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Off Topic...Thoughts on Marriage, I do or I don't???

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  • canadianlbs
    canadianlbs Posts: 5,199 Member
    kschwab0203 wrote: »
    This is why I ultimately think he is hesitant....and to me, I feel that's a commitment issue, which bothers me.

    i don't have much of a stake in this conversation, or any very clear idea of where i'll be going with it since i've never been married myself and would feel like i was losing something kind of neat if i were to spoil that track record now.

    hindsight on all my own relationships always makes me go 'thank god i didn't waste something like marriage on something that didn't work.' so i think i relate most to people who have been and say 'never again'. but i think for the next person along in a was-married person's life, there's something about that that's just hard to get past in a logical way. half your head understands how much sense their pov makes, but i think there's always some other little corner of your mind that goes: 'you married this previous person [who sucked], but somehow, in some way, you're not prepared to go that far for me [who doesn't].'

    not that that helps you to figure things out, or anything. i'm inconsistent on the topic myself, in some ways.

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