Dating a Co-Worker

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KevinPsalm23v4
KevinPsalm23v4 Posts: 208 Member
What are your thoughts on the matter:

Yes
No
Maybe
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  • tcunbeliever
    tcunbeliever Posts: 8,219 Member
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    No
  • melmelw03
    melmelw03 Posts: 5,338 Member
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    Bad idea
  • patrickblo13
    patrickblo13 Posts: 831 Member
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    Depends, I met my wife at my old job. But I have seen it end bad as well
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,492 Member
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    it depends

    it might be easier to first get her fired, then console her
  • grayblackmfp
    grayblackmfp Posts: 140 Member
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    No. Don't *kitten* where you eat.
    Also it's humiliating when they ditch you and start dating someone else from work. Not that this happened to me :'(
  • Sarc_Warrior
    Sarc_Warrior Posts: 430 Member
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    Don't *kitten* where you eat
  • PowerMan40
    PowerMan40 Posts: 766 Member
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    Dont do it, it can turn bad, for both or just one, can be embarrassing, some companies it is policy not to do so. I have seem people quit their jobs cause relationships when bad, and it got ugly at work.
  • TavistockToad
    TavistockToad Posts: 35,719 Member
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    Maybe....
  • neldabg
    neldabg Posts: 1,452 Member
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    Maybe, but I personally wouldn't.
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,492 Member
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    How am I supposed to answer this question without seeing a picture of her?

    right?

    risk vs. reward



    .... let's say I had a job drying off cars at a carwash (my dream job) and the cashier was attractive and nice?

    let me think...

    yeah, still, there's no way I would risk that career

  • 3M_TA3
    3M_TA3 Posts: 1,036 Member
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    Don't dip your pen in company ink.....
  • teetertatertango
    teetertatertango Posts: 229 Member
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    At 43 and divorced, I would not rule it out.

    With the following caveats:
    How are your relationships with your exes? If you are the kind of person who burns bridges, it's probably not a good idea.

    If you are the kind of person who dates people who turn out to be crazy, probably not a good idea.

    If you looking for casual stuff as a rebound, probably not a good idea.
  • kshama2001
    kshama2001 Posts: 27,966 Member
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    I was married for 18 years to a man I met at work.
  • Shana67
    Shana67 Posts: 680 Member
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    My husband and I work for the same company. It's a very large financial services company however, we only see each other at lunch (he is in legal, I am HR).
  • synchkat
    synchkat Posts: 37,369 Member
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    My first husband and I worked together
    My current husband and I met at work.
    I see no problem with it you have ready made discussion topics
  • NorthCascades
    NorthCascades Posts: 10,970 Member
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    As far as bad ideas go, this one is better than drinking gasoline.

    (But if you're gonna drink gasoline, you have to weigh it with a food scale first and make sure it fits your macros.)