Do you get hit on?
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I'll stop0
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Not a lot but I don't go out without my husband much and he's a big guy.0
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Really??I danced on a table 4 u ...Ok time 2 bring out the big guns1
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^^^Finally some honesty!!!!1
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All the time......I'll cope!1
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acajunintexas wrote: »PrincessTinyheart wrote: »I haven't gotten hit on since I've gotten married... I do get strange, vaguely left-handed compliments/passive-aggressive insults from men once in awhile but I chalk that up to social awkwardness, LOL. Before meeting my husband, I was very rarely hit on. I think I exude a natural repellant or something.
Funny how that works, before I had a ring on my finger I was rarely hit on, once I had it I got hit on twice as much lol
I've heard of single men who wear a fake wedding band to go out to clubs because they get more attention from women when they wear one!
My husband has gotten more attention too since getting married! At work mostly, what vixens!
This. One of my best friends recently married and all the women in his office started flirting with him. Very strange. Want what they can't have? more of a challenge or power trip?
@DrKBR I don't know! Maybe they are insecure and want confirmation men want them, even if the man is committed to someone else, do they think that makes them superior!?
I knew a girl who broke up 3 relationships and ended up dating then cheating on each of them in turn, till she broke up her colleagues marriage (w 3 kids), last i heard they are dating, but for how long - devastating!
My husband is in Defence so he's around a lot of different people all the time. The environment isn't always ideal for women (male dominated) and from what I've seen from his work circles the girls tend to compete for attention.0 -
Bridge_marie wrote: »I get attention from men each time I go out socially (bars, social clubs & events). I'm happily married so it's not for trying.
My friends comment on it a lot, they find it funny but annoying and we've asked male friends about it and their answer is usually along the lines of 'cute & blonde' or having a 'girl next door' look. Not every guy goes for that type.
Things that might help girls (who want to) get hit on:
- Environment! "The club isn't the best place to find a lover so the bar is where I go!" E.S
- Being Blonde
- Having a baby face (genetics)
- Having a small - med build (also partially genetics)
- Don't overdo makeup
- Dress nice/cute but not "sexy" (massive heels and a mini dress might be intimidating?)
- Be cofident, happy and smile
- Don't try
Attraction is shallow but if you're friendly & polite you're more approachable. Whether these men are actually worth your time is another question!!
Any thoughts?
I might agree with the last two. I get hit on all the time and I'm not blonde.... Plus I have a resting B!tch face. I think it really just depends on the person. A pretty face and boobs help too. Also I don't think attraction is shallow... I think it's ok for people to be attracted to each other. If that's what you mean. Lol Btw I don't try to get hit on. It just happens, probably because I'm too friendly and make eye contact.
You probably get hit on all the time because men think your hot
@Bridge_marie You're smokin'! but honestly I'm not 'hot' I think that's why I do get attention, I'm in everybody's league LOL and I have small boobs
My post was stupid as it's not the only reasons girls get picked up, It's just a list based on my experience. I agree, it is different for everyone, men & women. I have brunette friends that get picked up all the time! And In a non sexual way I'm more attracted to brunette women then blonde.
By shallow I mean surface deep, not looking at the person as a whole, the word shallow has negative connotations but It's not a bad thing, just how our minds work. The reality of 'hit on' style attraction, if you're being hit on I guess I'm assuming you don't know the person. I don't get hit on by people I know!
Haha my concentration face is RBF
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Due to my line of work I get hit on more frequently than not... surprisingly by both men and women. I appreciate it 0
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I get hit on by 70 year olds...... I take what I can get...1
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nope never
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No, I think it's cause I have resting *kitten* face but that's fine I prefer it that way and being a lone wolf1
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Nope and that's ok0
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Sometimes, it's mostly older women and dudes1
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nope0
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Funny thing, I only get men flirting with me when I look like hammered hell.0
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Nope and I'm pretty sure they will find proof of big foot's existence before it happens.0
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That wasn't me..... I was on my bike trying to get your attention with my booty shorts.
Oh THAT was you...next time I wouldn't wear granny panties with booty shorts, too much of them stick out. Now go take your meds.0 -
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Bridge_marie wrote: »I get attention from men each time I go out socially (bars, social clubs & events). I'm happily married so it's not for trying.
My friends comment on it a lot, they find it funny but annoying and we've asked male friends about it and their answer is usually along the lines of 'cute & blonde' or having a 'girl next door' look. Not every guy goes for that type.
Things that might help girls (who want to) get hit on:
- Environment! "The club isn't the best place to find a lover so the bar is where I go!" E.S
- Being Blonde
- Having a baby face (genetics)
- Having a small - med build (also partially genetics)
- Don't overdo makeup
- Dress nice/cute but not "sexy" (massive heels and a mini dress might be intimidating?)
- Be cofident, happy and smile
- Don't try
Attraction is shallow but if you're friendly & polite you're more approachable. Whether these men are actually worth your time is another question!!
Any thoughts?
I might agree with the last two. I get hit on all the time and I'm not blonde.... Plus I have a resting B!tch face. I think it really just depends on the person. A pretty face and boobs help too. Also I don't think attraction is shallow... I think it's ok for people to be attracted to each other. If that's what you mean. Lol Btw I don't try to get hit on. It just happens, probably because I'm too friendly and make eye contact .
All beautiful women say this
They try to convince the rest of us it's because they're too friendly. I can guarantee you that I've tried being super friendly too... you have to be hot and sexy to make it work...otherwise you fall into "nice girl/old chick" status, LOL
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I get hit on by other women... does that count at all? Honestly, I could careless really.0
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I think so, once anyway or so I'm told. I wasn't actually there.1
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RBF eh1
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Bridge_marie wrote: »PrincessTinyheart wrote: »Bridge_marie wrote: »I get attention from men each time I go out socially (bars, social clubs & events). I'm happily married so it's not for trying.
My friends comment on it a lot, they find it funny but annoying and we've asked male friends about it and their answer is usually along the lines of 'cute & blonde' or having a 'girl next door' look. Not every guy goes for that type.
Things that might help girls (who want to) get hit on:
- Environment! "The club isn't the best place to find a lover so the bar is where I go!" E.S
- Being Blonde
- Having a baby face (genetics)
- Having a small - med build (also partially genetics)
- Don't overdo makeup
- Dress nice/cute but not "sexy" (massive heels and a mini dress might be intimidating?)
- Be cofident, happy and smile
- Don't try
Attraction is shallow but if you're friendly & polite you're more approachable. Whether these men are actually worth your time is another question!!
Any thoughts?
I might agree with the last two. I get hit on all the time and I'm not blonde.... Plus I have a resting B!tch face. I think it really just depends on the person. A pretty face and boobs help too. Also I don't think attraction is shallow... I think it's ok for people to be attracted to each other. If that's what you mean. Lol Btw I don't try to get hit on. It just happens, probably because I'm too friendly and make eye contact .
All beautiful women say this They try to convince the rest of us it's because they're too friendly. I can guarantee you that I've tried being super friendly too... you have to be hot and sexy to make it work...otherwise you fall into "nice girl/old chick" status, LOL
Wear a low cut shirt haha. Jk
that only works if you have something to show2 -
merrysailor88 wrote: »Bridge_marie wrote: »PrincessTinyheart wrote: »Bridge_marie wrote: »I get attention from men each time I go out socially (bars, social clubs & events). I'm happily married so it's not for trying.
My friends comment on it a lot, they find it funny but annoying and we've asked male friends about it and their answer is usually along the lines of 'cute & blonde' or having a 'girl next door' look. Not every guy goes for that type.
Things that might help girls (who want to) get hit on:
- Environment! "The club isn't the best place to find a lover so the bar is where I go!" E.S
- Being Blonde
- Having a baby face (genetics)
- Having a small - med build (also partially genetics)
- Don't overdo makeup
- Dress nice/cute but not "sexy" (massive heels and a mini dress might be intimidating?)
- Be cofident, happy and smile
- Don't try
Attraction is shallow but if you're friendly & polite you're more approachable. Whether these men are actually worth your time is another question!!
Any thoughts?
I might agree with the last two. I get hit on all the time and I'm not blonde.... Plus I have a resting B!tch face. I think it really just depends on the person. A pretty face and boobs help too. Also I don't think attraction is shallow... I think it's ok for people to be attracted to each other. If that's what you mean. Lol Btw I don't try to get hit on. It just happens, probably because I'm too friendly and make eye contact .
All beautiful women say this They try to convince the rest of us it's because they're too friendly. I can guarantee you that I've tried being super friendly too... you have to be hot and sexy to make it work...otherwise you fall into "nice girl/old chick" status, LOL
Wear a low cut shirt haha. Jk
that only works if you have something to show
works every time:
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