need some comforting words please, my parents hurt me and are not sorry... (long)
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Will_Run_4_Food wrote: »TLDR
... i didn't realise i would attract such stupidity. i said it was long... so bye.
thank you to everyone who actually tried to raise my spirits. bless you xxx
I'm starting to understand why your parents treat you the way they do
hahahaha oh ok then. xD2 -
abetterme9366 wrote: »Jesus Christ
So do you think that he also had issues with his parents?1 -
I apologised to keep the peace, i lived alone for 4 years i am only staying temp till i move into my new place and i found the place so thanks love, i am a grown up.MeeseeksAndDestroy wrote: »Definitely just keep demanding an apology, afterall they're only letting you live with them AND finding you a new place, such meanies. You sound so grown up.
wow lol i came here thinking i was going to get mature responses. i was utterly wrong. my mistake. wont happen again.with a name like that you must be a piece of *kitten*.
those that did help though i appreciate it and i hope the best for you too, the rest of you can go bounce.
anyway, chow =D
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I can't even imagine what it must feel like to be treated like that by your parents. I'm sure this isn't new behavior but I suppose one would never get used to something like that from someone who is supposed to care for them.
The only suggestion I have is to be as civil as possible until you are out of their house and then begin breaking ties with them. Their behavior is not likely to change and you don't need that in your life. Find some friends that care about your and move on with your life.2 -
You did get mature responses - the problem is that you were expecting responses from people who weren't mature, who would sympathize with you as a young person feeling aggravated by the people who are paying for your entire existence. Many of the people here are parents themselves.
As long as you live under their roof, you have a responsibility to be civil. You don't have to keep living under their roof, and if they treat you badly you don't have to invite them under your new roof.3 -
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tmanfromtexas wrote: »
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It would be pretty rare for this to come out of nowhere. Sounds like a pretty toxic and long-term dynamic has been going on.
Probably best that you get your own place anyway.1 -
abetterme9366 wrote: »Jesus Christ
This pretty much sums up my feelings on this thread...and I'm an atheist!0 -
Motorsheen wrote: »tmanfromtexas wrote: »
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Appreciate that!!!0 -
tmanfromtexas wrote: »Motorsheen wrote: »tmanfromtexas wrote: »
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Appreciate that!!!
I'm here to serve.0 -
You need to be put on anti-depressants. I think they will fix everything because I'm on one now for an injury since it has multiple uses and I have no feelings of love nor hate. I pretty much just stare off like a zombie and do not give a fck about anything, especially your post.4
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You need to be put on anti-depressants. I think they will fix everything because I'm on one now for an injury since it has multiple uses and I have no feelings of love nor hate. I pretty much just stare off like a zombie and do not give a fck about anything, especially your post.
Staring off is vastly underrated.1 -
Motorsheen wrote: »You need to be put on anti-depressants. I think they will fix everything because I'm on one now for an injury since it has multiple uses and I have no feelings of love nor hate. I pretty much just stare off like a zombie and do not give a fck about anything, especially your post.
Staring off is vastly underrated.
I do kind of like it.0 -
I reckon some breathing space would do you all good. Keep yourself busy the next few weeks - gym, work, friends - then distance yourself once you're in your new place.
Work on building your confidence back up, being independant and happy alone. Every one wants validation and love from parents, but parents are just people. They have their own baggage to deal with, their own lives to contend with. Being a parent doesn't come with instructions and we all just fail at being civilised and "getting it right" relationship wise sometimes. In all relationships we can't always get the validation and comfort we might want at the time. I too struggled with pleasing my parents and feeling valued by them, and I know it's a lonely place. But the best we can do for our own long term future happiness is to learn to love and value ourselves fully, and depend and expect less of that coming from others. When you get it, enjoy it, but don't depend on it.
When you're strong and in a good place yourself, when your value in yourself can't be shaken, go back and make amends with your parents. I reckon all will have calmed down.0 -
I would say don't hold grudges and free yourself by forgiving others especially ur parents and move on with your life. You should be so busy with doing that what is good and beneficial to yourself and others that u don't even remember if anyone ever wronged u. But remember don't get stung by the same stinger two times. If you do mistakes, learn and move on. Life is too short to be worrying about things that u cannot change or going back to past. Everything happens for a reason. Peace ✌1
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Will_Run_4_Food wrote: »TLDR
Yeah much. I got problems too0 -
I have never called my mum names not she, maybe both of you need to see a councillor? If your home is that turbulent maybe you should move out now. Once the dust is settled, talk with a professional (there ain't any on here).0
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