What should I do?

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  • bblue656
    bblue656 Posts: 159 Member
    Teach me your ways! I cant even get a guy to take me seriously :(
  • TavistockToad
    TavistockToad Posts: 35,719 Member
    Angela937 wrote: »
    TavistockToad wrote: »
    amcalmond768 wrote: »
    What's your trick?? I can't get one man let alone 3 lmao

    Depends what sort of man you want. Finding men for casual sex is pretty easy IMO

    Yep, any guy will jump at the chance for casual sex. But that's not how I ended up with my guys. Two I met on Tinder, and one from a dance club while I was really drunk!

    You have illustrated my point perfectly! :laugh:
  • Angela937
    Angela937 Posts: 514 Member
    Cutaway_Collar wrote: »
    How can you commit to a faithful long term relationship when you practice concurrent hook-ups?

    Well that's my point. I'm not ready for a relationship. I just got out of a 15 year relationship a few months ago, I'm not jumping back into a new one.
  • Angela937
    Angela937 Posts: 514 Member
    _incogNEATo_ wrote: »
    Angela937 wrote: »
    TavistockToad wrote: »
    amcalmond768 wrote: »
    What's your trick?? I can't get one man let alone 3 lmao

    Depends what sort of man you want. Finding men for casual sex is pretty easy IMO

    Yep, any guy will jump at the chance for casual sex. Two I met on Tinder, and one from a dance club while I was really drunk!

    I just took that middle sentence out. It was out of place.

    Touche!
  • Angela937
    Angela937 Posts: 514 Member
    138shades wrote: »
    you kind of remind me of that one girl on 90day fiancée.

    Is that a movie?
  • MsAmandaNJ
    MsAmandaNJ Posts: 1,248 Member
    Angela937 wrote: »
    Thanks guys. My main concern is making him feel bad, bc I really like him. He's the one I would want a relationship with when the time is right. I just don't want to mess things up.

    You said it perfectly to us, just say the same thing to him.
  • Angela937
    Angela937 Posts: 514 Member
    MsAmandaNJ wrote: »
    Angela937 wrote: »
    Thanks guys. My main concern is making him feel bad, bc I really like him. He's the one I would want a relationship with when the time is right. I just don't want to mess things up.

    You said it perfectly to us, just say the same thing to him.

    Thank you!
  • salembambi
    salembambi Posts: 5,585 Member
    Be honest with him if he decides that slowing down doesn't work for him dumphim and find someone else to fill his slot
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    amcalmond768 wrote: »
    What's your trick?? I can't get one man let alone 3 lmao

    Would you settle for some long distance stalking?
  • NorthCascades
    NorthCascades Posts: 10,968 Member
    vikinglander wrote: »
    Honesty is ALWAYS the best policy.

    This is true. Unless you judge based on originality and entertainment value. Be creative, @Angela937!
  • bblue656
    bblue656 Posts: 159 Member
    Once again, cant even get a hello from a guy. TEACH ME
  • _incogNEATo_
    _incogNEATo_ Posts: 4,537 Member
    salembambi wrote: »
    Be honest with him if he decides that slowing down doesn't work for him dumphim and find someone else to fill his slot

    Don't you mean somebody else to fill HER slot? HEY-OH!!!
  • PowerMan40
    PowerMan40 Posts: 766 Member
    Why ruin a good thing, Shag them all, and keep having fun.... if he catches the feels for you, cool... just make sure your not changing what your doing, just yet. If he takes offense you got two others, and he can be replaced.
  • dc8066
    dc8066 Posts: 1,439 Member
    Or you could become a mormon
  • RoxieDawn
    RoxieDawn Posts: 15,488 Member
    Vomiting on him and telling the truth usually does it..
  • toned_thugs_n_harmony
    toned_thugs_n_harmony Posts: 1,001 Member
    _incogNEATo_ wrote: »
    salembambi wrote: »
    Be honest with him if he decides that slowing down doesn't work for him dumphim and find someone else to fill his slot

    Don't you mean somebody else to fill HER slot? HEY-OH!!!

    where the F dis fool come from?
  • salembambi
    salembambi Posts: 5,585 Member
    Black_LabeI wrote: »
    If he's ready to take that next step, set up a threesome with him and one of the others.

    This is also a good idea
  • melmelw03
    melmelw03 Posts: 5,332 Member
    toned_thugs_n_harmony wrote: »
    _incogNEATo_ wrote: »
    salembambi wrote: »
    Be honest with him if he decides that slowing down doesn't work for him dumphim and find someone else to fill his slot

    Don't you mean somebody else to fill HER slot? HEY-OH!!!

    where the F dis fool come from?

    Right!?
  • Angela937
    Angela937 Posts: 514 Member
    LiftingLady5 wrote: »
    When is the time going to be right?

    I don't know, when it feels right I guess.

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