Age gap relationships ❤

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  • KevinPsalm23v4
    KevinPsalm23v4 Posts: 208 Member
    edited September 2016
    newmeadow wrote: »
    A LONG time ago when I was dating and in the US Air Force (1995/1996) I was 22/23 and she was 40/41 and dating her was awesome .... and .... I sure did learn a thing or two.

    But at your age - 43 - you won't be dating a gal 18 years older anymore will you?

    When/IF I date again, I will go as low as maybe 8 years younger and maybe 8 years older.
  • jmt08c
    jmt08c Posts: 343 Member
    Honestly, I just really like women. Age, height, ethnicity whatever. I think the comedian Ron White put it best "Men, back me up on this. Once you see one woman naked...you want to see all of them naked." Age gap is no different than height gap, weight gap or dating a different race. It shouldn't matter.
  • PowerMan40
    PowerMan40 Posts: 766 Member
    jmt08c wrote: »
    Honestly, I just really like women. Age, height, ethnicity whatever. I think the comedian Ron White put it best "Men, back me up on this. Once you see one woman naked...you want to see all of them naked." Age gap is no different than height gap, weight gap or dating a different race. It shouldn't matter.

    Yep you got this right, don't matter, we are wired that way..
  • Just_J_Now
    Just_J_Now Posts: 9,551 Member
    jmt08c wrote: »
    Honestly, I just really like women. Age, height, ethnicity whatever. I think the comedian Ron White put it best "Men, back me up on this. Once you see one woman naked...you want to see all of them naked." Age gap is no different than height gap, weight gap or dating a different race. It shouldn't matter.

    You do realize the comedian was joking right? At 25 ask him if he'd enjoy seeing a 76 year old woman naked?
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  • Just_J_Now
    Just_J_Now Posts: 9,551 Member
    J_Surita3 wrote: »
    jmt08c wrote: »
    Honestly, I just really like women. Age, height, ethnicity whatever. I think the comedian Ron White put it best "Men, back me up on this. Once you see one woman naked...you want to see all of them naked." Age gap is no different than height gap, weight gap or dating a different race. It shouldn't matter.

    You do realize the comedian was joking right? At 25 ask him if he'd enjoy seeing a 76 year old woman naked?

    I would...cause gilfs!!!!

    Or in that case great gilfs.
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  • sohosocialclub
    sohosocialclub Posts: 299 Member
    It's just about how two people mesh. My first wife was my age. We f in hated each other. Hated each other for 16 long years. My wife now is 11 years younger and life is goooooood. Not perfect.....but really really good. I was more leery about the age than her. She had to talk me into the whole thing....well worth it.
  • amcalmond768
    amcalmond768 Posts: 289 Member
    I think this time around I am going to aim for a older guy! I have always been attracted to older men. They seem to know what they want have and have a clear path in life.
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  • amcalmond768
    amcalmond768 Posts: 289 Member
    newmeadow wrote: »
    I think this time around I am going to aim for a older guy! I have always been attracted to older men. They seem to know what they want have and have a clear path in life.

    Yes. They want younger women and it's clear their parents are very old so they'll soon be inheriting the real estate and bank accounts. LOL!

    Lmao haha that is probably very true!! Well the younger woman part. So where does that leave us women in their 30s???
  • amcalmond768
    amcalmond768 Posts: 289 Member
    newmeadow wrote: »
    newmeadow wrote: »
    I think this time around I am going to aim for a older guy! I have always been attracted to older men. They seem to know what they want have and have a clear path in life.

    Yes. They want younger women and it's clear their parents are very old so they'll soon be inheriting the real estate and bank accounts. LOL!

    Lmao haha that is probably very true!! Well the younger woman part. So where does that leave us women in their 30s???

    Go with 50s. Just make sure they're done with the alimony and child support. And preferably their parents have already died and left them the house and a trust fund. And they're still 30 years away from being sent to a nursing home. And in their 60s, blood flow issues will cause their erections to happen less and less frequently. So you'll soon be able to live with the pleasure of companionship and affection without being badgered for sex. It's the best of all worlds.

    Lmao you make a great case! Will you be my match maker??? Lol

    I could always try younger
  • Me and my boyfriend are 18 years apart:) I'm 23 and he's 41. I think it's fun lol. He sometimes thinks it's weird to think when he became an adult, I was just born lol!
  • knr87
    knr87 Posts: 2,013 Member
    I prefer older men. I think they are handsome and very interesting. I also feel I am an old soul and most older men I encounter are young at heart. I don't ever inquire about age until i get to know them a little. I don't want age to be an issue from the get go. :)
  • aneedforchange
    aneedforchange Posts: 75 Member
    I have also been there, that being said there came a great deal of limitations and we didn't have much in common in a few years but I get the judgement you probably receive from others And it's not fair! :( People need to focus on their own lives more and others less!
  • ncboiler89
    ncboiler89 Posts: 2,408 Member
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  • I always liked an age gap. Men older, don't know why. I have only dated one guy younger then me and we never finished the first date before I left him at a gas station. I feel age is a personal preference. UNLESS YOUR 15 and HES 30 lol and that's obviously not the case. Your both adults
  • ncboiler89
    ncboiler89 Posts: 2,408 Member
    I always liked an age gap. Men older, don't know why. I have only dated one guy younger then me and we never finished the first date before I left him at a gas station. I feel age is a personal preference. UNLESS YOUR 15 and HES 30 lol and that's obviously not the case. Your both adults

    Meet you at the BP in 15 min.
  • FLBlackMax
    FLBlackMax Posts: 1,283 Member
    Ive been open minded and had good relations with intriguing women..oth younger and older. Age just a number
  • ncboiler89
    ncboiler89 Posts: 2,408 Member
    FLBlackMax wrote: »
    Ive been open minded and had good relations with intriguing women..oth younger and older. Age just a number

    The jury won't buy that my friend.
  • FLBlackMax
    FLBlackMax Posts: 1,283 Member
    Within reason obv
  • KarlyHK
    KarlyHK Posts: 114 Member
    My boyfriend is 9 years older.
    My ex was 20 years older.
  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    FLBlackMax wrote: »
    Ive been open minded and had good relations with intriguing women..oth younger and older. Age just a number

    Yep ..this..age is just a number ..met some very mature younger guys and some very immature older guys ..
  • ddoud71
    ddoud71 Posts: 2,741 Member
    I think maturity level has a lot to do with it. When I was younger I like older women because they didn't play games and new what they wanted.
  • KarlyHK
    KarlyHK Posts: 114 Member
    What the person has gone through in life matters so much. So yes age is just a number is a mostly true statement.

    For instance I was 20 working at guitar center and ran into a man who was 41. Fell head over heals. He was nervous cause of the age but after s year of just being close friends we began a relationship. It was a great relationship. But I'm the end we both wanted different things.
    Probably partially cause of the age gap. But we were good together even when we broke up. But I wanted to be me, and he loved me, but he was so scared of his mom judging the age gap that he was asking me to change my crazy bright red hair ro something more natural.
    Which isn't a huge deal... but if you love someone, you love them no matter what stage they are in life.

    Now I've been with someone 9 years older than me for a year now and it is hands down the best relationship I've ever been in.
    He actually decided to break up with me once cause he said he felt like he was holding me back from experiencing things and making the mistakes he made.
    But we ended up working it out cause he realized I didn't need to go through what he went through. I went though my own hurdles.


    What are some reasonings you guys enjoy older or younger partners?
    For me. I was raped at 17. And ever since then people my age scared me. I felt safer with someone older who would understand why I was nervous about sexual relations and stuff.

  • Karb_Kween
    Karb_Kween Posts: 2,681 Member
    My BF seems pretty immature but I can't seem to pin him as anything. Weird life
  • grrrgirl
    grrrgirl Posts: 38 Member
    KarlyHK wrote: »


    What are some reasonings you guys enjoy older or younger partners?


    I like being with Wally who is 19 years older then me because 1. Men in there 40's rock. 2. He knows what he wants and doesn't play games 3. Experience in bed ;) 4. We have tons in common 5. He is alrdy established in life. 6. He makes me feel loved and understands me... Just for starters
  • SCoil123
    SCoil123 Posts: 2,111 Member
    My fiance is 9 years older and my ex is 12 years older. Ive always dated older men.
  • CSARdiver
    CSARdiver Posts: 6,252 Member
    FLBlackMax wrote: »
    Ive been open minded and had good relations with intriguing women..both younger and older. Age just a number

    This is perfect.
  • WaCowboy
    WaCowboy Posts: 42 Member
    My girlfriend and I are 8 years apart (I'm the older one). It's really not that much of a difference, but there are some differences you can see when it comes to the age. We have both learned to compromise, and that I can't take Bar hopping and Dancing until 2am every weekend.

    In the end age is just a number. If your happy with each other then it shouldn't really matter.