advice from men please
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I was once dating a girl and she said to me: "I love you."
At least that what it sounded like at the time.
I soon realized that she had muttered: " I loathe you."
.... that's kinda different.
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Motorsheen wrote: »I was once dating a girl and she said to me: "I love you."
At least that what it sounded like at the time.
I soon realized that she had muttered: " I loathe you."
.... that's kinda different.
I think the second is more exciting!!!
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Motorsheen wrote: »How many minutes have you two been dating?Motorsheen wrote: »How many minutes have you two been dating?Motorsheen wrote: »How many minutes have you two been dating?
262800.288 minutes and counting0 -
Women always over-think this communication thing, always wanting to figure out "what's he really mean," etc. Guys are simple creatures and we prefer direct and clear communication. If you feel it and want to say it, then say it. And whatever he does or doesn't say in return, just take it at face value. There is no secret code to decipher.7
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MarkusDarwath wrote: »Women always over-think this communication thing, always wanting to figure out "what's he really mean," etc. Guys are simple creatures and we prefer direct and clear communication. If you feel it and want to say it, then say it. And whatever he does or doesn't say in return, just take it at face value. There is no secret code to decipher.
This. I think men, myself in particular, don't understand subtlety. Hints, implication, etc. go right over our heads. Just tell him. If he returns it great, if he doesn't at least you know where he is.3 -
Get me out of 15 year old please1
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If you don't know how to tell someone you love them you probably don't love them. If you are with someone who might be startled to find out you love them you are with somebody emotionally immature.2
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To clarify - Love isn't a moment in time. Love isn't some threshold. Emotionally intelligent people recognize love long before it's spoken - because the spoken admission of the feeling is NOT the feeling. The feeling is manifest in day to day living and being beside the object of the love. If I'm ever shocked or surprised by a woman confessing love a couple things would have happened: Firstly, I'd kick myself for my lack of awareness. Secondly I'd be immediately suspicious because If I hadn't felt the love or seen the love I'd assume the love wasn't there. When love exists between a man and a woman - within their relationship, it's easily known; it's felt because the love-feeling permeates every aspect of the connection they share.10
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To the OP. Forcryingoutloud.... Don't tell him anything or he will RUN!1
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Oral is the best way. ....
Honestly. We're simple. Don't hint, don't drop clues. Just flat out tell him.0 -
Definitely oral. Men love oral1
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get another boyfriend
do not dump this current boyfriend though just get another one on the side
it will all become clear after2 -
Words are cheap, so don't tell him....SHOW him.0
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When you can no longer contain the words then it is time to say it no matter who goes first or fails to respond.4
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If he is a guy that is worth having a relationship with telling him won't be a big deal.
If it is all about playing games and who should say it first and all that other BS, you are pretty much in a doomed relationship as it is.
What kind of relationship do you want? A mature one or a high school one?2 -
Me: I love you.
Her: Thank you.
I should have run like hell. I'd still have a 401k.13 -
Well, to gauge if he loves you too, start showing up where he is unexpectedly. If he asks you why you are stalking him, you know he doesn't love you.2
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devil_in_a_blue_dress wrote: »Well, to gauge if he loves you too, start showing up where he is unexpectedly. If he asks you why you are stalking him, you know he doesn't love you.
This can backfire. It's how I ended up married.4
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