Feeling unattractive?

lenalovestofish
lenalovestofish Posts: 80 Member
edited December 19 in Chit-Chat
Anyone feel unattractive no matter how hard you try
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  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    lenalovestofish wrote: »
    Anyone feel unattractive no matter how hard you try

    Try?
  • lenoresdream
    lenoresdream Posts: 522 Member
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    lenalovestofish wrote: »
    Anyone feel unattractive no matter how hard you try

    Try?

    I'm guessing she means getting dressed up and putting on makeup, stuff like that
  • Pterod
    Pterod Posts: 131 Member
    Rejected by my husband most days...yep I feel unattractive right now.
  • drbuzzard91
    drbuzzard91 Posts: 1,204 Member
    all the time so I am like whats the point lol so i eat more jack in the box hehe
  • girl_inflames
    girl_inflames Posts: 374 Member
    Yup.
  • rhianna_c
    rhianna_c Posts: 6 Member
    Always
  • alyssagb1
    alyssagb1 Posts: 353 Member
    Elise4270 wrote: »
    From your profile pic, you're not ugly/unattractive. Enjoy your youth, your are beautiful.

    Embrace your ever changing looks. I avoid mirrors :wink:

    But seriously, your not ugly. Work it girl!

    Seconded. You're very pretty. You'll have good and bad days, where you feel attractive and unattractive. Just a fact of life.
  • Timshel_
    Timshel_ Posts: 22,834 Member
    I feel somewhat smart, funny, and I am not completely unfortunate with looks, but never felt attractive, or get really uncomfortable with the rare times someone says sexy. i just don't get those.
  • RunsWithBees
    RunsWithBees Posts: 1,508 Member
    km8907 wrote: »
    Yup.
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    :o But... Iguanas are sooooo cuuuuuute!!! (I have a pet iggy and he's just the cutest 6 foot long baby ever!) Guess beauty really is in the eye of the beholder :)
  • amcalmond768
    amcalmond768 Posts: 289 Member
    Timshel_ wrote: »
    I feel somewhat smart, funny, and I am not completely unfortunate with looks, but never felt attractive, or get really uncomfortable with the rare times someone says sexy. i just don't get those.

    Haha I totally get that. I always try to rely on my personality more then anything
  • amcalmond768
    amcalmond768 Posts: 289 Member
    total_e wrote: »
    amcalmond768 wrote: »
    Timshel_ wrote: »
    I feel somewhat smart, funny, and I am not completely unfortunate with looks, but never felt attractive, or get really uncomfortable with the rare times someone says sexy. i just don't get those.

    Haha I totally get that. I always try to rely on my personality more then anything

    Same. When you look like me, you gotta be funny or something.

    A kick *kitten* personality is everything ... Looks are just the added bonus..and beauty is in the eyes of the beholder
  • _birdie__
    _birdie__ Posts: 308 Member
    yep i dont think it will ever change

    i'm ok with that though

    like ive lived so long irl as an un pretty girl i wouldn't know how to be any other way

  • teetertatertango
    teetertatertango Posts: 229 Member
    Try to figure out what is making you feel this way...

    Social or other media? Maybe time for a little break from the edited, airbrushed "ideals".

    There is something about you that is unique and wonderful. If you nurture that, your supposed physical imperfections will seem remote. Are you treating yourself well?

    Also, I've found volunteering to be really helpful for shifting my perspective.
  • Geeky_and_Cheeky
    Geeky_and_Cheeky Posts: 493 Member
    I have my days, that's for sure. I'm a work in progress after my separation. I'm very worn down from doing everything by myself. I'm hoping in a few months, our divorce will be finalized, and I'll be in a routine & can start putting some effort into my looks & drop this nagging 20lbs. Maybe even start dating again.
  • pleaserose
    pleaserose Posts: 8 Member
    edited September 2016
    Just know this beauty is not about the outward appearance . Your kindness , your generosity, or your curiosity.The willingness to reach out, to touch , to stop someone's tears. The will to make some one laugh . To be the shoulder, and the ear . To listen, to cry , to breathe, to fight, and to dream .These things are someone's true beauty . There fore if you do one kind thing you are the prettiest person in the world. The will to try, dream,question, and push forward also make people beautiful. Social media does not tell you that .

    Yes even I do. Sometimes I fall into that pot..


  • ncboiler89
    ncboiler89 Posts: 2,408 Member
    edited September 2016
    bearbugbear wrote: »
    Rejected by my husband most days...yep I feel unattractive right now.

    Not going to lie. This made me sad
  • lisciousg24
    lisciousg24 Posts: 189 Member
    bearbugbear wrote: »
    Rejected by my husband most days...yep I feel unattractive right now.

    WTF!!!
    So not right!
    Don't let that bring you down.
  • ncboiler89
    ncboiler89 Posts: 2,408 Member
    Cutaway_Collar wrote: »
    Nope. When my wife and I get out of the house, heads turn.

    Atta boy
  • lisciousg24
    lisciousg24 Posts: 189 Member
    Some days! I think it's a matter of who knows. But some days I feel as beautiful as can be and others, ugh just can't grasp pretty.
  • refuseresist
    refuseresist Posts: 934 Member
    Cutaway_Collar wrote: »
    Nope. When my wife and I get out of the house, heads turn.

    For me, its stomachs
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