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  • bbell1985
    bbell1985 Posts: 4,572 Member
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    Carlos_421 wrote: »
    wanzik wrote: »
    bbell1985 wrote: »
    I really don't like when someone reracks weights on the bench press while I'm in the middle of a set.

    How does that happen?

    I think she's referring to a rack attached to the bench, not people racking the weights she's lifting.

    yes
  • goldthistime
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    There's some evidence of people incorrectly associating bodybuilding with low iq's and I understand that PF's use of the word "lunk" perpetuates that myth, and can be considered offensive, but I would argue that if we were to try to measure who was on the lower rung of our social ladder, obese people or bodybuilders, I'd say it's easily obese people. If you could convince obese people to come to a gym without slamming bodybuilders, so much the better, but if calling bodybuilders "lunks" gets more obese people into the gym perhaps the end justifies the means. Bodybuilders have broad shoulders, figuratively speaking,

    So it's just fine and dandy to put down a group of people who are tough enough to take it, as long as the fragile obese people are exercising?

    Gotcha. Nice moral reasoning there.

    Were it MY company I wouldn't use a derogatory term in my marketing even if it meant improved sales or profits. It's just not who I am. But I wouldn't sign a petition forcing PF to remove the word "lunk" unless someone could show me that it does nothing to increase the likelihood that obese people would go to the gym.

    I can't see how my moral reasoning is faulty here, unless you believe that the whole "lunk" or "meathead" association with bodybuilders is increasing. I don't. IMO bodybuilding has become more mainstream and that association is decreasing.


    Moving goalposts here. Now the bar for questionable ethics in the scenario is that bodybuilders have to be actively harmed in an increasing fashion by PF's use of the term in order for this whole equivalence scenario your presented to be wrong.

    You're the one who said it was okay, bodybuilders could take it, so sure, put them down so that the obese people felt comfortable.

    Sure, Plus Size models can take it, they're rich and famous. So let me call them some name for their clothing choices that might be unflattering so people of size who can't afford to dress that way don't feel bad about themselves.

    Same difference, right?

    It's not a discussion I've had with anyone before, I'm thinking through why I don't find the use of the term "lunk" as offensive as others have.

    I had trouble figuring out the plus sized versus low income example you gave me. Let's take away the plus sized part of it and ask if it would be okay to mock people who spend large sums of money on clothing so that people who can't afford those clothes feel better about themselves. I wouldn't do it, but I wouldn't be up in arms if someone else did.

    The social underdog thing matters to me. I would, for instance, find it more offensive if a plus sized model were mocked for her size than an underweight model.

    I know you like analyzing things to death, so I'll cut to the meat of where I think you're coming from.

    You root for the underdog, and feel that the ends justify the means in upholding that morality.

    I do not think the ends justify the means.

    I think all people, regardless of being underdogs or not, are entitled to be treated with respect and dignity. That includes not being called names and not being pitted against each other.

    Frankly, I find your stance morally repugnant, because you've gone as far as defending the use of derogatory language (which should never be okay) depending on who it was used against. That means your ethics are situational.

    Mine aren't.

    I don't mock people. It makes me boring, but it's just not something I do. People are mocked on MFP all the time. Are you offended each and every time, or does it depend on the situation?

    I'm startled by your use of the word "repugnant". Here I am thinking we were all having a friendly discussion. This just isn't a topic I'm passionate enough about to get into a brawl over. I'm out.

    Btw, it's unfortunate we went down this path. I quite liked reading many of your posts.

  • GottaBurnEmAll
    GottaBurnEmAll Posts: 7,722 Member
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    There's some evidence of people incorrectly associating bodybuilding with low iq's and I understand that PF's use of the word "lunk" perpetuates that myth, and can be considered offensive, but I would argue that if we were to try to measure who was on the lower rung of our social ladder, obese people or bodybuilders, I'd say it's easily obese people. If you could convince obese people to come to a gym without slamming bodybuilders, so much the better, but if calling bodybuilders "lunks" gets more obese people into the gym perhaps the end justifies the means. Bodybuilders have broad shoulders, figuratively speaking,

    So it's just fine and dandy to put down a group of people who are tough enough to take it, as long as the fragile obese people are exercising?

    Gotcha. Nice moral reasoning there.

    Were it MY company I wouldn't use a derogatory term in my marketing even if it meant improved sales or profits. It's just not who I am. But I wouldn't sign a petition forcing PF to remove the word "lunk" unless someone could show me that it does nothing to increase the likelihood that obese people would go to the gym.

    I can't see how my moral reasoning is faulty here, unless you believe that the whole "lunk" or "meathead" association with bodybuilders is increasing. I don't. IMO bodybuilding has become more mainstream and that association is decreasing.


    Moving goalposts here. Now the bar for questionable ethics in the scenario is that bodybuilders have to be actively harmed in an increasing fashion by PF's use of the term in order for this whole equivalence scenario your presented to be wrong.

    You're the one who said it was okay, bodybuilders could take it, so sure, put them down so that the obese people felt comfortable.

    Sure, Plus Size models can take it, they're rich and famous. So let me call them some name for their clothing choices that might be unflattering so people of size who can't afford to dress that way don't feel bad about themselves.

    Same difference, right?

    It's not a discussion I've had with anyone before, I'm thinking through why I don't find the use of the term "lunk" as offensive as others have.

    I had trouble figuring out the plus sized versus low income example you gave me. Let's take away the plus sized part of it and ask if it would be okay to mock people who spend large sums of money on clothing so that people who can't afford those clothes feel better about themselves. I wouldn't do it, but I wouldn't be up in arms if someone else did.

    The social underdog thing matters to me. I would, for instance, find it more offensive if a plus sized model were mocked for her size than an underweight model.

    I know you like analyzing things to death, so I'll cut to the meat of where I think you're coming from.

    You root for the underdog, and feel that the ends justify the means in upholding that morality.

    I do not think the ends justify the means.

    I think all people, regardless of being underdogs or not, are entitled to be treated with respect and dignity. That includes not being called names and not being pitted against each other.

    Frankly, I find your stance morally repugnant, because you've gone as far as defending the use of derogatory language (which should never be okay) depending on who it was used against. That means your ethics are situational.

    Mine aren't.

    I don't mock people. It makes me boring, but it's just not something I do. People are mocked on MFP all the time. Are you offended each and every time, or does it depend on the situation?

    I'm startled by your use of the word "repugnant". Here I am thinking we were all having a friendly discussion. This just isn't a topic I'm passionate enough about to get into a brawl over. I'm out.

    Btw, it's unfortunate we went down this path. I quite liked reading many of your posts.

    You may not personally mock people, but you're okay with a corporate policy that mocks people that aren't the underdog since it supports the underdogs going to the gym.

    I think that fairly sums up your position.

    Yes, I do find all mocking offensive. I don't find sarcastic mocking pf oneself offensive, though, if it's being done in a light-hearted manner.

    I find situational ethics morally repugnant, yes. If something is wrong (mocking, when it's being done with serious intent), then it is wrong. Full stop.
  • KDar1988
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    Was annoyed today to find out the bathroom didn't have any air freshener or a fan because I went in go pee and the previous occupant dropped a load, I think someone died in there. I got out of there quick thinking, dang, the next person is going to think it was me. Low and behold...a guy is waiting to go in after me. Figures.
  • Wheelhouse15
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    Ni_La82 wrote: »
    People who sit on the machines and text longer than the standard break between reps. People who scream very loudly while working out (I always look to see who dropped a weight on their foot and it's usually just some person who picked weights that are too heavy.)

    You aren't the first to mention screaming but I honestly don't think I've heard this in a gym. Are you talking about people grunting loudly lifting or do people actually scream? Honestly, I don't recall ever witnessing screaming.
  • Firefly0606
    Firefly0606 Posts: 366 Member
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    Reading this thread....investing in a home gym just paid for itself.
  • ogtmama
    ogtmama Posts: 1,403 Member
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    There's some evidence of people incorrectly associating bodybuilding with low iq's and I understand that PF's use of the word "lunk" perpetuates that myth, and can be considered offensive, but I would argue that if we were to try to measure who was on the lower rung of our social ladder, obese people or bodybuilders, I'd say it's easily obese people. If you could convince obese people to come to a gym without slamming bodybuilders, so much the better, but if calling bodybuilders "lunks" gets more obese people into the gym perhaps the end justifies the means. Bodybuilders have broad shoulders, figuratively speaking,

    So it's just fine and dandy to put down a group of people who are tough enough to take it, as long as the fragile obese people are exercising?

    Gotcha. Nice moral reasoning there.

    Were it MY company I wouldn't use a derogatory term in my marketing even if it meant improved sales or profits. It's just not who I am. But I wouldn't sign a petition forcing PF to remove the word "lunk" unless someone could show me that it does nothing to increase the likelihood that obese people would go to the gym.

    I can't see how my moral reasoning is faulty here, unless you believe that the whole "lunk" or "meathead" association with bodybuilders is increasing. I don't. IMO bodybuilding has become more mainstream and that association is decreasing.


    Moving goalposts here. Now the bar for questionable ethics in the scenario is that bodybuilders have to be actively harmed in an increasing fashion by PF's use of the term in order for this whole equivalence scenario your presented to be wrong.

    You're the one who said it was okay, bodybuilders could take it, so sure, put them down so that the obese people felt comfortable.

    Sure, Plus Size models can take it, they're rich and famous. So let me call them some name for their clothing choices that might be unflattering so people of size who can't afford to dress that way don't feel bad about themselves.

    Same difference, right?

    It's not a discussion I've had with anyone before, I'm thinking through why I don't find the use of the term "lunk" as offensive as others have.

    I had trouble figuring out the plus sized versus low income example you gave me. Let's take away the plus sized part of it and ask if it would be okay to mock people who spend large sums of money on clothing so that people who can't afford those clothes feel better about themselves. I wouldn't do it, but I wouldn't be up in arms if someone else did.

    The social underdog thing matters to me. I would, for instance, find it more offensive if a plus sized model were mocked for her size than an underweight model.

    I know you like analyzing things to death, so I'll cut to the meat of where I think you're coming from.

    You root for the underdog, and feel that the ends justify the means in upholding that morality.

    I do not think the ends justify the means.

    I think all people, regardless of being underdogs or not, are entitled to be treated with respect and dignity. That includes not being called names and not being pitted against each other.

    Frankly, I find your stance morally repugnant, because you've gone as far as defending the use of derogatory language (which should never be okay) depending on who it was used against. That means your ethics are situational.

    Mine aren't.

    I don't mock people. It makes me boring, but it's just not something I do. People are mocked on MFP all the time. Are you offended each and every time, or does it depend on the situation?

    I'm startled by your use of the word "repugnant". Here I am thinking we were all having a friendly discussion. This just isn't a topic I'm passionate enough about to get into a brawl over. I'm out.

    Btw, it's unfortunate we went down this path. I quite liked reading many of your posts.

    You may not personally mock people, but you're okay with a corporate policy that mocks people that aren't the underdog since it supports the underdogs going to the gym.

    I think that fairly sums up your position.

    Yes, I do find all mocking offensive. I don't find sarcastic mocking pf oneself offensive, though, if it's being done in a light-hearted manner.

    I find situational ethics morally repugnant, yes. If something is wrong (mocking, when it's being done with serious intent), then it is wrong. Full stop.

    Hmmm...I put some thought into why many people get more upset about an obese person being mocked than a thin/fit person.

    I think it's a similar comparison to what many (not me) call "reverse racism"...in that it's not even close to the same thing.

    The odd person may give a thin person grief "eat a hamburger, blah blah blah" and yes, of course it can hurt your feelings or annoy you. What obese people get however, day in and day out from ALL of society..."you'rr lazy, you're ugly, you're not worthy of love, you're stupid...blah blah blah". It's a different thing and I think comparing the two is offensive.

  • lkpducky
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    The guy who constantly oogles me when I work out, making sassy comments about my figure and trying to get a look down my top when I'm doing pushups. Sometimes he grabs my butt when I bend over.


    That's what I get for working out in the living room when the hubster is about, though.

    Sounds like he might be related to my husband. :-P
  • Wheelhouse15
    Wheelhouse15 Posts: 5,575 Member
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    lemmie177 wrote: »
    There's some evidence of people incorrectly associating bodybuilding with low iq's and I understand that PF's use of the word "lunk" perpetuates that myth, and can be considered offensive, but I would argue that if we were to try to measure who was on the lower rung of our social ladder, obese people or bodybuilders, I'd say it's easily obese people. If you could convince obese people to come to a gym without slamming bodybuilders, so much the better, but if calling bodybuilders "lunks" gets more obese people into the gym perhaps the end justifies the means. Bodybuilders have broad shoulders, figuratively speaking,

    So it's just fine and dandy to put down a group of people who are tough enough to take it, as long as the fragile obese people are exercising?

    Gotcha. Nice moral reasoning there.
    I don't think he's saying its fine and dandy. Maybe the lesser evil.

    I had no idea that PF had an actual alarm that went off.

    Same! I always thought the "lunk alarm" was figurative. Its a pretty amazing revelation. I have so many questions... Can anyone pull it? Is it not more disruptive than the grunting/dropping? Is it a volume thing? An intimidation thing? Like, if you drop the 5lb-ers, would you set it off? What happens to the perpetrator? Do they just go about their business after public humiliation? Looking for vids now cause there is no way someone does not flip their kitten after being adrenaline-fueled and called out in a public space. Moral issues aside, its got to be a fascinating social experiment. :p

    Anyway, my biggest annoyance would be people trying to talk to you with your headphones in.

    I'm amazed that the headphones thing actually seems to be a top 10 annoyance on this thread. I guess people actually wear those to avoid talking to others and not just because the music loop sucks lol.
  • Wheelhouse15
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    AnvilHead wrote: »
    There's some evidence of people incorrectly associating bodybuilding with low iq's and I understand that PF's use of the word "lunk" perpetuates that myth, and can be considered offensive, but I would argue that if we were to try to measure who was on the lower rung of our social ladder, obese people or bodybuilders, I'd say it's easily obese people. If you could convince obese people to come to a gym without slamming bodybuilders, so much the better, but if calling bodybuilders "lunks" gets more obese people into the gym perhaps the end justifies the means. Bodybuilders have broad shoulders, figuratively speaking,

    So it's just fine and dandy to put down a group of people who are tough enough to take it, as long as the fragile obese people are exercising?

    Gotcha. Nice moral reasoning there.

    Were it MY company I wouldn't use a derogatory term in my marketing even if it meant improved sales or profits. It's just not who I am. But I wouldn't sign a petition forcing PF to remove the word "lunk" unless someone could show me that it does nothing to increase the likelihood that obese people would go to the gym.

    I can't see how my moral reasoning is faulty here, unless you believe that the whole "lunk" or "meathead" association with bodybuilders is increasing. I don't. IMO bodybuilding has become more mainstream and that association is decreasing.


    Watch these ads (from PF's YouTube channel itself, no less) and tell me whether or not you think they're promoting stereotypes and shaming/demeaning certain groups:








    OTOH, In all fairness, I do like the response video from this gym (if we're going to say fair is fair):

    Actually, I always thought those ads were funny and tongue and cheek, I didn't realize that they actually promoted a culture of intolerance to certain people at some of their clubs but again they just don't fit my requirements so I don't really care. I actually find the hardcore gyms to be far more friendly in general and people often get a sense of community you don't get in a general gym and that's a shame that most people will never get to feel that sense of belonging to something more than a gym.
  • Alatariel75
    Alatariel75 Posts: 17,959 Member
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    lemmie177 wrote: »
    There's some evidence of people incorrectly associating bodybuilding with low iq's and I understand that PF's use of the word "lunk" perpetuates that myth, and can be considered offensive, but I would argue that if we were to try to measure who was on the lower rung of our social ladder, obese people or bodybuilders, I'd say it's easily obese people. If you could convince obese people to come to a gym without slamming bodybuilders, so much the better, but if calling bodybuilders "lunks" gets more obese people into the gym perhaps the end justifies the means. Bodybuilders have broad shoulders, figuratively speaking,

    So it's just fine and dandy to put down a group of people who are tough enough to take it, as long as the fragile obese people are exercising?

    Gotcha. Nice moral reasoning there.
    I don't think he's saying its fine and dandy. Maybe the lesser evil.

    I had no idea that PF had an actual alarm that went off.

    Same! I always thought the "lunk alarm" was figurative. Its a pretty amazing revelation. I have so many questions... Can anyone pull it? Is it not more disruptive than the grunting/dropping? Is it a volume thing? An intimidation thing? Like, if you drop the 5lb-ers, would you set it off? What happens to the perpetrator? Do they just go about their business after public humiliation? Looking for vids now cause there is no way someone does not flip their kitten after being adrenaline-fueled and called out in a public space. Moral issues aside, its got to be a fascinating social experiment. :p

    Anyway, my biggest annoyance would be people trying to talk to you with your headphones in.

    I'm amazed that the headphones thing actually seems to be a top 10 annoyance on this thread. I guess people actually wear those to avoid talking to others and not just because the music loop sucks lol.

    I've been known to leave them in when my playlist ends, just to maintain my *kitten* off vibe ;)
  • Wheelhouse15
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    When my little dog thinks it's cool to lay on my belly when I'm trying to do crunches or hip thrusts at my home gym or any lay down mat exercise. So inconsiderate I swear..yes my profile pic is said little dog :D

    Best post!
  • azulvioleta6
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    -people who stand in the front in a dance fitness class when they can't keep up/have no idea what they are doing
    -people with no musicality, timing or ability to count who try to take dance fitness classes
    -people moving the wrong way in a group class...especially if they are doing this in my blind spot

    This is why I don't take the classes or go to the gym. I've tried, but the attitude I get from the more experienced people makes me feel inadequate and unwelcome. Oh, an instructor might be encouraging, but then I get grief from the other people in a class--because apparently I need to have personally trained with Bob Fosse to be in a beginner class (which is probably not your situation).

    That and the people who have given me attitude or made audible comments because I'm not fit and thin already. I don't need that. I'll stick to walking outdoors and trying to do stuff at home.

    I weighed about 280 when I started doing Zumba. I don't give a damn if people are thin--I do care if they are nearly running into me or putting me at risk of running into them.

    I've NEVER said anything to anyone about being a bad dancer, ever. I do warn people that I have no peripheral vision (brain injury) and that if I can't see them, I might not be able to prevent a crash if they aren't in the right place.
  • Sloth2016
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    I get totally perturbed when work schedule keeps me from getting to the gym.
  • Christine_72
    Christine_72 Posts: 16,049 Member
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    The grunting and moaning and groaning would do my head in!
    I tried so hard to keep quiet when I was in labour with both of my kids because I didn't want to annoy the other women in neighboring rooms as well as the doctors and nurses who must have constant migraines from all the screaming.

    So, if i managed to pop out 2 bowling bowls in relative quietness I can't see why gym goers can't keep the grunting to a minimum :lol:
  • Alatariel75
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    The grunting and moaning and groaning would do my head in!
    I tried so hard to keep quiet when I was in labour with both of my kids because I didn't want to annoy the other women in neighboring rooms as well as the doctors and nurses who must have constant migraines from all the screaming.

    So, if i managed to pop out 2 bowling bowls in relative quietness I can't see why gym goers can't keep the grunting to a minimum :lol:

    You would have made a wonderful Scientologist.
  • Christine_72
    Christine_72 Posts: 16,049 Member
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    The grunting and moaning and groaning would do my head in!
    I tried so hard to keep quiet when I was in labour with both of my kids because I didn't want to annoy the other women in neighboring rooms as well as the doctors and nurses who must have constant migraines from all the screaming.

    So, if i managed to pop out 2 bowling bowls in relative quietness I can't see why gym goers can't keep the grunting to a minimum :lol:

    You would have made a wonderful Scientologist.

    Eeewww no thank you! I didn't realise it was a thing for them. I have no other reason but trying to be considerate to those around me, why i was even thinking about anyone else at the time i don't know!!

    It's just that when i was waiting in the room before my proper labour begun there were some almighty screamers giving birth next door and it made me even more petrified about what i was in for, plus it was annoyingly nerve grating :confounded:
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