Anyone celibate?
jtcedinburgh
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Carrying on the subject of sex, is anyone celibate through choice? I've thought about it. Don't know why, as I enjoy the horizontal tango, but I sometimes wonder whether it would make life easier.... perhaps, after a while, you stop thinking about it and can devote mental energies to other stuff. Maybe I'm leaning towards some dippy zen ideology, who knows....??? 
Feel free to label me bizarre. Many do.
Feel free to label me bizarre. Many do.
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Never intentionally!2
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I was celibate by choice for 2 years. Apparently I have greater willpower giving up sex than I do giving up overeating.18
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Not by choice.2
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I was once celibate from 1954 to 1966. I started having sex at 12. I started having sex, with a partner, at 16.11
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I am not now, as I am married. However, I was for over 6 years! I had divorced my first husband by the time our son was a year old; I dated here & there for the first couple of years, but really never had the time or the desire to put any effort into a "relationship" and casual sex is just not so casual for me! Lol!
I realized that I was OK being single. I went back to school, became a nurse, had a good job, lived comfortably in a nice condo, my son attended a private school, etc...I was where I wanted to be and my focus was squarly on raising my son.
I did reconnect with my now husband (we were high school sweethearts) at our high school reunion and -obviously- that turned into something more, thus ending my celebacy. But, I can say -for me- I really did get to a point where I kind of "forgot" about sex! I think it was somewhere between six months to a year. I didn't find it odd then and I don't find it odd looking back at it! I really got to know a lot about myself in that time & am happy to report that I liked myself!
Good luck to you and I am sorry for the super long response!7 -
Yes I can't say it's by choice it just is. When you get married and take those vows seriously and something seriously happens it just is. I'm just glad I still have him and I'm hoping if the shoe was on the other foot he wouldn't be off looking for another wife.4
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I'm celibate between every horizontal hump encounter with my lady friend, aka my wife 2
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I'm waiting until I get married. I know it's somewhat unusually and I certainly don't expect my future spouse to have waited.15
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The last lady I dated, which was 3 years after my divorce, we made the decision to not touch each other physically for a while. We wanted the relationship to grow mentally/emotionally/spiritually before physically. We went almost a year without getting physical. Eventually, we gave in and it was magical. I haven't had a physical relation since her passing (which was some years ago). I don't think it's by choice, but perhaps it is. I don't know.9
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I was celibate for almost two years by choice, many years ago. I can honestly say it didn't make life any easier, or make problems solve themselves more clearly...my mood was not any better at that time than it is during the more sexually abundant years, actually I think I was much more on edge...lol. I've found that as I've gotten older (almost 47 now), and am in a long term relationship (23 years), sex isn't as "life or death" important anyways. We still love it, still jump each other with enthusiasm, still look forward to dates...but good sleep, talking for hours, and just hanging out together is just as paramount.11
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PS. Disclaimer: I'm *not* celibate. I just thought it would be a good counterpoint to the 'Sex? Sure...' thread. For my own part, I'd like a bit more than I get, but would rather have less but of high quality, than more of lower quality. As with everything in life, a few better things are better than many mediocre ones...10
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Not celibate anymore.. After having sex i have no clue how i went so long without it.0
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I am married, so ....yes I'm celibate...anybody wanna help me fix that????4
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Friday on MFP and the classroom is running amok . . .3
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Yes, I'm celibate by choice. I hate people.12
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You could say it is by choice, in that I haven't been involved with anyone since my divorce, but I have been celibate for over 2 years.1
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"devote mental energies to other stuff. Maybe I'm leaning towards some dippy zen ideology, who knows....???"
Sex is the best thing ever, but a little down time (if you're not in a relationship) does some cool Zen things to your mindset. I highly recommend it.0 -
I've been celibate for a few hours now. Plan on rectifying that tonight though.3
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Just say NO to celibacy and YES and gettin your freak on! If you are not into freaky, well, you might be missin out!2
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Sugar_Pill wrote: »Sugar_Pill wrote: »Sugar_Pill wrote: »
It's Friday morning- and it was terrible.
Lol - wow, aren't you a ray of sunshine
Cheer up, its the weekend
You don't make it to the top without a few enemies, sunshine.
LOL - what?? Top of what sorry?
You're not cut out for this
Sorry - I'm not cut out to speak to someone in a chat forum? I made a joke, you didn't get it and then used negativity to try and surpress me because you are a self proclaimed 'celebrity' on the chat forums? Wow...you must be so proud I made a joke - very sorry
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Free hugs2
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