Is anyone else unhappy with their boobs??!

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  • Schwiggity
    Schwiggity Posts: 1,449 Member
    I will agree with some of the other posts... .MEN love BOOBS no matter what size, shape, or form, color.. whatever the case may be... MEN <3 BOOBS

    Ex of mine has a B cup, and a DD. I nicknamed them Lenny and George from "Of Mice and Men" and didn't enjoy them any less.
  • JennsLosing
    JennsLosing Posts: 1,026
    overall im happy, but im not done on my weight loss journey yet. If i ever got anything done to them, from what i can see now, it would only be a lift.
  • Schwiggity
    Schwiggity Posts: 1,449 Member
    I was really unhappy with my DD boobs. I've had large breasts since 13-14 and finally 5 months ago at the age of 21 I got a reduction :) Surgeon said even if I lost weight the tissue in my boobs was too thick to lose. Even a small complication post-surgery I do not regret it.

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hui-yI7G4k8

    I guess Todd didn't make it.
  • i_love_vinegar
    i_love_vinegar Posts: 2,092 Member
    I went from man boobs to no boobs :sad:

    :laugh:
  • Jessamin
    Jessamin Posts: 338 Member
    I LOVE my boobies.

    They're significantly smaller but I can fit into cute bras and they're still perky and fab. All is well on the titty front.
  • annacataldo
    annacataldo Posts: 872 Member
    I hate mine with a passion. In 1st grade i started to develope and my mom begged me to wear a training bra, but i never would because i was already made fun of for being fat, didnt want to be the only person wearing a bra and be made fun of for it. By 4th grade i was probably a b cup (not exactly sure), and finally there was a girl wearing one, so i ran home and begged my mom for a bra. In 5th grade i was a C cup, freshman year I was at least a D (wore a D, but might have been bigger cuz of improperly fitting--thought i was a D for years until i got fitted once and was actually an H). 3 years of not wearing a bra when i shouldve been in my most active years of life, while combined with being overweight, means ive never once in my life had perky boobs. I would love to have a lift some day.

    I refuse to let my boyfriend see me standing naked, i cant go anywhere without a bra; even out in my own living room where my mom might be... I also cant find anything in my size and have to specially order online and get bras that are ugly or if they might be somewhat cute i order them too small just to have a cuter size.
  • anewattitude
    anewattitude Posts: 483 Member
    Mine are fine just the way they are. I do, however need to be careful when I wear something strapless because I don't always have enough to fill it.. depending on the style.

    Good luck!
  • tproctor
    tproctor Posts: 90 Member
    I'm OK with mine!!! ;)
  • TKP513
    TKP513 Posts: 2
    Tuberous breasts---they caused a lot of self esteem issues for me. I used to weigh 180, but no matter if I was big or small, I knew there was something wrong. I went to the doc and she told me what it was. She also said, that if I went two years sooner, it would have been covered by insurance. I had reconstructive surgery and implants. Even though they are fantastic and I feel normal, the pain was nothing like I expected. The reconstruction really added more pain, and money, to the bill. In the end, I am very happy with my choice. Just be positive you have nothing to do and a lot of help for at least the first 2 weeks...I didn't feel like a person again until about week 6.
  • ShyBreasts
    ShyBreasts Posts: 91
    Tuberous breasts---they caused a lot of self esteem issues for me. I used to weigh 180, but no matter if I was big or small, I knew there was something wrong. I went to the doc and she told me what it was. She also said, that if I went two years sooner, it would have been covered by insurance. I had reconstructive surgery and implants. Even though they are fantastic and I feel normal, the pain was nothing like I expected. The reconstruction really added more pain, and money, to the bill. In the end, I am very happy with my choice. Just be positive you have nothing to do and a lot of help for at least the first 2 weeks...I didn't feel like a person again until about week 6.

    I hope you don't mind but I added you as a friend! :-)
    X
  • tauny78
    tauny78 Posts: 180 Member
    I have a love/hate relationship with my breasts, lol. I used to be quite small, but with weight gain and 2 pregnancies they have grown significantly. I went from an A/B to now a C/D...or as my weight rises again, a D/DD! AAAAHHHH! I don't mind the larger breasts, but I was happy with smaller ones. But, if I can lose the weight and keep my breasts as they are, I won't mind :). I used to think that when I reached my goal weight, I might have them lifted if I thought they were too droopy after the weight loss, but have recently changed my mind after watching a few videos on medical shows of the procedure. YUCK! and OUCH!!! No thank you. I will just exorcise and try to lift them naturally, or deal with the droop with push up bras!
  • sweetbri07
    sweetbri07 Posts: 150 Member
    Wow, after reading the information about tuberous breasts, it was like reading about myself. I really just thought I had a lack of breast tissue making mine look a bit "off" (I dont want to say deformed), and after having 2 kids, all I did was lose the remaining perkiness I had left. Although the couple guys who have seen my breasts post-kids have had no problem with them (they ARE guys), I am still extremely self-conscious about them. The weight I've held onto from having 2 kids back to back has made them go up to a 36C, but looking at them, they dont LOOK like that size at all! It's amazing the way we look at ourselves.

    I hope to get cosmetic surgery sometime in the near future, and now reading about tuberous breasts, it'll give me something more to talk to my doctor about. Thank you for bringing this information to light and love yourself no matter what!!!
  • _Aimée_
    _Aimée_ Posts: 190
    Did you know its a myth that breastfeeding will make your boobs sag? Pregnancy ruins your boobies, not nursing.

    I'm happy ish with my chest. I have to be. It belongs to me and I can't afford to change it, nor would I want somebody to cut me up. Just have to buy good bras and be safe in the knowledge that my other half loves me and loves my body whether I'm small chested, big chested, droopy chested or otherwise.
  • fittina
    fittina Posts: 8 Member
    I have had 4 kids and even w/o breastfeeding them my boobs went through changes. With my last pregnancy, I am almost deflated and I didn't have much to start with. When the milk came in I got up to a C cup but I was normally a B cup. Now I am lucky if I am an A cup.Picture small and droopy. Not pretty.Sure the thought has crossed my mind about getting a boob job but then I come back to reality.It all comes down to this is the way God created me and to just be thankful that he did.My mom and grandma are both breast cancer survivors and my grandma has had a double mastectomy. No boobs at all for her.With this kind of history,no way am I getting a boob job. I am just grateful for what I was given and my dh is happy with them just the way they are.
  • Lyadeia
    Lyadeia Posts: 4,603 Member
    I have always hated my boobs. I can't say that losing weight made them smaller, because they were always pitiful to begin with. I've always had A cups...they were just 38A before losing weight, 34A now. Ever try to find a bra in 38 or 36A? You'll want to cry at the end of the day because nobody sells those sizes. At least, not often. And being so teeny, there's a ton of clothes that I can't wear because they won't fit properly. You'll never see me in a bandeau bikini cause I can't keep it up. And Victoria's Secret lingerie? That crap starts in B cups...not talking their everyday bras, but their sexy stuff that I would like to wear for my husband...nothing they sell fits me unless I get the "one size fits most" crap that they size S, M, and L. Sad thing is size small for them fits great everywhere...unless you look at the extra bust fabric.

    So, yes, when I am done cutting fat, I am definitely getting a set of decent boobs. And I don't want anything huge. I would be happy with a B cup at this point, but I will probably get C. Nothing bigger than that.
  • emma1488
    emma1488 Posts: 175
    I've always had small boobs and felt like I needed implants to 'fit in'...but then I thought f*** it! To me, my boobs are a great shape, my bf loves them and I dont get any form of back problems that come from bigger breasts. I don't know how I feel about them after having babies/breastfeeding. But surgery is not an option. IMO it's a waste of money that I could spend in much better ways.

    That's just my opinion though, about my own self. I know that some people are really unhappy with their breasts. I just hope they don't consider being 'small' as being not good enough.
  • brittanyscherich
    brittanyscherich Posts: 355 Member
    I really hate mine! One is bigger than the other. And they kind of sag because they're so big. I'd love to have them done, but I mentioned it to my husband and he definitely did not like the idea. So I guess it's out :( But it's the part of my body that I hate the most.
  • daiisyy
    daiisyy Posts: 9 Member
    yes! i hate mine too!they were small to beging with but they looked ok,now after i breastfed for only 4 months thy have stretch marks and there extrmely saggy!once im 18 im gettin them done!:)if i loose these last 10 pounds
  • helloiloveukitty
    helloiloveukitty Posts: 448 Member
    I don't like mine, small...ugly...not right for my frame and they got so deflated after losing weight. I'm getting new ones in august and I'm so freaking excited. I'm also having a lift. Hoping everything goes wonderful, to me the risk or surgery and complications don't hold a candle to having the big gorgeous tatas I find beautiful and that suit me much better then the icky boobs I have now. Also....I have asymmetry so even if I were not getting implants it would still be what I would call corrective. Not that it matters, I think women should STOP listening to other people about their breasts and do what makes them feel good, whatever that is. Screw what men want or say they like, we have to wear these for life.
  • angel_reborn
    angel_reborn Posts: 9
    I truly love what I have, but I do sometimes think to myself - I wish both of my tits were same size (I hate it how one is little bit bigger than the other)
  • TheDeviation
    TheDeviation Posts: 149
    This is why women need to stop worrying about the boobs so much. Men love them all! God bless you all boys!
    To paraphrase Rodney Carrington, "Once you've seen one pair ya pretty much wanna see 'em all".

    :) Ladies, guys just like boobs. We don't care if one is bigger than the other, if they're so big your back hurts, or even if the small & perky. Not really as picky as you think. ;)
  • Voncreepy2
    Voncreepy2 Posts: 1,450 Member
    Feel free to post pictures of said boobs and I'll give my professional opinion. :p

    BWHAHAHAHAH!!!!:laugh:
  • DanceYogaRun
    DanceYogaRun Posts: 373 Member
    I thought mine would be the first to go as I started losing weight. Well, 10 lbs down and I can tighten my strap 2 more notches, but the cup size is still ALL there. Deflate! I say!

    I won't disclose my cup size, but umm, it's a consonant and it's beyond the first two vowels. I don't hate them, but I would be in love with them a bit smaller, I think.
  • BrianTheNegotiator
    BrianTheNegotiator Posts: 25 Member
    My take on boobs:
    If it's the first time a guy is seeing them, he's going to be way more excited to see them than disappointed in them.
    If the guy has seen them many times before, he's still going to be excited. Plus, he likes you or loves you.
    Large boobs have obvious charms, such as being nice to look at.
    Small boobs have hidden charms, such as being perky, or allowing you to wear a top with no bra. That can be sexier than large boobs to many guys.
    Finally, there are many different flavors of candy, and wine, and tea, and juice, and ice cream - and not everyone likes all of them, but somebody likes each of them. Boobs are like that.
  • songbyrdsweet
    songbyrdsweet Posts: 5,691 Member
    I love my jubblies! But when I was younger and still developing, I had a full cup-size difference, and I was really self conscious and concerned that it might be permanent. Fortunately they've grown in evenly and my bf and I think they're dynamite. :) They are a bit 'saggy' from weight gain/loss, but they look fine anyway, and great in a bra, and great when I'm lying down (*ahem*). That being said, I looked up tuberous breasts, and if I had developed in that way I would most likely want some corrective surgery.
  • songbyrdsweet
    songbyrdsweet Posts: 5,691 Member
    I don't like mine, small...ugly...not right for my frame and they got so deflated after losing weight. I'm getting new ones in august and I'm so freaking excited. I'm also having a lift. Hoping everything goes wonderful, to me the risk or surgery and complications don't hold a candle to having the big gorgeous tatas I find beautiful and that suit me much better then the icky boobs I have now. Also....I have asymmetry so even if I were not getting implants it would still be what I would call corrective. Not that it matters, I think women should STOP listening to other people about their breasts and do what makes them feel good, whatever that is. Screw what men want or say they like, we have to wear these for life.

    Okay, I looked at your pics because I was like...'ugly?'....your tatas are voluptuous! I mean, small compared to what?? :-O
  • amyamadea
    amyamadea Posts: 17
    Yep. Mine have always been on the larger side (I literally went from being flat-chested to a C cup overnight during puberty, made school fun) and with weight fluctuations were an F cup at my largest (about three stone ago - 42lbs). They are currently sitting at a rather less than pert 32E so I look stupidly out of proportion and would love a lift and reduction at some point.

    Until then, it's just industrial strength bras.
  • zeeeb
    zeeeb Posts: 805 Member
    i don't hate my boobs, but i hate that they are saggy (even saggier than they were pre-kids)... they look ok in clothes, but i'd love to get a boob job so that they would stand up by themselves without a bra....

    and if i got a boob job, it would be for me, not to impress the masses of men out there, it's not all about you guys, it's about how we feel about ourselves.
  • LorinaLynn
    LorinaLynn Posts: 13,247 Member
    I'm really happy with my boob's shape. They're like teenager boobs! Sometimes I've felt like they should be bigger, but I've yet to hear a guy say that Gwen Stephani, Taylor Swift, Audrey Hepburn, Kate Hudson, Sandra Bullock or any number of other less endowed women aren't flippin' gorgeous.

    Even Bettie Page, pretty much the undisputed queen of pinups, wasn't particularly busty. If Bettie can make men drool without her cups runningeth over, so can I. :happy:
  • gnat45
    gnat45 Posts: 833 Member
    My cups runneth over and then some. I'm not only busty (34DD, perhaps soon 34D), but I'm also short, and that makes me look even more busty. I am hoping to lose in my boobs.
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