My heart hurts
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My Grandma says the best way to get over someone is to get under someone else. Works every time!!7
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Caporegiem wrote: »ncboiler89 wrote: »
and blow
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Caporegiem wrote: »ncboiler89 wrote: »
and blow
on the toilet of dive bars0 -
JessicaJS23 wrote: »My Grandma says the best way to get over someone is to get under someone else. Works every time!!
Your Gramma is a very smart woman! But then, most Gramma's are!0 -
Rather than missing the relationship, examine and understand it. Honestly see the part you played - the good and the bad. Through doing that, you'll come to a better understanding of yourself and your relationship with others. Happy days are ahead, give it time.2
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http://community.myfitnesspal.com/en/discussion/comment/37381682#Comment_37381682
Isn't this your thread? This is what you wanted isn't it?
What happened?1 -
She wanted to be single and now she is and I don't understand why she keeps reminding herself of the breakup by bringing it up here all the time
Do you actually care how she's feeling? Then talk to her and try to help. Or is the fact she is posting her pain bothering you? Don't click, you can see her profile pic next to the thread.
Perhaps she's honestly struggling, even though it's what she wanted, she may not have been prepared for it. You know the thread you linked was hers - was throwing it in her face helpful?
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fanceegirl75 wrote: »http://community.myfitnesspal.com/en/discussion/comment/37381682#Comment_37381682
Isn't this your thread? This is what you wanted isn't it?
What happened?
She wanted to be single and now she is and I don't understand why she keeps reminding herself of the breakup by bringing it up here all the time
Well sometimes people have relationships that they have to get out of, and they still love that person; but it is not working. You don't get over a relationship of several years right away. It is painful and you get sad.1 -
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The only real advice I can bring to the table is to keep reminding yourself "why". Why it didn't work, why you wanted out...
When my ex and I split, the best thing for me was to "fake it till I make it". Tell myself I'm ok, this is ok, I'll be ok...everything is ok...not perfect, but ok. Eventually, it was! Much love, OP..we all joke around here, but in the end, this is no joking matter. Your heart hurts, and we hear you...take care of yourself, mon ami...xo4 -
Workout...a lot. Listen to a lot of angry chick music and run. Then watch all the sappy chick flicks that I normally don't enjoy just to get all the crying out of the way and then find some way to get my aggression out.1
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Libertysfate wrote: »Workout...a lot. Listen to a lot of angry chick music and run. Then watch all the sappy chick flicks that I normally don't enjoy just to get all the crying out of the way and then find some way to get my aggression out.
i believe that is called the lifetime channel
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Workout, sex, read, work, drink, backpack, drink, sex, drink, run, lift, drink, drink, drink . . .0
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Jerrypeoples wrote: »Libertysfate wrote: »Workout...a lot. Listen to a lot of angry chick music and run. Then watch all the sappy chick flicks that I normally don't enjoy just to get all the crying out of the way and then find some way to get my aggression out.
i believe that is called the lifetime channel
aka "Tears and Tequila" or "Wine and Whine"0 -
PlaydohPants wrote: »sunnybeaches105 wrote: »Workout, sex, read, work, drink, backpack, drink, sex, drink, run, lift, drink, drink, drink . . .
My heart must hurt too because this sounds like a regular Tuesday
Cheers. Mine is killing me . . .1 -
move on and find another guy that is willing to do right by you!1
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Date around. A really nice way to get over someone is to find someone better2
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The biggest tip I'd say is don't play the victim. When you do so, you become helpless. Needless, this does not imply you are at fault either but rather acknowledge that there is opportunity for improvement within yourself (whether it is partner selection, getting over your fear of loneliness, or etc.). Your relationship doesn't define who you are as an individual so even though it didn't work out, appreciate everything else that still is in your life.
Keep yourself busy. Work out, train hard! Look good, feel good! Before you know it, you'll wonder why you ever dated the guy.1
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