He honked at me and I instantly fell in love...
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aceofswords
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... Said no woman ever.
Seriously though, what is it that compels men to honk at women as they are jogging?
It's not encouraging (although it does help me run faster just to get off the road and back to the safety of my apartment) and it's distracting. If you're honking at me, it better be because my life is in danger because of something you can see that I can't, not because you've decided my puffy, red face and sweat-stained shirt are somehow a turn on.
Ladies, how do you deal with this during your exercise?
(For the record, I usually wear capri-length leggings and a t-shirt when I run, so I am fully covered.)
Seriously though, what is it that compels men to honk at women as they are jogging?
It's not encouraging (although it does help me run faster just to get off the road and back to the safety of my apartment) and it's distracting. If you're honking at me, it better be because my life is in danger because of something you can see that I can't, not because you've decided my puffy, red face and sweat-stained shirt are somehow a turn on.
Ladies, how do you deal with this during your exercise?
(For the record, I usually wear capri-length leggings and a t-shirt when I run, so I am fully covered.)
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I've had people yell things at me while I'm out. I usually just roll my eyes and carry on with what I'm doing.
If they just keep on going they were probably just being immature and aren't actually dangerous so you should keep doing what you're doing.1 -
i take it as a compliment, its never bothered me or made me feel threatened in any way.7
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It's annoying as all get out when people honk at me. It's completely startling and I'm expecting danger when I hear it. So I'm with you, my life better be in danger if you're honking or I'll give you a death stare.5
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Sometimes there is crude intent and it's obvious, but I have also had people honk and give me a thumbs up or a "way to go!" and I always appreciate that encouragement, especially when it's raining/snowing/hot as hell and I know that they are thinking I must be a bad *kitten*. When somebody honks, I try to think that the intentions are good and take it at that. Unless, of course, there are crude comments, in which case I just flip them the bird and carry on.8
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I take it as a compliment. Even if it's annoying. Cat calling always is, and that's a form of cat calling. But it's still nice like "hey, your hard work is paying off"3
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I think it's funny and I laugh. I had some worker person hanging out of his van window once and I laughed. The other day a contractor was staring as I ran by....I laughed. I just think it's funny.2
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@lporter229 Yeah I definitely agree that sometimes it can come from a positive place. Like once a car slowed down beside me and it was a neighbour telling me that he'd seen me jogging every day and to keep up the hard work. Which I appreciated! But another time it was a guy asking for my number... I'm exercising dude, this isn't the time!2
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really loud music... I just drown it all out.1
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Have not had this happen. The one person who honked at me as I was running was a friend who I told to pretend she didn't know me if she ever saw me out running. So of course she honked and yelled "Woooooooo!" as she drove by.9
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I walked from my office to Rite Aid across the street to drop off some eveleopes- I started my timer because they have been cracking down on us at work about "time arrived- time taken on breaks and time left"-
From my desk to half way outside- was 3 minutes.
In that time I had not one but TWO People hollar at me out of their cars while I was walking.
Seriously. Why. it's annoying. And stupid.3 -
So annoying! I just try my best to move on but sometimes it can startle me if I was really 'in the zone' and if someone made a sexual comment.
I just move faster to get away from them or divert my route if they seem to be going the same way as me.2 -
I go early, before sunrise, only very serious people seem to be up at that time, LOL. This only happens to me when walking the dog in the afternoons.
And yes, I have to wonder sometimes why guys do stuff that has 0% chance of working, and that makes them seem so much less attractive, if their goal is to meet women? It's not even that I don't like guys honking, I would not go out with a guy who did that to others, either. It reflects on him badly.4 -
GnothiSeauton23 wrote: »Whaaaat? Usually all it takes is a honk... Sometimes just a hard stare.
Then again I drive a pretty hot windowless white van so maybe that's it.
you have candy in that white van is the real question.
Candy- or bacon.5 -
The bird is the word.
If it's someone who knows me, I'll apologize for flipping them off.2 -
GnothiSeauton23 wrote: »GnothiSeauton23 wrote: »Whaaaat? Usually all it takes is a honk... Sometimes just a hard stare.
Then again I drive a pretty hot windowless white van so maybe that's it.
you have candy in that white van is the real question.
Candy- or bacon.
Candy lures the wrong clientele...I'm not about that life
bacon then. well- #allaboutdatlife
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I hate this so much. I would be perfectly happy if I could be invisible while I'm in public, I'm pretty sure. I don't really understand why some perceive it as a compliment - to me it just feels aggressive, especially as I know there's no way these people are expressing sincere appreciation for my sweaty, red, huffing form. I do not look the slightest bit attractive when I run so I can only conclude that it comes from a place of wanting to startle me.
I try to pick quiet residential streets for running outdoors but sometimes it's one of the reasons I just hop on a treadmill instead, frankly.5 -
It's rude and annoying, I ignore it...but sometimes that is hard, particularly if they pull up and try to talk to you...creepy as frack...4
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I don't get honked at often, but I do get the occasional comment yelled out towards me. And I take it as a compliment, always have. It's usually out in public where I don't feel threatened, and even then I often times have pepperspray (though I didn't get it for that reason, I got it when I started my job downtown where there are a lot of, what security calls, "transients"). It makes me feel good that other people notice the hard work I put in to myself. I know that other people do notice at other times and are gentlemanly enough not to say anything, but it's nice to just have that affirmation every now and then, especially as I get older. That being said, you're right in the meaning of your OP. It's not an attractive quality in the person making the cat calls, and I never have, nor ever would date anyone that would participate in that.0
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