Help an old lady out...

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  • Wearedoingthis
    Wearedoingthis Posts: 21 Member
    Kik isn't just for hooking up. People with limited text on their phones use it. If you have friends or family in another country it's free to text them. Teenagers or anyone really with phones that don't have phone service can use Kik on wifi alone.

    My whole family has it to save on texting charges.

    Sorry about your situation. Your husband might be using it to contact another woman considering his past behavior, though. Kik is anonymous so you can give your Kik out to online friends or others you don't know well enough to hand over your phone number.
  • canary_girl
    canary_girl Posts: 366 Member
    I wouldn't bother doing that you might get chatting to him and before you know it you'll be falling in love with him all over again, if his chat is good :wink:

    Lol
  • canary_girl
    canary_girl Posts: 366 Member
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    If he was with a call girl, you might want to visit your own family practice physician or provider.

    Not to speculate... however, if he did this once, there might be a history of similar behavior. With that behavior, there could be ramifications that affect both of you. (scary, huh?)

    Straight up, you need to take good care of yourself on every front; that is, physically, emotionally, financially & spiritually.

    I wish you well.

    I did get tested. Thanks tho...
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    If he was with a call girl, you might want to visit your own family practice physician or provider.

    Not to speculate... however, if he did this once, there might be a history of similar behavior. With that behavior, there could be ramifications that affect both of you. (scary, huh?)

    Straight up, you need to take good care of yourself on every front; that is, physically, emotionally, financially & spiritually.

    I wish you well.

    I did get tested. Thanks tho...

    That's good.


    I once had a blood & urine test; I studied for an entire week beforehand.





    .... it's a good thing the doctor graded on the curve.
  • canary_girl
    canary_girl Posts: 366 Member
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    If he was with a call girl, you might want to visit your own family practice physician or provider.

    Not to speculate... however, if he did this once, there might be a history of similar behavior. With that behavior, there could be ramifications that affect both of you. (scary, huh?)

    Straight up, you need to take good care of yourself on every front; that is, physically, emotionally, financially & spiritually.

    I wish you well.

    I did get tested. Thanks tho...

    That's good.


    I once had a blood & urine test; I studied for an entire week beforehand.





    .... it's a good thing the doctor graded on the curve.

    Lol.

    Alsi super funny to ask your family practitioner to test you because your dh hired a prostitute.

    Fun times.
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  • canary_girl
    canary_girl Posts: 366 Member
    If you're already getting divorced because of the prostitute thing why are you torturing yourself over Kik?

    Fun???

    Injury to insult???

    You pick
  • canary_girl
    canary_girl Posts: 366 Member
    A friend is willing to help catfish.

    I know it's wrong to be giddy, but can't help myself.
  • ClubSilencio
    ClubSilencio Posts: 2,983 Member
    jtegirl1 wrote: »
    Check online dating sites also. Lots of married men on there. He may be on one. OK Cupid, Plenty of Fish, Tinder and whatever else is popular in your area.

    Don't forget MarriedSingles.com.

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  • Whit_88
    Whit_88 Posts: 36 Member
    Can't you catfish him yourself? Just an idea

    was just thinking this ... why bring someone else into this s**t lol just do it yourself
  • DeficitDuchess
    DeficitDuchess Posts: 3,099 Member
    edited April 2017
    @canary_girl it'd be better to hire a private investigator instead, if you participate in revenge you might not gain much via; the divorce! Especially if the judge has, any reason to; sympathize with your husband because of your actions! There's a difference between, collecting evidence which; a professional PI does & committing malice which, you're planning; to do! This behavior might, also be; criminal by violating stalking, harassment, not to mention federal internet laws which'll result in over a year imprisonment for; federal crimes!
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  • pinuplove
    pinuplove Posts: 12,871 Member
    pinuplove wrote: »
    I miss the good old days when men just picked up a drunk young thing with daddy issues at the bar while away on a 'business trip' and their wives boinked the pool guy. It's all so complicated now :disappointed:

    That still happens too

    Old fashioned people

    I don't consider it old fashion so much as I just like that thing the pool boy does with his mouth

    It's pool person now, thank you very much

    As long as the pool person brings the right equipment for the job.
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    pinuplove wrote: »
    I miss the good old days when men just picked up a drunk young thing with daddy issues at the bar while away on a 'business trip' and their wives boinked the pool guy. It's all so complicated now :disappointed:

    That still happens too

    So.... Your swimming pool; I'll be by Wednesday afternoon to check-out your skimmer baskets.
  • FeraFilia
    FeraFilia Posts: 4,664 Member
    I think I need to get a pool.
  • RunHardBeStrong
    RunHardBeStrong Posts: 33,069 Member
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    pinuplove wrote: »
    I miss the good old days when men just picked up a drunk young thing with daddy issues at the bar while away on a 'business trip' and their wives boinked the pool guy. It's all so complicated now :disappointed:

    That still happens too

    So.... Your swimming pool; I'll be by Wednesday afternoon to check-out your skimmer baskets.

    Oh good. They've gotten so dirty.

    I'll be that dude in the corner of the yard with a rake

    I will be in the garden with a hoe.
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    FeraFilia wrote: »
    I think I need to get a pool.

    we have one, it's a lot of work but necessary.



    .......... keeping it filled with chocolate pudding is a challenge in July / August
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  • Just_Mel_
    Just_Mel_ Posts: 3,992 Member
    Is Kik just to hook up, just found hubby's account on kik.

    here if u need someone to talk to OP-

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    Oh T! Every time I see this gif I think of you!
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  • dc8066
    dc8066 Posts: 1,439 Member
    I like that idea, you know, in the garden and with the hoes
  • SomebodyWakeUpHIcks
    SomebodyWakeUpHIcks Posts: 3,836 Member
    We're about to divorce. This could be helpful. Anyone want to catfish an *kitten*?

    Think he wants to see my dingus?
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