In your opinion, what's the most difficult part about losing weight?
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TimothyFish wrote: »For me the hardest thing was getting started. I was overweight for years knowing what I needed to do but I dreaded it so much that I kept putting it off. Once I started it was easy.
Ain't that the truth! I'd dieted as a teen, and made myself desperately ill, too, with disordered eating. The experience terrified me so badly that I let the weight creep back up .. and up.. and past my original "unacceptable" weight, and beyond by some 45 lbs over that before I said "I MUST DO SOMETHING! THIS CANNOT CONTINUE!"
I was more than pleasantly surprised to discover these truths
1. I don't need to starve
2. I don't need to give up any food groups
3. I can eat real meals
4. Walking counts as exercise
5. As long as I moved in the right direction, the magnitude didn't matter
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Not something that happpened to me but something I see a lot of people struggling with on here: separating fact from fiction. There's so many myths and outright lies to sell people diet books that many people who start losing weight get overwhelmed by it.9
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Staying consistent.3
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I still eat (mostly) the things I want. Portion control is hard. The hardest part, though, is cutting out (or way down on) snacking. Which includes things like having a beer. As a "boredom eater", the temptation to grab a snack is overwhelming at times. As a brewer, not being able to have a pint whenever I want is rough.3
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For me it is keeping my grabby hands away from snacks in the evening (a habit that I have had for years). I always say to myself: 'you've eaten what you need, and that's enough', and this stops me snacking but I can't wait until these urges disappear all together. Now 20lbs down 44 to go and I am definitely not going to gain them back because of a *kitten* chocolate bar craving!1
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Also, the hardest thing was not eating all the cookies. I am an amazing baker, and I love baking. Cookies are my biggest creative joy, and they are delicious.
I cut down to 2 meals a day solely to make sure I have room for cookies whenever I want them. This way I can be thin and have my cookies too.7 -
Definitely the cravings and munchies. If there are cookies in the kitchen or break room, I want to grab a cookie every time I go through the room. Or I'll be fixing myself a healthy dinner at my mom's place, and want to snack on the candy bars she has on top of her microwave. I'll even try snacking on things I don't really like. My mouth likes to be busy at all times. For now, I'm smacking on lots of mint gum, lol2
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The hardest part for me has been wanting to use food as a reward, comfort, substitute, whatever. I still do it - treat myself with food - but I log everything as best I can so I'm aware of what I'm doing and offset it with planning the rest of my day/week.5
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Same as you. Resisting the stuff that you know you can't fit in.2
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Not being able to eat whatever I want, whenever I want to, sticking to portion size and daily calories.
I still indulge in all the foods I did before, just way less of them, and make them fit into calories for the day. I would never be able to stick to this if I couldn't eat all the foods I love still.2 -
getting used to the fact that no, i can't eat a pack of biscuits/cookies,a whole bar of chocolate in one go. i can have a piece,maybe two, but no more.it might take me a whole week to finish a small bar of chocolate,because fitting in every day might not be possible. in the old days it would have been gone in less than 5'.2
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Having a boyfriend !!
We love to have a date night at the weekend and go out for dinner and when I go out for dinner I don't want to eat healthy stuff and I always want dessert after and usually a few beers too5 -
For me the hardest part is forcing myself to drink enough water and get some exercise in. I find it hard to motivate myself most days.1
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Getting through the plateaus and not getting discouraged... I've been stuck for 5 weeks now so I've resorted to my measurements and found that I may not be losing weight, but my inches are shrinking. It's been pretty frustrating but I keep telling myself, it's just a number and I do feel better.1
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Mental side of it by far is the hardest
I constantly have to remind myself what I want most. Planning ahead helps to but in order to loose weight you have to convince your mind because if you remain disciplined the battle becomes easier3 -
Hands down, the hardest part was simply making the decision to take responsibility for my health. Everything else has been relatively easy.1
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The hardest part for me was to mentally get over the "I ruined it" attitude when I inevitably ate WAY over my calories. Logically you can't undo months of hard work in a day or two, but mentally it was hard to believe that.4
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Having a boyfriend !!
We love to have a date night at the weekend and go out for dinner and when I go out for dinner I don't want to eat healthy stuff and I always want dessert after and usually a few beers too
This! Although I've learned that he doesn't really care what I eat and he will typically just do his own thing. I cook a lot for us so I can control a lot of our meals. And on the weekends, I walk a ton to offset the glass of wine or 3 we have at the Italian place.
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Parties, events, gatherings. It would be easy if we hosted/attended less of these.2
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I'd say patience. When you have a lot of weight to lose (I lost 90 lbs) it takes a long time to feel like you've made progress.
Losing weight for me was easier than maintenance though. After a year of maintenance, it's that realization that I will have to be diligent for the rest of my life unless I want to get fat again. This way of life has to be lifelong.2
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