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Do you say something?

celiah909
celiah909 Posts: 141 Member
edited November 22 in Debate Club
Do you say something if you have friends or people in general say things about weight loss you disagree with or do you just let them do their thing? Does it matter how well you know the person if you do say something?

Asking out of curiosity, I don’t say anything against it but also don’t agree. I tend to avoid getting too far into the conversation.

Examples:

Friends say they burned 400 calories doing 30 minutes of housework? (As seen in MFP feed)

Friend says everyone needs a MLM cleanse for weight loss? Or XYZ supplement for weight loss/keeping muscle/etc. (from a friend who sells & supports Advocare)

Friend says their new weight loss doctor says they gained 100 pounds because their body went into starvation mode? (From a family member)
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  • stanmann571
    stanmann571 Posts: 5,727 Member
    It depends... but usually yes.
  • celiah909
    celiah909 Posts: 141 Member
    It depends... but usually yes.

    I wanted to add that I’m in part asking cause I feel I should say something but I never do
  • Need2Exerc1se
    Need2Exerc1se Posts: 13,575 Member
    edited September 2017
    It would depend on how well I knew them. Except for the cleanse thing. I'd likely say 'No, I don't believe that.' to anyone.
  • leggup
    leggup Posts: 2,942 Member
    I usually smile and say, "I lost 72 lbs by counting calories and eating whatever I wanted. Good luck!" Of course, I stopped counting, ate way over, and gained 25 lbs back so I haven't been saying anything lately. If there's an easy science to point to, I will, like, "That was debunked. Google -starvation mode debunked-." Thankfully I don't know anyone who does pyramid schemes.
  • stanmann571
    stanmann571 Posts: 5,727 Member
    celiah909 wrote: »
    It depends... but usually yes.

    I wanted to add that I’m in part asking cause I feel I should say something but I never do

    Just like here on the forums. I'm that guy in meatspace too. Speaking truth(sometimes to power) and bringing the harsh painful reality.
  • TR0berts
    TR0berts Posts: 7,739 Member
    celiah909 wrote: »
    Friends say they burned 400 calories doing 30 minutes of housework? (As seen in MFP feed)

    No. If they ask, then maybe.
    Friend says everyone needs a MLM cleanse for weight loss? Or XYZ supplement for weight loss/keeping muscle/etc. (from a friend who sells & supports Advocare)

    Yes.
    Friend says their new weight loss doctor says they gained 100 pounds because their body went into starvation mode? (From a family member)

    Yes.
  • lemurcat12
    lemurcat12 Posts: 30,886 Member
    Depends on the person and circumstances. If it's just someone I know telling a story at lunch or something, usually not. I might ask a question, again depending. If it's someone I know well and know has an interest and enjoys the kind of conversation, I might get into it more.
  • sardelsa
    sardelsa Posts: 9,812 Member
    Unless they specifically ask what I think or my advice.. I will usually let them be.
  • cwolfman13
    cwolfman13 Posts: 41,865 Member
    Most of my friends and family are pretty well versed in fitness and nutrition so it's not really an issue...co-workers and whatnot, I usually don't say anything...not really worth my time.
  • celiah909
    celiah909 Posts: 141 Member
    Keto works! I have lost 30lbs in the last 4 months.

    Not trying to say it doesn't. I think keto fits for some people.
  • sijomial
    sijomial Posts: 19,809 Member
    Yes I usually speak up.

    There is so much nonsense that is spread around that unless people speak up "a lie told often enough becomes the truth".
  • Duck_Puddle
    Duck_Puddle Posts: 3,237 Member
    Not usually. I've had people tell me (while they watch me eat pizza/ice cream/cake) that the reason I lost weight is because I don't eat things like pizza/ice cream/cake.
  • olive1968
    olive1968 Posts: 148 Member
    I do, which is mostly stuff my mother says. She got everything she knows about diet and fitness in 1983 and there is no changing her mind! I don't know why I keep trying.
  • LonniJay
    LonniJay Posts: 3,740 Member
    I say all the things especially if I know they are wrong and I can teach them and help them. I try to do it gently but you can't control how other's take things. If they get combative I back away slowly and let them torture themselves.

    I also have a habit of laughing uncontrollably at some people's ridiculous advice which tends to get me in trouble.
  • Tacklewasher
    Tacklewasher Posts: 7,122 Member
    Depends. If they are talking about what has worked for them, or even what they are trying even though it is not working, then I keep quiet. If they tell me what I should be doing, they usually don't like the response. If I'm in a good mood, it's "Why? What I'm doing works just fine for me." If I'm not in a good mood then the gloves are off.

    But I also don't really like to talk about it in real life. I had someone gush over my weight loss (she hasn't seen me in 100+ lbs) and it got a bit much. I'd rather move on to another topic. Same if someone wants advice. I find I don't say much more then "I ate less".
  • BinaryPulsar
    BinaryPulsar Posts: 8,927 Member
    I will if they seem receptive and like it will help them. But, if they are happy, I don't get into that (especially if I don't know them very closely).
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