HUMOR ME.....

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  • potatNOchips
    potatNOchips Posts: 7 Member
    I'm obsessed with the idea of being skinny and light to the point of not wanting to exercise, because muscle is heavier than fat. And the thought of that freaks me out.
  • ItsSlimpossible12
    ItsSlimpossible12 Posts: 127 Member
    Wine and weekends.
  • ditditdee
    ditditdee Posts: 38 Member
    Hubby. He brings all the junk food in this house!

    SAME. I finally told him to keep it in his car if he was going to buy it.
  • ryanndavignon
    ryanndavignon Posts: 86 Member
    Laziness.
    I get all hyped up and motivated to work out in the morning....then my alarm goes off at 530am and I'm like "noo...I need 30 more minutes!" and nothing happens. I get my girls ready for the day and dropped off at their grandma's, then I'm off to work. By the time I get out of work, pick up the girls, get home, make dinner, help with homework, bath and bed time, I don't feel like doing anything. I'm not a complete goner though, I can atleast meal prep breakfast and lunch for me for the week....but seriously, finding the time to work out, then actually STICK to a routine, seems impossible. But that's just the lazy me talking.
    I'm getting fed up with my weight loss. It's been pretty slow moving for me over the last almost 8 months. I've lost 23lbs, but I keep juggling the same 3lbs and can't seem to break steadily into the 170s and it's really ticking me off!
  • jennifer_417
    jennifer_417 Posts: 12,344 Member
    Fatigue
  • Wolfger
    Wolfger Posts: 350 Member
    I can think of a couple things hindering my fitness goals that I will not get rid of... but that's not the question, is it? One thing holding me back that I should get rid of but can't: excuses. I always make excuses for why I can't (won't) go to the gym.
  • jnomadica
    jnomadica Posts: 280 Member
    Injuries/ailments. I had a serious neck injury last year, along with a chronic quad injury and horrible plantar fasciitis. Im 39 but sometimes I feel 80! Im back to working out but I can get discouraged about not being able to be as fit and active as I was a year and a half ago. And I can't eat as much! I'm working on accepting my limitations.
  • brettr23
    brettr23 Posts: 115 Member
    Hands down Alcohol.

    Its a tough one
  • brettr23
    brettr23 Posts: 115 Member
    pinuplove wrote: »
    brettr23 wrote: »
    bebeisfit wrote: »
    Clutter. I live in chaos. A messy house. And right now I've reverted back to binging. I took on a house and dog sitting gig that came with a car..so I'm stopping at every bakery and grocery store buying junk. I don't own a car so i walk and bike a lot.

    We are going through this with my wife...after my daughters cancer she has not kept the house together but we are working on it....and she wont let me help her but we go to groups now and talk about it amongst other areas....thanks for opening up

    So sorry about your daughter's illness! I seriously doubt many of us could keep up at home faced with that :frowning:

    Mine is simple laziness. I've embraced my inner lazy girl, but I still need to convince her to get off her *kitten* every now and then.

    COMPLANCENCY KILLS...I just make sure if I feel like doing nothing I at least do something...one day on vacation I literally worked out at a low rate for 10 min cause better than nothing
  • Geocitiesuser
    Geocitiesuser Posts: 1,429 Member
    I'm angry and bitter about life. Which translates to stress and coping mechanisms that hold me back from my true potential.
  • brettr23
    brettr23 Posts: 115 Member
    I'm angry and bitter about life. Which translates to stress and coping mechanisms that hold me back from my true potential.

    You probably have heard the cliché "I will pray for you" but I lived my life this way for many years and still have to fight its demons and God is the only thing that gives me any peace
  • brettr23
    brettr23 Posts: 115 Member
    Laziness.
    I get all hyped up and motivated to work out in the morning....then my alarm goes off at 530am and I'm like "noo...I need 30 more minutes!" and nothing happens. I get my girls ready for the day and dropped off at their grandma's, then I'm off to work. By the time I get out of work, pick up the girls, get home, make dinner, help with homework, bath and bed time, I don't feel like doing anything. I'm not a complete goner though, I can atleast meal prep breakfast and lunch for me for the week....but seriously, finding the time to work out, then actually STICK to a routine, seems impossible. But that's just the lazy me talking.
    I'm getting fed up with my weight loss. It's been pretty slow moving for me over the last almost 8 months. I've lost 23lbs, but I keep juggling the same 3lbs and can't seem to break steadily into the 170s and it's really ticking me off!

    May just be transferring to muscle...if nothing changes lower your cals..if nothing changes then have a cheat meal
  • brettr23
    brettr23 Posts: 115 Member
    jnomadica wrote: »
    Injuries/ailments. I had a serious neck injury last year, along with a chronic quad injury and horrible plantar fasciitis. Im 39 but sometimes I feel 80! Im back to working out but I can get discouraged about not being able to be as fit and active as I was a year and a half ago. And I can't eat as much! I'm working on accepting my limitations.

    Tore my tricep and pec on same side both in 12 months of one another
  • brettr23
    brettr23 Posts: 115 Member
    brettr23 wrote: »
    jnomadica wrote: »
    Injuries/ailments. I had a serious neck injury last year, along with a chronic quad injury and horrible plantar fasciitis. Im 39 but sometimes I feel 80! Im back to working out but I can get discouraged about not being able to be as fit and active as I was a year and a half ago. And I can't eat as much! I'm working on accepting my limitations.

    Tore my tricep and pec on same side both in 12 months of one another

    Totally understand
  • Geocitiesuser
    Geocitiesuser Posts: 1,429 Member
    brettr23 wrote: »
    I'm angry and bitter about life. Which translates to stress and coping mechanisms that hold me back from my true potential.

    You probably have heard the cliché "I will pray for you" but I lived my life this way for many years and still have to fight its demons and God is the only thing that gives me any peace

    It's funny you mention that. I lived most of my life growing up as an athiest of sorts, but as I get older I have become much more receptive to religion. I'm not sure it gives me peace, but I've found more love for others. I still have plenty of years of working the anger out ahead of me. Thanks!
  • IVMay
    IVMay Posts: 442 Member
    brettr23 wrote: »
    What is one thing in your life that hinders your goals, that you need to get rid of but haven't? Can be fitness goals, personal goals, relationship goals. Hold nothing back and be brutally honest with you!!!!

    Myself. Worst enemy.
  • JessiBelleW
    JessiBelleW Posts: 831 Member
    well I've been back in the gym now for 6 weeks (or so) I've gotten into a good routine of going 4-6 times a week. However, I've not really been focusing on my diet (at all) and so although Im fitter and stronger, I've not actually lost any weight.........
  • MessyApron
    MessyApron Posts: 206 Member
    Binge eating. It's a major saboteur, but I'm finally aware of it and I'm actively working on it.
  • brettr23
    brettr23 Posts: 115 Member
    sgfwinters wrote: »
    Binge eating. It's a major saboteur, but I'm finally aware of it and I'm actively working on it.

    THATS GREAT
  • brettr23
    brettr23 Posts: 115 Member
    well I've been back in the gym now for 6 weeks (or so) I've gotten into a good routine of going 4-6 times a week. However, I've not really been focusing on my diet (at all) and so although Im fitter and stronger, I've not actually lost any weight.........

    DIET IS MORE THAN HALF THE DEAL I WOULD SAY
  • brettr23
    brettr23 Posts: 115 Member
    brettr23 wrote: »
    I'm angry and bitter about life. Which translates to stress and coping mechanisms that hold me back from my true potential.

    You probably have heard the cliché "I will pray for you" but I lived my life this way for many years and still have to fight its demons and God is the only thing that gives me any peace

    It's funny you mention that. I lived most of my life growing up as an athiest of sorts, but as I get older I have become much more receptive to religion. I'm not sure it gives me peace, but I've found more love for others. I still have plenty of years of working the anger out ahead of me. Thanks!

    THAT is the best thing I have heard...I too was agnostic I would say and now believe in God/Jesus...I had questions but experiences in life and feeling the presence of a God in things that really couldn't be explained otherwise changed my heart...life does that and it is all part the plan
  • enterdanger
    enterdanger Posts: 2,447 Member
    Kids! I have too many kids! I'm starting to feel like old mother hubbard.
  • brettr23
    brettr23 Posts: 115 Member
    Kids! I have too many kids! I'm starting to feel like old mother hubbard.

    How many you got?
  • MichelleWithMoxie
    MichelleWithMoxie Posts: 1,817 Member
    myself. lol. i'm always getting in my own damn way.
  • ShrinkingViolet1982
    ShrinkingViolet1982 Posts: 919 Member
    I usually choose time with my husband and son instead of working out. I have eating mostly under control, but "finding" time to get exercise in is harder now than when I was single. I could spend hours in the gym when I was alone, I love it.
  • SparkleBunny_93
    SparkleBunny_93 Posts: 9 Member
    My health and the Dr's who can't decide what's wrong... Two years after the initial incident I'm too heavy and need to lose weight, but at last advice was not to do more than everyday exercise...

    F*** it, I'm walking 16 miles for charity next month. The Dr's make me worse trying to make me better, so I'm gonna help and support my friend on her walk. My parents and I agree that it will make my issues worse, but they are convinced that maybe worse will help make me better. There might be something the Dr's can actually see, that is wrong.
  • brettr23
    brettr23 Posts: 115 Member
    MichSmish wrote: »
    myself. lol. i'm always getting in my own damn way.

    ME TOO
  • brettr23
    brettr23 Posts: 115 Member
    I usually choose time with my husband and son instead of working out. I have eating mostly under control, but "finding" time to get exercise in is harder now than when I was single. I could spend hours in the gym when I was alone, I love it.

    GET IT IN
  • shans34
    shans34 Posts: 535 Member
    The scale! It's my enemy. I can't live with or without it. I find it so hard to stay away and it makes life hard for me. A water weight gain discourages me.
  • brettr23
    brettr23 Posts: 115 Member
    shans34 wrote: »
    The scale! It's my enemy. I can't live with or without it. I find it so hard to stay away and it makes life hard for me. A water weight gain discourages me.

    If I am dieting for a show I pay it attention but otherwise I go by how I feel...how I feel about me and how I feel health wise