Sex in your 20s compared to sex in your 30s ?
MEADOWS_FIT
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Alright everyone. Let's get serious for a second. My sex drive as increased dramatically in my 30s. I don't know if it's because I workout everyday or because I'm healthier or what but it's pretty surprising. I've always heard men peak in their mid 20s? Can anyone relate to this or am I just weird? Lol
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I think aging just has a way of focusing up your sex drive. Like a 20 yr old guy will boink anything without much discrimination. An older man seems to know what he wants and is more patient about waiting for it, with a willingness to pass up lots of hot and ready young things throwing themselves at him because his steely heart is resolute on owning her, the one-
Don't listen to me, everything I know I learned from dog-eared pages of smut books in my teens.13 -
Lol, I had to beg more in my 30's.
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CoffeeAndContour wrote: »Your now being fit definitely helps.
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I've been with the same girl for years. I'm not talking about sleeping around. I talking about sex drive.
Obviously, being with someone for a long time will make you more comfortable. But, I've been in long term relationships before and it's never been like this. And maybe being fit as made me more confident? IDK.1 -
That's the thing, I've always heard men peak in 20, women in their 30s. But, you're probably right. Everyone is different.0
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I've always had a high sex drive. I'm now in my mid 30s and the drive is just like it was in my 20s
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MEADOWS_FIT wrote: »Alright everyone. Let's get serious for a second. My sex drive as increased dramatically in my 30s. I don't know if it's because I workout everyday or because I'm healthier or what but it's pretty surprising. I've always heard men peak in their mid 20s? Can anyone relate to this or am I just weird? Lol
Is this a question for men?
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I have noticed no increase or decrease from teens/twenties/thirties.MEADOWS_FIT wrote: »I've been with the same girl for years. I'm not talking about sleeping around. I talking about sex drive.
Obviously, being with someone for a long time will make you more comfortable. But, I've been in long term relationships before and it's never been like this. And maybe being fit as made me more confident? IDK.
Sex drive for me has always been high, but sometimes in relationships it gets kinda stifled for me with that individual, not my actual sex drive
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Maybe that's what is surprising to me. I've been in a relationship for over 5 years but my sex drive has increased? Usually it's the other way around.2
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I'm honestly just curious about other people's experiences. It's really not that serious. haha. Good problem to have!2
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I've never had a problem with my sex drive....
other than maybe it's too damn high! Is that even a problem??? Lol. I say roll with it! Get it while it's hot! 
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The only bummer about getting older, in regards to my sex drive, is that I've lost half a step when chasing the neighbor's cat.6
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MEADOWS_FIT wrote: »Alright everyone. Let's get serious for a second. My sex drive as increased dramatically in my 30s. I don't know if it's because I workout everyday or because I'm healthier or what but it's pretty surprising. I've always heard men peak in their mid 20s? Can anyone relate to this or am I just weird? Lol
Can't remember. That's 20 years ago for me. I think its even better after 50. Perhaps more experienced and settled I suppose.4 -
MEADOWS_FIT wrote: »Alright everyone. Let's get serious for a second. My sex drive as increased dramatically in my 30s. I don't know if it's because I workout everyday or because I'm healthier or what but it's pretty surprising. I've always heard men peak in their mid 20s? Can anyone relate to this or am I just weird? Lol
Can't remember. That's 20 years ago for me. I think its even better after 50. Perhaps more experienced and settled I suppose.
I went to the parents for the weekend a few years ago and walked by their bedroom and heard them doing it! They were in their mid 50 at the time. My mom had just got new boobs tho. So I understand. Haha
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MEADOWS_FIT wrote: »MEADOWS_FIT wrote: »Alright everyone. Let's get serious for a second. My sex drive as increased dramatically in my 30s. I don't know if it's because I workout everyday or because I'm healthier or what but it's pretty surprising. I've always heard men peak in their mid 20s? Can anyone relate to this or am I just weird? Lol
Can't remember. That's 20 years ago for me. I think its even better after 50. Perhaps more experienced and settled I suppose.
I went to the parents for the weekend a few years ago and walked by their bedroom and heard them doing it! They were in their mid 50 at the time. My mom had just got new boobs tho. So I understand. Haha
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Maybe it's the opposite. Like guys peak In the 30s and girls peak in the 20s ?2
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Angelamday3371 wrote: »Maybe it's the opposite. Like guys peak In the 30s and girls peak in the 20s ?
It's possible. I'm not complaining!0 -
^^^^^ I wish it was the same for me and he's in his early 20s1
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I never noticed a drop. I would think peaks are a myth and drop offs may be linked to health, fitness, and confidence. Of course being 40 years old, obese with diabetes I may be an enigma.3
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mine is higher than ever right now...and my wife's is FINALLY catching up3
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Mines def higher in my 30s2
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I have yet to hit the 30s, but I have hella of a lot more libido than when I was in my early 20s that's for sure. I wonder if getting fitter made that happen1
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cabronlobos wrote: »My sex drive has never been higher.....I get it everyday........im hoping having a partner someday can only add to the fun
Lol..
Reading through, so many are saying they have a super high sex drive..c'mon peeps someone has to be fibbing...lol3 -
slimgirljo15 wrote: »cabronlobos wrote: »My sex drive has never been higher.....I get it everyday........im hoping having a partner someday can only add to the fun
Lol..
Reading through, so many are saying they have a super high sex drive..c'mon peeps someone has to be fibbing...lol
mine is negative 10.... you're so right Jo!4 -
Merrysailor5 wrote: »slimgirljo15 wrote: »cabronlobos wrote: »My sex drive has never been higher.....I get it everyday........im hoping having a partner someday can only add to the fun
Lol..
Reading through, so many are saying they have a super high sex drive..c'mon peeps someone has to be fibbing...lol
mine is negative 10.... you're so right Jo!
Yeah..I find it interesting, I mean I have a pretty strong sex drive..but then there were times when I was working 15 hours, a kid might be sick so I was up all night and I most definitely would have said to ex "if you touch me I'll hurt you" :laugh:
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I maintained a good level of fitness from 14 until an injury when I turned 30 and only after gaining weight, i saw a decrease in sex drive.
When the healing ended and the workouts pushed my metabolism up again, my favorite little guy has been like Trigonometry.1 -
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I just turned 30.. I feel like my sex drive has increased significantly2
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