Could your last ex (spouse, girlfriend/boyfriend) do the eulogy at your funeral?

STLBADGIRL
STLBADGIRL Posts: 1,693 Member
edited December 4 in Chit-Chat
And why or why not?

We had this conversation at work and the responses were, lets say, interesting. So, I thought I would ask you guys.
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  • STLBADGIRL
    STLBADGIRL Posts: 1,693 Member
    _MistahJ_ wrote: »
    She wouldn't care enough.

    Awww man. Did you piss her off?
  • STLBADGIRL
    STLBADGIRL Posts: 1,693 Member
    MeganAM89 wrote: »
    Well, I'm still friends with him and he's always only ever been nice to me but we don't speak very often so I more so think it would be really weird that he did it rather than my fiance or family member.

    Ha....I know that's the right thing to do, but for the sake of the thread, would he have good or bad things to say about you?
  • Pathman1
    Pathman1 Posts: 52 Member
    She knows me well enough to do it, but I sure wouldn't want her to. Heck, I wouldn't even want her to attend.
  • synchkat
    synchkat Posts: 37,368 Member
    edited November 2016
    He'd have no interest in doing so I'm sure.
  • ClubSilencio
    ClubSilencio Posts: 2,983 Member
    I want one of those Stephen Hawking machines to read my eulogy... with a hot Filipina model typing it out.

  • MsAmandaNJ
    MsAmandaNJ Posts: 1,248 Member
    My ex husband could, to a point. I've changed since we parted ways and we haven't kept in touch, so he doesn't know who I am now. If he was asked to do it, I think he would and it wouldn't be a crazy *kitten* show.
  • strozman
    strozman Posts: 2,622 Member
    edited November 2016
    mine could. she can cry over anything at anytime, so it would be heartfelt and touching even if it was half fake
  • STLBADGIRL
    STLBADGIRL Posts: 1,693 Member
    strozman wrote: »
    mine could. she can cry over anything at anytime, so it would be heartfelt and touching even if it was half fake

    IDK why this made me laugh...
  • itsalifestylenotadiet
    itsalifestylenotadiet Posts: 120 Member
    As someone who watched her ex kill himself over the years with alcohol (drugs were part of the equation for over 7 years but I was finally able to get him to kick that habit). No, not that I hated him because I didn't, I loved him with all my heart and stayed for 23 years of the 28 that I knew him. I took care of him for the last 5 years of that 28 even though I left for the third and final time. Our children and grandchildren, weren't even enough to get him to stop drinking and save his own life. Alcohol addiction sucks, he passed one week after his 49th birthday in July of 2009 and is missing out on his children and grandchildren. Life was hard, and there was no way I could speak at his funeral, because even though we knew he was dying since 2001, it was devastating to all of us.
  • itsalifestylenotadiet
    itsalifestylenotadiet Posts: 120 Member
    Oops, I read that as can you do your ex spouses eulogy
  • louann_jude
    louann_jude Posts: 307 Member
    Lol mine would and he would break out with the song from Wizard of Oz,

    Ding dong the witch is dead, lol.
  • STLBADGIRL
    STLBADGIRL Posts: 1,693 Member
    itsalifestylenotadiet wrote: »
    Oops, I read that as can you do your ex spouses eulogy

    Sorry for your loss. I'm sure that would have been hard.
  • STLBADGIRL
    STLBADGIRL Posts: 1,693 Member
    louann_jude wrote: »
    Lol mine would and he would break out with the song from Wizard of Oz,

    Ding dong the witch is dead, lol.

    Oh nooooo. LOL....
  • chilli
    chilli Posts: 211 Member
    Because of other issues I wouldn't even WANT him at my funeral let alone speak at it!That reminds me, I must get that written into my will ....
  • toned_thugs_n_harmony
    toned_thugs_n_harmony Posts: 1,001 Member
    actually, he'd be the perfect person...i mean, IF he doesn't still hate me...
  • TheRoadDog
    TheRoadDog Posts: 11,788 Member
    Probably not. If something were to happen to me, she would probably be on the Suspect list.
  • km8907
    km8907 Posts: 3,861 Member
    Nope. The most we've ever talked was when we broke up. Never date a shy person if you're shy yourself.
  • itsalifestylenotadiet
    itsalifestylenotadiet Posts: 120 Member
    STLBADGIRL wrote: »
    itsalifestylenotadiet wrote: »
    Oops, I read that as can you do your ex spouses eulogy

    Sorry for your loss. I'm sure that would have been hard.

    Thank you, it's all good though. He's in a great place and not fighting demons.
  • Ben_there_done_that
    Ben_there_done_that Posts: 732 Member
    Most definitely not. I don't think she even knew where I lived. :D
  • wolverine66
    wolverine66 Posts: 3,779 Member
    i am about 15+ years removed from my most recent ex, so i don't think she could do an effective one anymore.
  • kschwab0203
    kschwab0203 Posts: 610 Member
    edited November 2016
    My ex-husband would be more than happy to do it! He loves to do anything that involves him being the center of attention. :D
  • THS2SHALLPASS
    THS2SHALLPASS Posts: 1,569 Member
    edited November 2016
    mine would want too but she wont be allowed too! my coach and mentor since I was in youth football, and my sons current football coach which is also the pastor at our church will be the one doing it!
  • Shana67
    Shana67 Posts: 680 Member
    Sure, but only if my current husband were dead. He's a good guy and he's my kids dad, and I think he's be very sweet.
  • salembambi
    salembambi Posts: 5,585 Member
    He would and it would be lovely actually I think it would b too hard for him to do it he'd cry too much

  • STLBADGIRL
    STLBADGIRL Posts: 1,693 Member
    Some of you should be back with your Ex....I'm just saying ********runs out of room***********
  • salembambi
    salembambi Posts: 5,585 Member
    STLBADGIRL wrote: »
    Some of you should be back with your Ex....I'm just saying ********runs out of room***********

    My ex is an alcoholic so I'll pass haha
  • STLBADGIRL
    STLBADGIRL Posts: 1,693 Member
    captbklee wrote: »
    Most definitely not. I don't think she even knew where I lived. :D

    I think ex's always keep track of their ex's in one way or another and social media makes it so easy....UNLESS it was a baaaaaaaaaaaaaad break up.
  • STLBADGIRL
    STLBADGIRL Posts: 1,693 Member
    salembambi wrote: »
    STLBADGIRL wrote: »
    Some of you should be back with your Ex....I'm just saying ********runs out of room***********

    My ex is an alcoholic so I'll pass haha

    Ok, because you were on my "get back with ex list".....but I guess there is always a reason an ex is an ex.
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