Is getting a lap dance considered cheating?
badgyaljilly
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When your man/girlfriend gets a lap dance from a stripper do you think that is considered cheating?
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Hell no. It's just a tease show. All this talk about strip joints, why don't you just give your man what he wants?1
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Where's my deja vu meme?
OP, what we think or say doesn't matter. Only you and your boyfriend can sort this out.4 -
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I don't think so0
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If you tried to write off the expense it would probably be considered cheating on your taxes.1
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That's subjective, some couples might think it isn't, others might consider it is. My fiancé would think it is...she'd stab me in the face for real.6
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No, not to us. DH wants to buy me a lap dance next time we go to the club.
Hmmm, I feel like I should add if it's from a stripper then it's ok, but if it's from a lady friend of ours that I didn't give the OK on, I might feel differently. Who am I kidding, I would always give the OK. Maybe even encourage it.1 -
I thought we discussed this already.
No, it's not considered cheating.
Cheating more emotional than physical. You can cheat and not have sex. You can have sex and not cheat.3 -
No0
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Yea, I 'd have to stab my DH in the face.0
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Ironandwine69 wrote: »I thought we discussed this already.
No, it's not considered cheating.
Cheating more emotional than physical. You can cheat and not have sex. You can have sex and not cheat.
That just rocked my world!0 -
Ironandwine69 wrote: »I thought we discussed this already.
No, it's not considered cheating.
Cheating more emotional than physical. You can cheat and not have sex. You can have sex and not cheat.
So if your bf buys an escort you think thats not cheating?0 -
Is looking at porn cheating? No touch no cheat.1
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What your limitations are in a relationship are different from anyone elses. I personally don't find a lap dance cheating, cheating to me has more to do with feelings, intentions and of course the physical act of it.2
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badgyaljilly wrote: »Ironandwine69 wrote: »I thought we discussed this already.
No, it's not considered cheating.
Cheating more emotional than physical. You can cheat and not have sex. You can have sex and not cheat.
So if your bf buys an escort you think thats not cheating?
My husband doesn't have to buy an escort. He can get it for free if he wanted.
And if I knew about it and was fine with it, then no it's not cheating.
And there is no sex in lap dance, just teasing.0 -
badgyaljilly wrote: »Ironandwine69 wrote: »I thought we discussed this already.
No, it's not considered cheating.
Cheating more emotional than physical. You can cheat and not have sex. You can have sex and not cheat.
So if your bf buys an escort you think thats not cheating?
yes thats is what he is saying lol
if his partner had a full blown affair - that would be cheating.
If his partner had a casual one night stand - thats no issue because no emotions are involved0 -
If you get oral under the white house desk, is that cheating? Bush said no!0
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it's all dependent on the individual and the couples agreement.
I personally don't consider it as cheating0 -
Emotions are lame and therefore unimportant to me. I'd be more worried about catching something.0
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badgyaljilly wrote: »Ironandwine69 wrote: »I thought we discussed this already.
No, it's not considered cheating.
Cheating more emotional than physical. You can cheat and not have sex. You can have sex and not cheat.
So if your bf buys an escort you think thats not cheating?
And then it depends on if I'm watching or not.
Huge difference.
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It's not cheating but it is disgusting0
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SpotLighttt wrote: »badgyaljilly wrote: »Ironandwine69 wrote: »I thought we discussed this already.
No, it's not considered cheating.
Cheating more emotional than physical. You can cheat and not have sex. You can have sex and not cheat.
So if your bf buys an escort you think thats not cheating?
yes thats is what he is saying lol
if his partner had a full blown affair - that would be cheating.
If his partner had a casual one night stand - thats no issue because no emotions are involved
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badgyaljilly wrote: »SpotLighttt wrote: »badgyaljilly wrote: »Ironandwine69 wrote: »I thought we discussed this already.
No, it's not considered cheating.
Cheating more emotional than physical. You can cheat and not have sex. You can have sex and not cheat.
So if your bf buys an escort you think thats not cheating?
yes thats is what he is saying lol
if his partner had a full blown affair - that would be cheating.
If his partner had a casual one night stand - thats no issue because no emotions are involved
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Op this thread is gonna get shut down to, main thing is it doesn't matter what we think! We all would handle the situation differently. If YOU think it's cheating then dump him! There's nothing stopping you, just silly to seek out what others think. Because if you want MY opinion, no it's not cheating it's a guy going to a strip club, i go to them to so idc. I feel women who get angry about men going to stripclubs ether have major insecurities and do not trust there man, or it's religious. Ether way you look at it you're hoping people agree with you by making this thread... let's just rip off the bandaid right now. 1. If you don't trust him 2. If you hate how he goes to the girls joints 3. And anything else you have held over his head...DUMP HIM not science to figure out if you're not happy in a relationship or trying to change the other humans personality for your emotional benefit is just wrong....6
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ahhh but what about emotional cheating? what if he confides in this stripper his inner most thoughts and feelings but not you?3
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Ironandwine69 wrote: »badgyaljilly wrote: »Ironandwine69 wrote: »I thought we discussed this already.
No, it's not considered cheating.
Cheating more emotional than physical. You can cheat and not have sex. You can have sex and not cheat.
So if your bf buys an escort you think thats not cheating?
My husband doesn't have to buy an escort. He can get it for free if he wanted.
And if I knew about it and was fine with it, then no it's not cheating.
And there is no sex in lap dance, just teasing.
So you okay with your man buying sex from a stranger? LOL0 -
Every relationship is different, every relationship has it's own boundaries. You establish these in the beginning. If both parties aren't following through, there's underlying trust issues developed. Personally, I couldn't care less, I'd be right there enjoying the show. But my definition of inappropriate is obviously different than yours.1
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Ms_Sicilian wrote: »Op this thread is gonna get shut down to, main thing is it doesn't matter what we think! We all would handle the situation differently. If YOU think it's cheating then dump him! There's nothing stopping you, just silly to seek out what others think. Because if you want MY opinion, no it's not cheating it's a guy going to a strip club, i go to them to so idc. I feel women who get angry about men going to stripclubs ether have major insecurities and do not trust there man, or it's religious. Ether way you look at it you're hoping people agree with you by making this thread... let's just rip off the bandaid right now. 1. If you don't trust him 2. If you hate how he goes to the girls joints 3. And anything else you have held over his head...DUMP HIM not science to figure out if you're not happy in a relationship or trying to change the other humans personality for your emotional benefit is just wrong....
Lol girl he already told me he went and got a dance. He asked me if I think its cheating and it got me thinking0
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