Doing too much at the gym?

lyzastra
lyzastra Posts: 13 Member
So I'm looking to gain weight and muscle. Im 7 stone 11 and looking to get the 9. I've always had a problem with gaining weight and increasing my calories... Busy lifestyle, family etc. But now I've been using the my fitness app I am getting a bit obsessed with my macros and ensuring I consume enough each day.. Already today I have consumed a healthy 1500 calories. However I am going to the gym 3 times a week and heavy lifting...but I'm finding the day after and 2nd day the DOMS are actually excruciating! Whilst I'm at the gym I don't feel too bad and not completely worn out, but the day after (like today) I can barely lift my little girl and all I want to do is sleep! I'm eating properly and taking nutrients..and feel so deflated that I am doing something wrong.
Can anyone give me a bit of advice please.

Thank you x
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  • andreaen
    andreaen Posts: 365 Member
    A few questions:
    What does your lifting program look like?
    And how long have you been doing it/what have you been doing before?
    Are you having strength progress in the gym?
    How many calories are you consuming daily and what are your macros like?
  • Katiebear_81
    Katiebear_81 Posts: 719 Member
    Also: How much per night are you sleeping?
  • lyzastra
    lyzastra Posts: 13 Member
    Between 5-7 hours. I know I'm probably going to be burnt at the stake for that. But with a little one it's hard to get a complete night's sleep. Could it be lack of recovery time I. E. Sleep?
  • lyzastra
    lyzastra Posts: 13 Member
    andreaen wrote: »
    A few questions:
    What does your lifting program look like?
    And how long have you been doing it/what have you been doing before?
    Are you having strength progress in the gym?
    How many calories are you consuming daily and what are your macros like?

    Lifting 2 /3 times a week for 30-45 mins. Been a month since I started but I've done bodybuilding on and off for about 5 years.
    I am having strength process and I am trying to consume between 2000-2500 calls a day. 50% carbs, 25% fat and 25% protein. I've looked a tad macro calculators and that's what it's telling me to consume with my weight goal. X
  • Katiebear_81
    Katiebear_81 Posts: 719 Member
    Personally, I don't get a lot of DOMS, but I do the intra-workout thing with BCAA's. I don't know if that contributes.

    Not sure how old your kids are, but could you sneak in a nap? I feel awful when I'm lifting heavy and not sleeping enough.
  • lyzastra
    lyzastra Posts: 13 Member
    She's three so at an age where she isn't napping a lot through the day she's a great sleeper at night so I think earlier nights are a must if this is what I'm going to feel like with less sleep!
  • sardelsa
    sardelsa Posts: 9,812 Member
    Are you following a specific lifting program? Or are you doing it on your own?
  • DomesticKat
    DomesticKat Posts: 565 Member
    I can't speak for you personally but my workout recovery is absolute garbage when I don't get enough sleep. I have five kids, and my 11 month old and 4 year old like to tag team at night. I also have insomnia that wakes me up in the middle of the night. I definitely recommend getting to bed earlier if you can. It makes a big difference for me.
  • jessef593
    jessef593 Posts: 2,272 Member
    How much water? And are you just doing whatever in the gym or an actual lifting program?
  • lyzastra
    lyzastra Posts: 13 Member
    sardelsa wrote: »
    Are you following a specific lifting program? Or are you doing it on your own?

    Not a specific one, I'm going to the gym with my husband or on my own
  • lyzastra
    lyzastra Posts: 13 Member
    jessef593 wrote: »
    How much water? And are you just doing whatever in the gym or an actual lifting program?

    Lots and lots of water! I do legs one day, back and shoulders and abs other days. I am just getting back into it
  • lyzastra
    lyzastra Posts: 13 Member
    I can't speak for you personally but my workout recovery is absolute garbage when I don't get enough sleep. I have five kids, and my 11 month old and 4 year old like to tag team at night. I also have insomnia that wakes me up in the middle of the night. I definitely recommend getting to bed earlier if you can. It makes a big difference for me.

    Thank you, I am also a sufferer of insomnia and find some nights I spend hours staring at the ceiling... I thought getting back in the gym would help that but I find it can get worse
  • djeffreys10
    djeffreys10 Posts: 2,312 Member
    lyzastra wrote: »
    I can't speak for you personally but my workout recovery is absolute garbage when I don't get enough sleep. I have five kids, and my 11 month old and 4 year old like to tag team at night. I also have insomnia that wakes me up in the middle of the night. I definitely recommend getting to bed earlier if you can. It makes a big difference for me.

    Thank you, I am also a sufferer of insomnia and find some nights I spend hours staring at the ceiling... I thought getting back in the gym would help that but I find it can get worse

    Melatonin is a natural sleep aide and works really well for me. I take 10-15 mg a lot of nights.
  • mom23mangos
    mom23mangos Posts: 3,069 Member
    I think you've already hit the nail on the head. SLEEP! You needs lots and lots of sleep with heavy lifting I've found. Although some of it is just getting back in the game as well. In another few weeks I'm sure you won't be as sore. Also, are you only hitting each muscle group once a week? You might need a bit more frequency to avoid getting as sore.
  • Katiebear_81
    Katiebear_81 Posts: 719 Member
    I think that if you started working a specific lifting program, your muscles will start to "know" what to expect, and your DOMS will decrease (maybe? YMMV).

    But yeah - sleep. Sleep as much as you can!
  • lyzastra
    lyzastra Posts: 13 Member
    I think that if you started working a specific lifting program, your muscles will start to "know" what to expect, and your DOMS will decrease (maybe? YMMV).

    But yeah - sleep. Sleep as much as you can!

    Sorry to sound ridiculous but what is YMMV?
  • psychod787
    psychod787 Posts: 4,099 Member
    I very rarely suggest any supplements as most are a waste of money. But I have actually found that a BCAA supplement (I prefer to drink it intra workout) does cut down a bit on the length of time I stay sore.

    The only other supplement I can think of would be creatine.
  • Katiebear_81
    Katiebear_81 Posts: 719 Member
    Your mileage may vary. So that was my experience once I switched to Strong Lifts (and now run a powerlifting program from my coach), but you may not have the same results as me. :)
  • lyzastra
    lyzastra Posts: 13 Member
    psychod787 wrote: »
    I very rarely suggest any supplements as most are a waste of money. But I have actually found that a BCAA supplement (I prefer to drink it intra workout) does cut down a bit on the length of time I stay sore.

    The only other supplement I can think of would be creatine.

    Already taking creatine. 3 before and 3 after workout
  • psychod787
    psychod787 Posts: 4,099 Member
    lyzastra wrote: »
    psychod787 wrote: »
    I very rarely suggest any supplements as most are a waste of money. But I have actually found that a BCAA supplement (I prefer to drink it intra workout) does cut down a bit on the length of time I stay sore.

    The only other supplement I can think of would be creatine.

    Already taking creatine. 3 before and 3 after workout

    Are you loading or at maintenance?
  • lyzastra
    lyzastra Posts: 13 Member
    jessef593 wrote: »
    lyzastra wrote: »
    jessef593 wrote: »
    How much water? And are you just doing whatever in the gym or an actual lifting program?

    Lots and lots of water! I do legs one day, back and shoulders and abs other days. I am just getting back into it

    What about your anterior side? No wonder you're sore. You're just getting back onto it. Do us all a favour. Do a real program. Give that 2-3 months and then come back if you have questions

    Wow...thankyou for making me feel so welcome to the forum.
  • lyzastra
    lyzastra Posts: 13 Member
    psuLemon wrote: »
    So it could be that your body struggles to recovery with the loads that you are trying to do, or your program is inadequate. Why not get on a structured program to see if it's a programming issue. For me, I can't do 3x full body routines, because no matter how I time nutrients or consume quality calories, my body just doesn't allow. What I found to be better was to get on an upper/lower split.

    http://community.myfitnesspal.com/en/discussion/10332083/which-lifting-program-is-the-best-for-you/p1

    Thank you. I'll take a look.
  • lyzastra
    lyzastra Posts: 13 Member
    jessef593 wrote: »
    lyzastra wrote: »
    jessef593 wrote: »
    lyzastra wrote: »
    jessef593 wrote: »
    How much water? And are you just doing whatever in the gym or an actual lifting program?

    Lots and lots of water! I do legs one day, back and shoulders and abs other days. I am just getting back into it

    What about your anterior side? No wonder you're sore. You're just getting back onto it. Do us all a favour. Do a real program. Give that 2-3 months and then come back if you have questions

    Wow...thankyou for making me feel so welcome to the forum.

    Aha don't get all uptight. That's a real piece of advice. You shouldn't waste your time on some random thing you made. You wouldn't fix something you know nothing about. So why would you make a program with no knowledge of progression schemes and structure?

    You are 100% welcome on these. But what I'm saying is put your time into something worthwhile that was made to reach a goal. Why do you Think so many people asked if you were on a real program?

    My post was asking advice on why I could be feeling fatigued when I feel I am doing everything right when I've finished in the gym. I had a PT two years ago who put me on a program and after I would train I still felt as bad as I did when I wasn't on a program. If a program is something I need to go on to ensure I don't suffer DOMS as badly then that's what I'll do...thats why I am here. I'm not here to annoy anyone by asking stupid questions.
  • Katiebear_81
    Katiebear_81 Posts: 719 Member
    Some people are just more susceptible to DOMS. But I would still try a "tried and true" program for a few months and see if it eases or not. :)
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