Those inbox creeps

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  • Dazzler21
    Dazzler21 Posts: 1,249 Member
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    I often get creeps in my inbox. If I leave a comment on someone's post the creeps will come. I had to change my profile pic to my Bitmoji and STILL they come. They love to ask you about your body, or your self esteem. Yes I'm fat but I'm not desperate. I'm fat and I have plenty of self esteem. I'm beautiful, funny, smart, and a go getter. My life is fine just my weight isn't. I wonder if it's the same for some of the men on here too, do ladies creep as well?

    Please stop equating over weight with being desperate for attention. If you like that person just say so damn. The worst that could happen is their in a relationship, ok on to the next fish....mini rant over enjoy your Friday guys, and stay strong through the weekend.

    Well guys?

    I used to when I had a topless progression pic - not these days though.
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    I often get creeps in my inbox. If I leave a comment on someone's post the creeps will come. I had to change my profile pic to my Bitmoji and STILL they come. They love to ask you about your body, or your self esteem. Yes I'm fat but I'm not desperate. I'm fat and I have plenty of self esteem. I'm beautiful, funny, smart, and a go getter. My life is fine just my weight isn't. I wonder if it's the same for some of the men on here too, do ladies creep as well?

    Please stop equating over weight with being desperate for attention. If you like that person just say so damn. The worst that could happen is their in a relationship, ok on to the next fish....mini rant over enjoy your Friday guys, and stay strong through the weekend.

    Well guys?

    sadly, no.

    y'all need to step-up your game
  • Just_J_Now
    Just_J_Now Posts: 9,551 Member
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    I often get creeps in my inbox. If I leave a comment on someone's post the creeps will come. I had to change my profile pic to my Bitmoji and STILL they come. They love to ask you about your body, or your self esteem. Yes I'm fat but I'm not desperate. I'm fat and I have plenty of self esteem. I'm beautiful, funny, smart, and a go getter. My life is fine just my weight isn't. I wonder if it's the same for some of the men on here too, do ladies creep as well?

    Please stop equating over weight with being desperate for attention. If you like that person just say so damn. The worst that could happen is their in a relationship, ok on to the next fish....mini rant over enjoy your Friday guys, and stay strong through the weekend.

    Well guys?

    sadly, no.

    y'all need to step-up your game

    Hello, pm sent.


    also Post reported. ;)
  • PWRLFTR1
    PWRLFTR1 Posts: 324 Member
    I'm seeing a lot of victim blaming. Good thing you changed your profile, otherwise you could be accused of causing men to be creeps.
  • Dazzler21
    Dazzler21 Posts: 1,249 Member
    dym1 wrote: »
    I'm seeing a lot of victim blaming. Good thing you changed your profile, otherwise you could be accused of causing men to be creeps.

    What's the recipient of a request a victim of exactly? Other than a misunderstanding of intention from the person they are approaching.

  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    Just_J_Now wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    I often get creeps in my inbox. If I leave a comment on someone's post the creeps will come. I had to change my profile pic to my Bitmoji and STILL they come. They love to ask you about your body, or your self esteem. Yes I'm fat but I'm not desperate. I'm fat and I have plenty of self esteem. I'm beautiful, funny, smart, and a go getter. My life is fine just my weight isn't. I wonder if it's the same for some of the men on here too, do ladies creep as well?

    Please stop equating over weight with being desperate for attention. If you like that person just say so damn. The worst that could happen is their in a relationship, ok on to the next fish....mini rant over enjoy your Friday guys, and stay strong through the weekend.

    Well guys?

    sadly, no.

    y'all need to step-up your game

    Hello, pm sent.


    also Post reported. ;)

    There must be something terribly, terribly wrong with my computer or my interwebz connection....

    I just checked my in-box. No Noodz?
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    lstrat115 wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    lstrat115 wrote: »
    What type of comments are you leaving on other people's walls and statuses.
    I have been here for years and creeps never ask me about my body or my self esteem. They just ask for nudes

    and you almost never honor the request with a proper reply




    almost

    Depends on if it is Hump Day or Frisky Friday. Those are your best bets

    Happy Friday!!!
  • 81Katz
    81Katz Posts: 7,074 Member
    I have a blank friend request. No name, no post. Can't click to delete, it's just blank.

    Maybe a ghost creeper?
  • Just_J_Now
    Just_J_Now Posts: 9,551 Member
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Just_J_Now wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    I often get creeps in my inbox. If I leave a comment on someone's post the creeps will come. I had to change my profile pic to my Bitmoji and STILL they come. They love to ask you about your body, or your self esteem. Yes I'm fat but I'm not desperate. I'm fat and I have plenty of self esteem. I'm beautiful, funny, smart, and a go getter. My life is fine just my weight isn't. I wonder if it's the same for some of the men on here too, do ladies creep as well?

    Please stop equating over weight with being desperate for attention. If you like that person just say so damn. The worst that could happen is their in a relationship, ok on to the next fish....mini rant over enjoy your Friday guys, and stay strong through the weekend.

    Well guys?

    sadly, no.

    y'all need to step-up your game

    Hello, pm sent.


    also Post reported. ;)

    There must be something terribly, terribly wrong with my computer or my interwebz connection....

    I just checked my in-box. No Noodz?

    Not on here silly check your Kik.


    :laugh:
  • PWRLFTR1
    PWRLFTR1 Posts: 324 Member
    edited November 2017
    Dazzler21 wrote: »
    dym1 wrote: »
    I'm seeing a lot of victim blaming. Good thing you changed your profile, otherwise you could be accused of causing men to be creeps.

    What's the recipient of a request a victim of exactly? Other than a misunderstanding of intention from the person they are approaching.

    Just some of the responses:

    you do know a lot of guys including creeps like thick girls right? and your pp with a 2 piece on doesnt help your case j/s

    you post cleavage pics and wonder why you get creepers... really?!

    Profile pics of you in your underwear will usually do it.


    It is not the creepy guys that makes this victim blaming, its the responses basically saying, "you asked for it"
  • Dazzler21
    Dazzler21 Posts: 1,249 Member
    dym1 wrote: »
    Dazzler21 wrote: »
    dym1 wrote: »
    I'm seeing a lot of victim blaming. Good thing you changed your profile, otherwise you could be accused of causing men to be creeps.

    What's the recipient of a request a victim of exactly? Other than a misunderstanding of intention from the person they are approaching.

    Just some of the responses:

    you do know a lot of guys including creeps like thick girls right? and your pp with a 2 piece on doesnt help your case j/s

    you post cleavage pics and wonder why you get creepers... really?!

    Profile pics of you in your underwear will usually do it.


    It is not the creepy guys that makes this victim blaming, its the responses basically saying, "you asked for it"

    I've gotta stop posting pics of myself in my underwear in that case... I don't want people knowing I go strapless.

    Seriously though - it's a vaguely fair point.
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    Just_J_Now wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Just_J_Now wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    I often get creeps in my inbox. If I leave a comment on someone's post the creeps will come. I had to change my profile pic to my Bitmoji and STILL they come. They love to ask you about your body, or your self esteem. Yes I'm fat but I'm not desperate. I'm fat and I have plenty of self esteem. I'm beautiful, funny, smart, and a go getter. My life is fine just my weight isn't. I wonder if it's the same for some of the men on here too, do ladies creep as well?

    Please stop equating over weight with being desperate for attention. If you like that person just say so damn. The worst that could happen is their in a relationship, ok on to the next fish....mini rant over enjoy your Friday guys, and stay strong through the weekend.

    Well guys?

    sadly, no.

    y'all need to step-up your game

    Hello, pm sent.


    also Post reported. ;)

    There must be something terribly, terribly wrong with my computer or my interwebz connection....

    I just checked my in-box. No Noodz?

    Not on here silly check your Kik.


    :laugh:

    Got em!

    Wait..... that's you?

    Good Lord.

    Aren't you afraid that you'll pull a hammy from that pose?
  • ManBehindTheMask
    ManBehindTheMask Posts: 615 Member
    Too many people mistake being polite for flirting

    You sure they were creeping OP?
  • Vikka_V
    Vikka_V Posts: 9,563 Member
    Too many people mistake being polite for flirting

    You sure they were creeping OP?

    So true
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  • djchaney73
    djchaney73 Posts: 289 Member
    Too many people mistake being polite for flirting

    You sure they were creeping OP?

    True True True... Hard to say hello to a pretty woman anymore without someone thinking you're trying to get in her pants...
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  • djchaney73
    djchaney73 Posts: 289 Member
    Wish I could see the images... damn work PC...
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  • djchaney73
    djchaney73 Posts: 289 Member
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    I often get creeps in my inbox. If I leave a comment on someone's post the creeps will come. I had to change my profile pic to my Bitmoji and STILL they come. They love to ask you about your body, or your self esteem. Yes I'm fat but I'm not desperate. I'm fat and I have plenty of self esteem. I'm beautiful, funny, smart, and a go getter. My life is fine just my weight isn't. I wonder if it's the same for some of the men on here too, do ladies creep as well?

    Please stop equating over weight with being desperate for attention. If you like that person just say so damn. The worst that could happen is their in a relationship, ok on to the next fish....mini rant over enjoy your Friday guys, and stay strong through the weekend.

    Well guys?

    Two words: unsolicited nudes.

    Agreed - my inbox is always open for the ladies!!
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  • djchaney73
    djchaney73 Posts: 289 Member
    if you guys looking for nudes just use google

    I would, but broke the internet when trying (it was a joke btw, my inbox is already full of them >:) ) another joke fyi
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  • KANGOOJUMPS
    KANGOOJUMPS Posts: 6,474 Member
    what do you like on your popcorn?
  • IronDogJourney
    IronDogJourney Posts: 117 Member
    I don't get creeps. I'm creep proof.
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  • cougargirl1025
    cougargirl1025 Posts: 80 Member
    Dazzler21 wrote: »
    dym1 wrote: »
    Dazzler21 wrote: »
    dym1 wrote: »
    I'm seeing a lot of victim blaming. Good thing you changed your profile, otherwise you could be accused of causing men to be creeps.

    What's the recipient of a request a victim of exactly? Other than a misunderstanding of intention from the person they are approaching.

    Just some of the responses:

    you do know a lot of guys including creeps like thick girls right? and your pp with a 2 piece on doesnt help your case j/s

    you post cleavage pics and wonder why you get creepers... really?!

    Profile pics of you in your underwear will usually do it.


    It is not the creepy guys that makes this victim blaming, its the responses basically saying, "you asked for it"

    I've gotta stop posting pics of myself in my underwear in that case... I don't want people knowing I go strapless.

    Seriously though - it's a vaguely fair point.

    This is a fitness site. Posting pictures showing physique/progress/success is a common occurance, and valuable tool for many people. Why would anyone expect it was anything else? This isn't Tinder. Has anyone been following what's going on in this country lately? Women are sick of it.
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  • februaryice
    februaryice Posts: 23 Member
    Oh my gosh! Some of these are making me laugh! I’ve only got a few creeps, nothing like that though. I’m mostly hoping to find useful people that are either encouraging or share their diaries. Especially women because we have similar calorie goals.
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