What is attractive?

I don't think it's that simple. Everyone is attracted to what or who they're attracted to. My boyfriend thinks the women in the magazines are too skinny. And after all the years we've been together, I'm pretty confident he's not just saying that. He's also not the only man I've heard say that.

On the other hand, there are men who really like super skinny.

Some men like large breasts, some small. Some like a nice leg, some a big rear end, some a small rear end.

There is no "most" in this question.

I also find that people fall in love with someone and then the things about the person they love become what is attractive in their eyes, even if they wouldn't have found those things attractive before, if that makes sense.

Well said

confidence, but not arrogance. :bigsmile:

So true! Those seem kind of rare though!

I'm drawn to rugged intelligent men with good manners and a sense of humour..... I think pretty boys are a bit shallow.

simply saying "I will do anything you want.. and btw.. afterward i will make you a pizza..."


That does it for me.. but then again.. i am fat... so dont believe me... anything with food and sex is a good day for me..

^Lmao, but sooo true.

I like different people for different reasons, I may lust after a man with tattoos & a bad boy attitude, but I'm more likely to fall in love with a silly, carefree, makes a fool out of himself because he'd rather do that than conform to the norm type of guy that makes me laugh & is just plain adorable. With a bit of a dirty naughty sexual side that makes raunchy comments at unexpected times that really get my hormones in gear if ya catch my drift

for a second i thought you were talking about me.. but since there is no comment about huge hairy man boobs... i decided it wasnt.... sad..

I also find that people fall in love with someone and then the things about the person they love become what is attractive in their eyes, even if they wouldn't have found those things attractive before, if that makes sense.

I completely agree with this

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I love a man with a great sense of humor, someone that can make me laugh, someone who is smart, witty romantic and a manly man. Someone who can fix things when needed and not call a repair man ! I dont want them too thin I like my men with some meat on them , Someone who looks super sexy dressed up but oh so manly dressed down ! someone who doesnt mind me watching football with them and at the same time doesnt mind watching a chick flick with me ! OH AND HE MUST wear cologne...OOOOOH how I love a man that smells good !

I never did say what attracts me! lol

I don't really know, physically. If you look at the men I've dated, they all look very different. I like military men A.LOT. But not every guy I've been attracted to has been military or had the look, so ...

Definitely intelligence and a sense of humor are very important. And sometimes, you just have chemistry with someone. You meet that person and you just can't get enough of each other. I like a sense of adventure and a willingness to try new things at least once before deciding you don't like it.

And, as others have said, MANLY men are most attractive to me. I can't see myself ever even going on a single date with a metrosexual. If you're a guy and you ever wear pink or lavendar, don't even bother. :-)

Bit of a random question but what does everyone find attractive/sexy? Men and women.

But I am curious as to what most men find attractive...? With the influence of mags, movies, porn, music vids, it is quite confusing to know what men really like?

So many diff things. I truly and honestly think there is somethign gorgeous & attractive about everyone. Be it the way the smile, tghere eyes, there laugh, etc. Beauty is in all of us.

This is awesome! ! ! You are truly a great man :-)

Someone who is funny, can hold a decent conversation and has a nice smile and eyes.

I quite like to be put in my place too lol so someone who doesn't sugar coat things is always a bonus.