    Simplifi Posts: 128 Member
    I was thinking the same thing.