True Confessions - Don't Judge

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  • JLAJ81
    JLAJ81 Posts: 2,477 Member
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    abetterme9366 wrote: »
    *kitten* wrong thread

    I'm judging you
  • ekim2016
    ekim2016 Posts: 1,199 Member
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    LittleHearseDriver wrote: »
    I confess microwave popcorn is never as good as I imagine it will be. It leaves me with thirsty, salty regret every time.

    I find the Brims popcorn at Dollar General very tasty 170 cal for 3 cups!!!
  • Timshel_
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    captainfantastic94 wrote: »
    Timshel_ wrote: »
    I am really bored with everything lately.

    Imagine how Harry felt when he got back from hogwarts

    I just got back from Hogwarts.
    I know.


  • Creep7796
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    slessofme wrote: »
    cdiller7796 wrote: »
    slessofme wrote: »
    kace_kay wrote: »
    cdiller7796 wrote: »
    kace_kay wrote: »
    cdiller7796 wrote: »
    LittleHearseDriver wrote: »
    cdiller7796 wrote: »

    I've been married 7 years and unhappy for the last 5 ... I hear ya on the broken people .... My husband at one time told me he wasn't sleeping with me because of my weight. That was huge for me. I have anxiety now over and think everyone is judging me over it.

    You cant change him, but you can change the way you look at yourself. Self acceptance is
    something that takes time. Don't compare yourself to others, only compare yourself to the person you were yesterday. Strangers (including myself) often look at others out of curiosity more than judgment.

    Oh it's super hard to not compare myself .....

    Comparison is the thief of joy. I have to tell myself this a lot.

    That's a good way to look at it.

    It's hard, especially when people have been telling us to compare ourselves most of our lives, usually to something perceived negative so that we are somehow miraculously enlightened and we feel better about ourselves.... as a way to count our blessings, I suppose. But then we take it and use it as a way that is no longer constructive and we tear ourselves up over how we aren't what we are "supposed" to be. Don't let these thoughts convince you that you're not enough.

    I'm really bad about telling myself that I *should* feel this way, or I *should* do that. I just saw an REI ad in a magazine with a lot of the *should* statements I run through my brain, but the should part was redlined in each. I'll be tearing that page out and putting it somewhere that I'll look at every day as a reminder.

    Can you give some examples.

    Things like "I should feel strong" or "I should appreciate my body's abilities". It takes things from a passive statement to an affirmative statement.

    I like this!! Maybe I should start righting stuff down like this everyday.
  • LifeIs420
    LifeIs420 Posts: 150 Member
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    true confession: i go to bed every night not knowing how much pain i will have when i wake up
  • Timshel_
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    TeacupsAndToning wrote: »
    I'm going in September.

    I'll take a selfie in only a cloak for you.

    I did this.
    Only I did have the tie on.
    And my wand showing...

  • BoosDimples
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    kace_kay wrote: »
    Timshel_ wrote: »
    TeacupsAndToning wrote: »
    I'm going in September.

    I'll take a selfie in only a cloak for you.

    I did this.
    Only I did have the tie on.
    And my wand showing...

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  • Motorsheen
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    abetterme9366 wrote: »
    *kitten* wrong thread

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  • ekim2016
    ekim2016 Posts: 1,199 Member
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    LifeIs420 wrote: »
    true confession: i go to bed every night not knowing how much pain i will have when i wake up

    ditto I confess...
  • fjmartini
    fjmartini Posts: 1,149 Member
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    I confess I like to manipulate and mind *kitten* people for *kitten* and giggles...all in good fun.
  • Deadman_Diggingup
    Deadman_Diggingup Posts: 3,082 Member
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    I confess that I may have sort of kinda possibly most definitely started smoking again.... damn stress. That's gotta stop.

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