Grown and sexy talk

halobender · July 2011

mnsmith83 · July 2011

YESSSS!!! I need these in my life!

swuz32 · July 2011

Awesome!

fairbanksmommy · July 2011

I love the fact that someone brought this topic up! I am so insecure because of my weight (207 at 5'3"). There are so many things I want to do with my boyfriend but feel my fat gets in the way

I used to be a rep for Passion Parties and loved being able to help women and couples find their inner freak.....yet when it came to me.......well...you know.....nada. I want Kyle to be able to look at me at any time of the day and have the urge to sneak me off somewhere for a quickie. LOL He tells me all the time that he loves me for me, and not just my looks. His ex was a lot smaller than I am, and that makes me feel even worse. He tells me he is done with skinny chicks because in his experience they are nothing but drama. I know he feels that way bc of his ex....it also makes me feel slightly concerned. I mean, what if I get to be as thin as she is, and he is no longer interested in me? Yet at the same time, I crave to be a nice 130lb woman. Not just for him.....Mostly for my kids....and some for me. I miss being able to wear sexy clothes! I miss being picked up and held up to a wall! He says he can do it, but I don't wanna break his back!

Any other girls out there feel this way too?? And how do you move past feeling like this? When I get to thinking about all this it motivates me for a bit, but then I fall back into old habits and forget my goals.

Scott613 · July 2011

Start taking L Arginine and see what happens:-) It's $4 for a 2 week supply from wal-mart and well worth it!!!

abeautifulvoice · July 2011

I LOVE THIS!!

iAMaPhoenix · July 2011

From a scientific basis, this is incorrect. A man's member does not increase in size with weight loss; however, the area immediately surrounding the wedding tackle stores a lot of fat. So relative to the rest of your genital region, the organ in question appears bigger.

Simple optical illusion. Sorry guys.
-wtk

No need to apologize.

I won't argue with what you've read but when a study didn't find that a subjects' penis got bigger when the subjects lost weight, what it means is that the study didn't find that a subjects' penis got bigger when the subjects lost weight. They can draw inferences and conclusions but those are not "truths".

Like another poster, I've gotten longer as I've lost weight. And the way I know this is that I've measured. (That measurement is NOT on my weight loss spreadsheet!) I'll pass on posting a public picture but, as the saying goes, "Let's look at the tape [measure]."

The bigger issue (pardon the pun) is that I don't use Viagra any more. When Debbie and I started dating, after not having a GF for over a year, I thought it was age taking its toll (I'm 54). I wasn't too happy about that since Viagra was $20 per pill. Do the math on that and I was looking at an expense of $3K+ per year. Ouch!

Fortunately, that's history! After losing about 20 pounds, everything changed. I strongly suspect that it's part and parcel of my BP dropping but, the bottom line is that, in addition to being the same weight that I was when I was 40 years old, I have more strength and stamina (of all types) than I did back then.

Let's hear it for weight loss! :-)

Woot Woot

ema192 · July 2011

I cant wait to feel my sexy self again, we r having a dreadfull time of late if its not him tired its me feeling very self concious and unattractive :-(

Good for you guys though nice to see some people are getting it :-)

TheSarahHill · July 2011

Ohhhh I just loved reading this, brilliant!

mrsvatitagain · July 2011

Super funny!! That is really cool though, one must admit!

jdvrider · July 2011

Alright, this topic finally got me out of my lurker status on the forums. I read the success stories every day as motivation but haven't ever said anything.

As a larger guy who was married to a larger woman, our sex life was definitely impacted by size. Sex was still great when it actually did it, but it wasn't very often, and obviously with size there were certain limitations to what could be done.

However, I joined MFP the day after we decided to divorce, so I doubt I'll be enjoying the benefits of shedding pounds anytime soon. That said, this thread gives me a lot to look forward to as I barely remember the days (12-15 years ago) when I was at a more normal weight and was enjoying the single life.

ema192 · July 2011

Alright, this topic finally got me out of my lurker status on the forums. I read the success stories every day as motivation but haven't ever said anything.

As a larger guy who was married to a larger woman, our sex life was definitely impacted by size. Sex was still great when it actually did it, but it wasn't very often, and obviously with size there were certain limitations to what could be done.

However, I joined MFP the day after we decided to divorce, so I doubt I'll be enjoying the benefits of shedding pounds anytime soon. That said, this thread gives me a lot to look forward to as I barely remember the days (12-15 years ago) when I was at a more normal weight and was enjoying the single life.

Good for you and good luck!! x

MiNiMoNkI · July 2011

its freaking awesome, 7.00am , as soon as we get home from work at 6,00pm, then as soon as we get to bed and more in between, my partner is like "a dog on heat" and so am i for that matter, i love my body, he loves my body! were back to it liek we were when we met 13 years ago! its amazing and i love it! i wear sexy underware, he wants to take loads of pics to look at through whilst at work, we "sex text" and basically he wont leave me alone!were going camping (with the kiddies) this weekend and all he keeps going on about is going to have sex on the beach haha, its all he has on his mind...but i an not complaining!

BeeElMarvin · July 2011

Oh, man! I need these for my desk!

iAMaPhoenix · July 2011

its freaking awesome, 7.00am , as soon as we get home from work at 6,00pm, then as soon as we get to bed and more in between, my partner is like "a dog on heat" and so am i for that matter, i love my body, he loves my body! were back to it liek we were when we met 13 years ago! its amazing and i love it! i wear sexy underware, he wants to take loads of pics to look at through whilst at work, we "sex text" and basically he wont leave me alone!were going camping (with the kiddies) this weekend and all he keeps going on about is going to have sex on the beach haha, its all he has on his mind...but i an not complaining!

Wow...and I thought we were doing it too much, as if there is such a thing. Great job and continued sexcess...lol.

Lynnsimmons · July 2011

Great story!!

shanice_22 · July 2011

HAHA! Too funny. This is motivating. I want to get down into the 150's so I can feel sexy again. Extra weight really does affect libido:)

This. I think it's due to lack of confidence mainly.

MisterDubs303 · July 2011

Simple optical illusion. Sorry guys.
-wtk

Optical illusion or not, I'll take what I can get! :drinker:

But still, if it made that much difference, there wouldn't be an obese guy on earth!

infamousmk · July 2011

Just thought I'd finally post a little something in here - I'm on my way back to a size that will be conducive for some acrobatics... you know what I'm talkin' about... BUT! I had a bit of a 'nsv' if you will - managed to hold a rather precarious position last night in the shower with my boyfriend; long enough to get the job done, and stand back up without holding on to anything. THAT pretty much made my entire night. (his too) Clearly I'm getting stronger and building stamina. Can't beat that with a stick.

MellowGa · July 2011

That is awesome, the world needs more love

adet983 · July 2011

what is sex..i cant even remember anymore.

BeckyS32 · July 2011

I may have to leave this thread up on my computer for my husband to read. Maybe this would motivate him to join me on this weight loss journey!! If this thread can't do it, I am pretty sure nothing will!!
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