Is getting a lap dance considered cheating?

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badgyaljilly
badgyaljilly Posts: 36 Member
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When your man/girlfriend gets a lap dance from a stripper do you think that is considered cheating?

(my old thread got deleted) :'(
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  • liftorgohome
    liftorgohome Posts: 25,455 Member
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    Hell no. It's just a tease show. All this talk about strip joints, why don't you just give your man what he wants?
  • pinuplove
    pinuplove Posts: 12,874 Member
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    Where's my deja vu meme?

    OP, what we think or say doesn't matter. Only you and your boyfriend can sort this out.
  • RachelElser
    RachelElser Posts: 1,049 Member
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    I don't think so
  • Muscle_for_Fitness
    Muscle_for_Fitness Posts: 2,198 Member
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    If you tried to write off the expense it would probably be considered cheating on your taxes.
  • MonkeyMel21
    MonkeyMel21 Posts: 2,394 Member
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    No, not to us. DH wants to buy me a lap dance next time we go to the club.

    Hmmm, I feel like I should add if it's from a stripper then it's ok, but if it's from a lady friend of ours that I didn't give the OK on, I might feel differently. Who am I kidding, I would always give the OK. Maybe even encourage it.
  • Ironandwine69
    Ironandwine69 Posts: 2,432 Member
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    I thought we discussed this already.
    No, it's not considered cheating.
    Cheating more emotional than physical. You can cheat and not have sex. You can have sex and not cheat.
  • kittkat789
    kittkat789 Posts: 111 Member
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    No
  • junodog1
    junodog1 Posts: 4,792 Member
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    Yea, I 'd have to stab my DH in the face.
  • Ben_there_done_that
    Ben_there_done_that Posts: 732 Member
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    Ironandwine69 wrote: »
    I thought we discussed this already.
    No, it's not considered cheating.
    Cheating more emotional than physical. You can cheat and not have sex. You can have sex and not cheat.

    That just rocked my world!
  • badgyaljilly
    badgyaljilly Posts: 36 Member
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    Ironandwine69 wrote: »
    I thought we discussed this already.
    No, it's not considered cheating.
    Cheating more emotional than physical. You can cheat and not have sex. You can have sex and not cheat.

    So if your bf buys an escort you think thats not cheating?
  • liftorgohome
    liftorgohome Posts: 25,455 Member
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    Is looking at porn cheating? No touch no cheat.
  • badgyaljilly
    badgyaljilly Posts: 36 Member
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    tjkita wrote: »
    Is looking at porn cheating? No touch no cheat.

    A lap dance you clearly get touched though
  • StarvingDiva
    StarvingDiva Posts: 1,107 Member
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    What your limitations are in a relationship are different from anyone elses. I personally don't find a lap dance cheating, cheating to me has more to do with feelings, intentions and of course the physical act of it.
  • liftorgohome
    liftorgohome Posts: 25,455 Member
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    badgyaljilly wrote: »
    tjkita wrote: »
    Is looking at porn cheating? No touch no cheat.

    A lap dance you clearly get touched though
    Yes but you can't touch them.

  • Ironandwine69
    Ironandwine69 Posts: 2,432 Member
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    badgyaljilly wrote: »
    Ironandwine69 wrote: »
    I thought we discussed this already.
    No, it's not considered cheating.
    Cheating more emotional than physical. You can cheat and not have sex. You can have sex and not cheat.

    So if your bf buys an escort you think thats not cheating?

    My husband doesn't have to buy an escort. He can get it for free if he wanted.
    And if I knew about it and was fine with it, then no it's not cheating.


    And there is no sex in lap dance, just teasing.
  • SpotLighttt
    SpotLighttt Posts: 174 Member
    edited April 2017
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    badgyaljilly wrote: »
    Ironandwine69 wrote: »
    I thought we discussed this already.
    No, it's not considered cheating.
    Cheating more emotional than physical. You can cheat and not have sex. You can have sex and not cheat.

    So if your bf buys an escort you think thats not cheating?

    yes thats is what he is saying lol
    if his partner had a full blown affair - that would be cheating.
    If his partner had a casual one night stand - thats no issue because no emotions are involved
  • liftorgohome
    liftorgohome Posts: 25,455 Member
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    If you get oral under the white house desk, is that cheating? Bush said no!
  • SpotLighttt
    SpotLighttt Posts: 174 Member
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    it's all dependent on the individual and the couples agreement.

    I personally don't consider it as cheating
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