If you are having trouble losing weight still - Read

joejccva71
joejccva71 Posts: 2,985 Member
edited September 30 in Health and Weight Loss
Hello everyone.

I have been noticing alot of new threads where people are still having trouble losing weight, or they are plateau'ing, or their weight is fluctuating back and forth.

Here are a few reminders/tips to ensure that you are doing your weight loss program the correct and most efficient way so it's not frustrating for you.

1. You need to make sure that you know your TDEE (Total Daily Energy Expedenture). I cannot stress this enough. This is NUMBER ONE PRIORITY. You HAVE to know this. You HAVE to know how many calories you are burning in a 24 hour period.

2. You need to make sure that you are eating at a proper deficit underneath that TDEE number that you got from #1 above. Since there are alot of people on this forum that don't require alot of calories, simply telling you to eat a 1000 calorie deficit isn't realistic. However, 20-40% underneath your TDEE is optimal.

Ex: Let's say you TDEE is 2000 calories. (This is your BMR + your Activity level in a 24 HOUR PERIOD.) Telling you to eat 1000 calories is NOT realistic in any way shape or form. However telling you to 1200-1400 calories IS in fact realistic. (And yes the little extra calories matters.)

3. Your macros MUST be correct. Ignore anyone that tells you that hitting your macros is only for athletes and bodybuilders. No that is simply not true. I have used this term (macros) ALOT, and if you don't know what this is by now, it is your macronutrients which is your Proteins, Fats, and Carbs. Hitting your protein and fat minimums are REQUIRED. Period. You will end up plateau'ing and are weigh fluctuating if your macros aren't right. Get them correct.

Maintaining a sufficient carb count by the end of your week is neccessary for these reasons:

a. Carbs are the chief source of energy for all bodily functions and muscular exertion.
b. They are neccessary for digestion and assimilation of other foods.
c. They help regular protein and fat metabolism, and fats require carbs to be broken down in your liver.
d. They also provide some of the structural components neccessary for the growth and repair of tissue.

Now this doesn't mean that you have to eat alot of carbs everyday because Keto diets are fantastic as they barely eat any carbs for 6 days out of the week, but everyone that uses Keto PROPERLY has a 7th day REFEED day where they pump carbs back into their body. Then they start the week by little carbs again and enter ketosis again by the 2nd day.

Anyways...moving on.

4. You need to get atleast 6 hours of sleep a night. ATLEAST. Go for 7-8 if at all possible. Bodybuilders know this only too well. Bodybuilders (unless they are on drugs) will not grow at optimal performance without enough rest. Ask any serious bodybuilder about getting enough sleep at night. The same goes with people trying to maintain health and lose weight. Your body needs rest.

5. You need to drink ENOUGH water. I'm not talking about just liquids, I'm talking about straight WATER. Drink alot. Drink enough to pee clear. I'm not saying chug down 3 bottles of water in 5 minutes. Drink 1 bottle of water every 2-3 hours from the morning until you sleep.

6. You need to track every single damn calorie you put into your body. You may think I'm crazy or you may think I have no life, but I can track everything I eat in a matter of minutes, including the weekends if and when I go out. It's not difficult. If you decide you want to just have 1 spoonful of ice cream at a restaurant while your partner stuffs his face, track it. If you decide to have 1 glass of wine with lunch or dinner, track it. If you have juice, track it, Coffe with cream and sugar, track the cream and sugar you put in it. EVERYTHING. It matters. If your intake and macros are off, it WILL in fact affect your weight loss and you will fluctuate.

7. You do not have to OCD about eating SUPER DUPER clean. You just don't. Alot of people want to maintain general good health while they lose weight and that is great. But don't stress over it if you have a small bottle of chocolate milk, or eat 5 strips of bacon, or having ice cream, etc. It's fine as long as you track it and it fits within your macros.

8. You should be taking a GOOD multivitamin and fish oil. Fish oil has more "magical" properties than you think as the benefits of it are amazing. If fish oil just turns your stomach, then make sure you are getting a good amount of Omega 3's. 5-6g per day is optimal. Don't take too much of it.

9. Weigh yourself ONCE a week in the morning, on an empty stomach after you do your business. Refrain from having the urge of weighing yourself 7 times a day, and getting pissed because you gained 0.23428 ounces in the last 10 minutes and can't figure out why. ONCE A WEEK ON THE SAME DAY IN THE MORNING ON AN EMPTY STOMACH.

10. I don't have a #10 but I thought it would be cool to make a top ten rule list. So here's #10.

Edit: My #10 is YOU CAN DO THIS! There lol =)

Good luck.

Edit again: If you are SURE your following the rules above and you STILL cannot lose weight, then you should probably have your thyroid checked. Thyroid is a weight loss killer. There are some people that can still lose weight while having a Thyroid problem but there aren't many. Keto is one way to do it.
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  • 2bFitNTrim
    2bFitNTrim Posts: 1,209 Member
    bump
  • letsdothis2010
    letsdothis2010 Posts: 190 Member
    Awesome post! Thanks for sharing :) my plateau and I thank you again haha
  • laurelei09
    laurelei09 Posts: 32 Member
    Good post. :smile:
  • lindalou0703
    lindalou0703 Posts: 226 Member
    I rarely eat all of the fat allowed by this site. Are you saying that I need to meet that range they give?
  • Thanks. This was a great read!
  • Nice list and some great advice!
  • TavistockToad
    TavistockToad Posts: 35,719 Member
    Bumpy McBump!
  • Pidders89
    Pidders89 Posts: 1,169 Member
    bump
  • Pidders89
    Pidders89 Posts: 1,169 Member
    bump
  • esf215
    esf215 Posts: 6 Member
    Good Post
  • Thank you for taking the time to write this blog...good information that I needed a refresher on!
  • megan4487
    megan4487 Posts: 142 Member
    Great Tips, thanks
  • Monica_in_MO
    Monica_in_MO Posts: 162 Member
    Thanks for putting all of that great info in one place!
  • Pineapples
    Pineapples Posts: 246 Member
    This is great. thanks
  • abcerc
    abcerc Posts: 58
    bump
  • JeSuisPrest
    JeSuisPrest Posts: 2,005 Member
    Thank you!!!!
  • lcarter25
    lcarter25 Posts: 286 Member
    how do u work out your tdee
  • Thanks, that is very helpful information!
  • angdrusso
    angdrusso Posts: 42 Member
    Interesting and very informative! Thank you! Angx
  • thanks for the advice Joe, you made some very valid points...
    ...but what are Macros is it calories and what is TDEE,...and how do i calculate it
  • patriot201
    patriot201 Posts: 117 Member
    1. You need to make sure that you know your TDEE (Total Daily Energy Expedenture). I cannot stress this enough. This is NUMBER ONE PRIORITY. You HAVE to know this. You HAVE to know how many calories you are burning in a 24 hour period.

    2. You need to make sure that you are eating at a proper deficit undernreath that TDEE number that you got from #1 above. Since there are alot of people on this forum that don't require alot of calories, simply telling you to eat a 1000 calorie deficit isn't realistic. However, 20-40% underneath your TDEE is optimal.

    Ex: Let's say you TDEE is 2000 calories. (This is your BMR + your Activity level in a 24 HOUR PERIOD.) Telling you to eat 1000 calories is NOT realistic in any way shape or form. However telling you to 1200-1400 calories IS in fact realistic. (And yes the little extra calories matters.)

    This is where I get confused with my own body.

    My BMR is apparently 1350/day and when I add in my activity, I apparently burn 1856-1903 calories/day.
    HOWEVER, if I eat more than 1200 calories/day, even with moderate exercise, I gain HUGE amounts of weight. My nutritionist has even been shocked by this fact. She said she has never seen someone gain so much weight on such a low-calorie diet.

    My weight is all over the map. In the past four years, I have swung from 150 to 103, to 125, to 140, to 130, and so on.

    I am a vegetarian and don't eat many, if any, "junk foods."

    I don't get it.
  • demery12371
    demery12371 Posts: 253 Member
    10. I don't have a #10 but I thought it would be cool to make a top ten rule list. So here's #10.

    Good luck.
    [/quote]

    Your #10 should be YOU CAN DO THIS!!! :)

    Thank you for this list... :) It helps to see it in print sometimes even when you know what your doing and how to do it ;)
    Have a wonderful day!
  • russellma
    russellma Posts: 284 Member
    Great post! Thanks!
  • This should be stickied.
  • joejccva71
    joejccva71 Posts: 2,985 Member
    how do u work out your tdee

    Different ways.

    1. Find out your BMR from the online calculators that are available. They aren't 100% accurate unless you use one of the great proven and accurate formulas but you need to know your bodyfat% first so you can get your lean body mass calculation. Then you calculate your activity level. (I don't really recommend this way)

    2. Eat normal for 2-4 weeks, track everything and see if you lose/gain weight each week. After the 3rd or 4th week if your weight stays the same then you know your TDEE (maintenance). I recommend this way.

    3. Spend the money and buy a Bodybugg or Bodymedia FIT. They aren't 100% but they are pretty accurate and it's alot easier.
  • gentlebreeze2
    gentlebreeze2 Posts: 450 Member
    Thanks for the info! As I approach one year on mfp... it is a good refresher.
  • Kelly_Wilson1990
    Kelly_Wilson1990 Posts: 3,245 Member
    Great advice!!
  • Great post, thank you!
  • AmerTunsi
    AmerTunsi Posts: 655 Member
    Thanks for the post!
  • martinh78
    martinh78 Posts: 601
    Good post thanks.

    I am interested to know a bit more regarding fats. I understand enough about protein (I think) but am interested to learn more about hitting fat goals. I'm always over mine, because I think 16 is too low a figure, but I don't want to up it without understanding the relationship of this macronutrient with protein for example.

    Might be off topic for this thread? Or any good links to explain it would be appreciated.

    Thanks, Martin
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