Buttomless pit days

oat_bran
oat_bran Posts: 370 Member
edited June 2018 in Health and Weight Loss
Basically I just want to know if anyone here experiences this and know what I'm talking about.

Every few weeks I get a few days (2-4 days or so) that I call bottomless pit days. I feel "ravenous" almost non stop. I put it in quotes because it feels a lot like hunger, but at the same time it can't be true hunger. I don't feel 100% satiated after even a big meal and my stomach starts to growl and contract an hour after eating and I get this spasm-like (almost painful) sensation (I think this is what people refer to as hunger pains) as if I haven't eaten for many hours. Except that I have just eaten! In fact I may still feel food in my stomach and YET, I still feel as I haven't eaten in hours. Even if logically, I realize that it's not true hunger, instinctively it produces a very powerful and almost constant drive to eat. All I think all day is food.

But the thing is, It doesn't matter how many calories I eat (or have eaten the previous days), how much I eat in terms of volume, how many carbs/fat/protein/fiber I eat. In fact I may eat non-stop all day and overshoot my TDEE by a thousand and this sensation will be still there. In fact I realised it can't be true hunger after eating at maintenance (and over occasionally) for several months. This is why I'm convinced that it's not true hunger. After a few days, it just goes away and I'm back to normal: I am satisfied with my meals and last several hours without food easily.

I'm not sure if there's a clear patterns in terms of how often I get these days, I'm only just now starting to track it. But it appears that I get them every 2-3 weeks. I suspect that it might be something hormonal. Though I'm not sure how sex hormones can be the culprit since I'm taking an oral contraceptive that has the same dose or hormones each day and I skip the inactive pills so I'm not supposed to have a natural cycle and my estrogen and progesteron levels are supposed to be stable. Also, the particular brand I'm taking is particularly prescribed against PMS.

Does anyone has an idea of what I'm talking about? Or what it could be? It's driving me crazy. "Powering through it" or "distracting myself" doesn't work. I find it almost impossible to not eat all day long and ruin all of my progress. Nothing seems to help for long. Drinking water helps for like 20-30 mins, than it's back. Munching on low-cal stuff feels the same as eating nothing. I have to spend all my energy on resisting the urge to eat. I can't concentrate on anything for long. Willpower is a limited resource so after a while I have no energy left to resist. Especially when I wake up at night feeling like I'm starving and I am barely awake/conscious and almost instinctively eat hundreds of calories. If it was just about a day, maybe I could power through it by concentrating all of my energy on it. But 3-4 days?
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  • RachelElser
    RachelElser Posts: 1,049 Member
    did you just start? How long has this been happening. I think something similar to me happened when I first started, and if I fall off the wagon it happens when I start again, I'd be used to eating fried food and take out and when I stopped and started eating at home I felt hungry even after I just finished dinner!
    What low cal stuff are you eating? I found that if I had veggies on hand (carrots and broccoli) to munch on it would help.
    Also, it stopped like 2 weeks in once my body adjusted.
  • Fflpnari
    Fflpnari Posts: 975 Member
    I go through the exact same thing. Im not over restricting food, eating enough calories and eating what fits in my macros (i make chocolate ice cream fit!)
    I dont have any answers or ideas to improve this, hoping others will be able to help
  • oat_bran
    oat_bran Posts: 370 Member
    did you just start? How long has this been happening. I think something similar to me happened when I first started, and if I fall off the wagon it happens when I start again, I'd be used to eating fried food and take out and when I stopped and started eating at home I felt hungry even after I just finished dinner!
    What low cal stuff are you eating? I found that if I had veggies on hand (carrots and broccoli) to munch on it would help.
    Also, it stopped like 2 weeks in once my body adjusted.

    I've been dieting on and off for many years, so I'm not new to this. Though I don't think I had these days until about 2-3 years ago, but I'm not sure when it started exactly. I like healthy whole home-cooked foods and I'm eating quite healthy even when I'm not trying to restrict my calories intentionally. Veggies is exactly the kind of food that I was talking about. But really like I said, it doesn't really matter what or how much I'm eating - this sensation is almost always there. A big meal would dull it, but only for an hour or so. Snacks don't do much.
  • ipmac22
    ipmac22 Posts: 74 Member
    Any time I experience this, I realize I'm within a few days of my TOM. I think many women experience this, at least many of the women I've spoken to. I've even said things before like "I don't know what's going on with me, I'm so hungry even though I've eaten plenty" and the responding question is usually "Are you getting your period?". Good luck!
  • COGypsy
    COGypsy Posts: 1,354 Member
    I have those days too--even now that I'm on my 3rd hormonal IUD AND continuous dosage birth control pills! It doesn't happen every month, maybe every 6 months or so. I find that basically out of nowhere, I have a couple of days where I must have ALL the food, ALL the time and then a day where I'm exhausted and can hardly keep my head up. Just like all those years ago when I had monthly cycles. I know it technically shouldn't happen, but somehow it does!
  • Crafty_camper123
    Crafty_camper123 Posts: 1,440 Member
    Do you have days where you're appetite is lower? I have this happen as well. Days where I can't seem to get enough to eat, but I also have days where' I'm just not that hungry. So on days where I'm super ravenous I just feed the beast. This happens whether I'm restricting calories or not. On days like that I could eat a HUGE pile of veggies till I feel stuffed only for it to just "disappear" a few minutes later. I try to employ certain strategies to keep me from going too overboard. Making sure I have enough protein and fat on those days, making sure I'm hydrated, and chewing lots and lots of gum. Sometimes it works, sometimes I just say "screw it" and I'm over my maintenance for the day by 1000+ calories. If it's just a couple days every few weeks, I wouldn't worry about it too much. A few days shouldn't mess up your weight loss too bad. It may just be a little slower then you'd like. I say eat, but try to moderate as best as you can. Maybe track what your macros were the week or a day prior to these hungry spells? There could be something you're lacking that's causing the hunger to go out of whack. Also you mentioned you're on birth control. Even though it levels out you're hormones for the most part, it may not be getting everything. Your body may still be producing it's own hormones that could be causing it. See if it follows a pattern. I've been on birth controls where PMS symptoms still managed to come through. I would turn into a carb hungry ragey cry baby the week before my placebo pills like clock work. I'm on a different one now where this doesn't seem to happen to me anymore.
  • oat_bran
    oat_bran Posts: 370 Member
    edited June 2018
    Hey Oatbran!
    I can't tell from your name or pic if youre someone who would menstrate or not, but I feel this way a few days a months as a result of my natural hormone fluctuation - typically occurring for two-three day before my period starts.
    ipmac22 wrote: »
    Any time I experience this, I realize I'm within a few days of my TOM. I think many women experience this, at least many of the women I've spoken to. I've even said things before like "I don't know what's going on with me, I'm so hungry even though I've eaten plenty" and the responding question is usually "Are you getting your period?". Good luck!

    Yes, that's what I thought, too, at first. But like I said, it doesn't make much sense since I don't really have a natural cycle since I'm on stable dose of hormonal contraceptives. I don't even take inactive pills so the dose of hormones I'm receiving every single day is exactly the same. And even if I would count an end of a pack of my oral contraceptives as the end of my "cycle" (which doesn't make sense since I go straight to the next active pill, like I said), even then these days don't correspond to any particular part of my "cycle".
  • z4oslo
    z4oslo Posts: 229 Member
    It will most likely come down to hormone inbalance and/or bacteria imbalance.
    Your stomach may produce too much of the hormone Ghrelin.

    you can read more about it here
    https://www.sciencelearn.org.nz/resources/1836-hormonal-control-of-digestion

    If I may come with one tip: If youre a fast eater (or even a normal eater) slow down your eating speed, chew every bite you take. This may help with your problem.

    Try it, it costs you nothing but a little more time when eating.
  • ipmac22
    ipmac22 Posts: 74 Member
    edited June 2018
    ipmac22 wrote: »
    Any time I experience this, I realize I'm within a few days of my TOM. I think many women experience this, at least many of the women I've spoken to. I've even said things before like "I don't know what's going on with me, I'm so hungry even though I've eaten plenty" and the responding question is usually "Are you getting your period?". Good luck!

    Yes, that's what I thought, too, at first. But like I said, it doesn't make much sense since I don't really have a natural cycle since I'm on stable dose of hormonal contraceptives. I don't even take inactive pills so the dose of hormones I'm receiving every single day is exactly the same. And even if I would count an end of a pack of my oral contraceptives as the end of my "cycle" (which doesn't make sense since I go straight to the next active pill, like I said), even then these days don't correspond to any particular part of my "cycle".


    I am too. But I still experience it.
  • Francl27
    Francl27 Posts: 26,371 Member
    Yep, hormones. I had that even on the pill too. It's enough to undo all my monthly progress unfortunately (small deficit) because I'm just too hungry to function (only carbs seem to make me feel better).

    It just really sucks.
  • kshama2001
    kshama2001 Posts: 28,052 Member
    oat_bran wrote: »
    Hey Oatbran!
    I can't tell from your name or pic if youre someone who would menstrate or not, but I feel this way a few days a months as a result of my natural hormone fluctuation - typically occurring for two-three day before my period starts.
    ipmac22 wrote: »
    Any time I experience this, I realize I'm within a few days of my TOM. I think many women experience this, at least many of the women I've spoken to. I've even said things before like "I don't know what's going on with me, I'm so hungry even though I've eaten plenty" and the responding question is usually "Are you getting your period?". Good luck!

    Yes, that's what I thought, too, at first. But like I said, it doesn't make much sense since I don't really have a natural cycle since I'm on stable dose of hormonal contraceptives. I don't even take inactive pills so the dose of hormones I'm receiving every single day is exactly the same. And even if I would count an end of a pack of my oral contraceptives as the end of my "cycle" (which doesn't make sense since I go straight to the next active pill, like I said), even then these days don't correspond to any particular part of my "cycle".

    If not for the BC, the timing makes it sound like it's related to your cycle.

    I used to take Prometrium, a natural progesterone, for something else and my appetite still went up at ovulation and premenstrually. I don't have enough info about BC to speak knowledgeably about this.

    The other thing that occurred to me is maybe your weekly weight loss goal is too aggressive. How much do you want to lose and what weekly weight loss goal did you choose?
  • mbaker566
    mbaker566 Posts: 11,233 Member
    even with contraceptives you still have ups and downs of hormones.
    i get pms hunger and ovulation hunger. neverending eat boxes of donuts or whole pizza hungers-i don't but i feel like i could
  • oat_bran
    oat_bran Posts: 370 Member
    edited June 2018
    COGypsy wrote: »
    I have those days too--even now that I'm on my 3rd hormonal IUD AND continuous dosage birth control pills! It doesn't happen every month, maybe every 6 months or so. I find that basically out of nowhere, I have a couple of days where I must have ALL the food, ALL the time and then a day where I'm exhausted and can hardly keep my head up. Just like all those years ago when I had monthly cycles. I know it technically shouldn't happen, but somehow it does!
    ipmac22 wrote: »
    I am too. But I still experience it.
    kshama2001 wrote: »
    If not for the BC, the timing makes it sound like it's related to your cycle.

    I used to take Prometrium, a natural progesterone, for something else and my appetite still went up at ovulation and premenstrually. I don't have enough info about BC to speak knowledgeably about this.

    The other thing that occurred to me is maybe your weekly weight loss goal is too aggressive. How much do you want to lose and what weekly weight loss goal did you choose?
    Francl27 wrote: »
    Yep, hormones. I had that even on the pill too. It's enough to undo all my monthly progress unfortunately (small deficit) because I'm just too hungry to function (only carbs seem to make me feel better).

    It just really sucks.
    Do you have days where you're appetite is lower? I have this happen as well. Days where I can't seem to get enough to eat, but I also have days where' I'm just not that hungry. So on days where I'm super ravenous I just feed the beast. This happens whether I'm restricting calories or not. On days like that I could eat a HUGE pile of veggies till I feel stuffed only for it to just "disappear" a few minutes later. I try to employ certain strategies to keep me from going too overboard. Making sure I have enough protein and fat on those days, making sure I'm hydrated, and chewing lots and lots of gum. Sometimes it works, sometimes I just say "screw it" and I'm over my maintenance for the day by 1000+ calories. If it's just a couple days every few weeks, I wouldn't worry about it too much. A few days shouldn't mess up your weight loss too bad. It may just be a little slower then you'd like. I say eat, but try to moderate as best as you can. Maybe track what your macros were the week or a day prior to these hungry spells? There could be something you're lacking that's causing the hunger to go out of whack. Also you mentioned you're on birth control. Even though it levels out you're hormones for the most part, it may not be getting everything. Your body may still be producing it's own hormones that could be causing it. See if it follows a pattern. I've been on birth controls where PMS symptoms still managed to come through. I would turn into a carb hungry ragey cry baby the week before my placebo pills like clock work. I'm on a different one now where this doesn't seem to happen to me anymore.

    Ugh, I was suspecting that I may still experience hormonal fluctuations even on BC but thought that it wasn't logical. Seems like it may be actually the cause. If it's that, it's good to know the cause. But it still sucks to not be able to do anything about it.

    I'm in an upper normal - lower overweight weight range and currently try to maintain a small deficit (I'm very active - so I get to eat a lot!). It seems like anything more than 300-400 cals a day leads to me being to hungry after a while - this time it's true hunger though. But the downside is that a couple of days of overeating by 1000+ calories and all of my progress is ruined. If it weren't for these ravenous days I probably would have reached my goal a long time ago.

  • mkculs
    mkculs Posts: 316 Member
    Are you exercising? Is there anything in your exercise routine that could be triggering the extra hunger?

    And if water helps, drink more, and experiment to see if you can find a ratio that works to buy you time between scheduled meals/snacks. I find that drinking water all at once--16 oz or so--buys me a lot of time before hunger starts up again. Maybe it won't work for you but it could be worth trying.
  • oat_bran
    oat_bran Posts: 370 Member
    mkculs wrote: »
    Are you exercising? Is there anything in your exercise routine that could be triggering the extra hunger?

    And if water helps, drink more, and experiment to see if you can find a ratio that works to buy you time between scheduled meals/snacks. I find that drinking water all at once--16 oz or so--buys me a lot of time before hunger starts up again. Maybe it won't work for you but it could be worth trying.

    Thank you for your reply ! I am very active due to my jobs and exercise on less active days. Exercise does tend to make me hungrier, but it's leads to a increase in regular (true) hunger, not the bottomless pit kind I was talking about. I didn't notice any correlation between my exercise levels/routine and these days I am referring to.

    Drinking a lot of water (I usually go for 16oz as well) does help - on regular days. On bottomless pit days, 20 mins later and I am starving again. Thanks for your advice anyway, I appreciate it!
  • timeforwork
    timeforwork Posts: 114 Member
    Same issue for me, snacking and eating doesn't help at all so I just eat as normal and struggle through the feeling. I have found a regular patten for mine so I ensure I have only got my least favourite foods around and the fridge/ cupboard is almost empty then when I'm sorted again I go shopping! Helps keep temptation out of the way!
  • Deviette
    Deviette Posts: 978 Member
    O yes. I know this feeling. I normally get it for about a day a month, but sometimes it's worse, sometimes better. It is the reason that sometimes I'll finish the day upwards of 1500kcal over, feeling sick because I'm overfull, and yet I still want to continue eating.

    I've always put it down to hormones.

    I normally cope by munching on a whole iceberg lettuce until it's time to eat properly. It doesn't stay it on bad days, but on most days it keeps me distracted long enough until the next meal.
  • buffinlovin
    buffinlovin Posts: 100 Member
    I actually just had this happen recently...I felt like I was craving something specific but I didn't know what it was, and I wanted to eat everything I could to see if it would satisfy that craving.

    I found that tea with honey helped me, instead of sugar or sweetener. I'm not opposed to sugar or sweetener, in fact I use both regularly, but on days where I have a constant grumbly tummy the honey seems more satisfying.

    Another thing that helped was finding something time consuming to eat (I think another comment mentions it also). I like to get the steamfresh edamame in the pod, toss in a little kosher salt, and eat it after I open each pod (my mom likes to open all the pods first into a bowl then sit down and eat, but I found I can eat a lot very quickly, defeating the purpose). I've also carefully portioned pistachios in the shell, so I have to work on opening the shell to get the nut out (same with walnuts/almonds in the shell).
  • Mouse_Potato
    Mouse_Potato Posts: 1,512 Member
    This happens to me as well, but it seems to be on a 6-8 week cycle. The hunger is so intense and so strange. It even seems to get worse after I eat a meal sometimes! I suspect maybe my body is craving some specific nutrient, but I haven't been able to pinpoint it yet. Drinking water or eating lots of veggies just results in me having a bloated tummy that still demands to be fed. Every once in a while I seem to hit upon whatever it is my body wants and then it gets quiet again. Sadly, this is usually something from the vending machine at work!
  • Amerane
    Amerane Posts: 136 Member
    Happens to me too, seemingly at random (am on hormonal BC). I've had luck combating the bottomless pit feeling by eating a large, high-fat/high-protein lunch with some simple carbs. So I'll get some fried chicken and french fries or a burger and just go to town, maybe adding a milkshake or some other high-calorie dessert. Often the calorie count is around 1100-1800 total. Afterwords, I finally feel satisfied and often don't eat much more than a salad or a small sandwich and some fruit for dinner, and I don't tend to feel as hungry in the following days. I make up for the extra calories by making sure to get in extra steps/workouts afterwords when I no longer feel ravenous.
  • amusedmonkey
    amusedmonkey Posts: 10,330 Member
    Amerane wrote: »
    Happens to me too, seemingly at random (am on hormonal BC). I've had luck combating the bottomless pit feeling by eating a large, high-fat/high-protein lunch with some simple carbs. So I'll get some fried chicken and french fries or a burger and just go to town, maybe adding a milkshake or some other high-calorie dessert. Often the calorie count is around 1100-1800 total. Afterwords, I finally feel satisfied and often don't eat much more than a salad or a small sandwich and some fruit for dinner, and I don't tend to feel as hungry in the following days. I make up for the extra calories by making sure to get in extra steps/workouts afterwords when I no longer feel ravenous.

    Interesting you would mention burger and fries. It's also one of my go-to meals when I'm very hungry. I don't do salad for dinner, but I do fare better when I have a typical 1000+ calorie lunch that is high in carbs. Since I give myself extra calories, like I said earlier, my allowance tends to be close to 3000 calories so I can afford a burger meal without having to be frugal with my other meals.
  • awesomek001
    awesomek001 Posts: 167 Member
    Don't be so quick to put this back on hormones - as crazy as those are, they aren't the root of every problem!

    I encounter this too - altho I'm not sure I would use the word "cycle" to describe it. I have been tracking different types of foods that I've been eating, and I've actually found that mine is triggered rather than cyclic. For me, it seems to last until I cut refined sugar out of breakfast and morning snack. As soon as I forget and grab a cookie or donut at coffee time (and who doesn't have those in the office!) the feeling comes back. I can eat until I feel like I"m going to throw up :s
  • kshama2001
    kshama2001 Posts: 28,052 Member
    Don't be so quick to put this back on hormones - as crazy as those are, they aren't the root of every problem!

    I encounter this too - altho I'm not sure I would use the word "cycle" to describe it. I have been tracking different types of foods that I've been eating, and I've actually found that mine is triggered rather than cyclic. For me, it seems to last until I cut refined sugar out of breakfast and morning snack. As soon as I forget and grab a cookie or donut at coffee time (and who doesn't have those in the office!) the feeling comes back. I can eat until I feel like I"m going to throw up :s

    Yes, this does happen to me too when I am high on carbs (and fat) and low on protein.

    OP you did say that macros don't matter, but perhaps you should look at exactly how much protein you are having? For example, you may think you are good with 20% protein, but perhaps your actual sweet spot is 30%.
  • oat_bran
    oat_bran Posts: 370 Member
    I pretty much gave up battling these days. I get them around ovulation and before period. I call it hormonal hunger. I just eat slightly less the rest of the month to make up for these days and usually have my calories planned monthly not weekly for this reason. I give myself 1000 extra calories on these days, and even that doesn't feel like enough sometimes because of that drive to eat.

    I have noticed that I do better with several meals a day on those days, as often as every 2 hours. It doesn't always work, but it works better on average than my usual meal schedule of spontaneous IF, which oddly enough keeps me full better on non-hormonal days. If I don't allow myself to get to the point of hunger (however slight), I tend to have less of it. Even slightest bit of hunger at the beginning of these days can snowball into a vicious cycle. Actually, I find eating more frequent meals in the second half of my cycle overall better for my satiety (3-5 vs 1-3), not just the bottomless pit days. During the first half of my cycle, spacing meals out and skipping works better for me where I'm generally less hungry, and when hunger happens, it's just something I can easily ignore in favor of larger satisfying meals sometimes.

    Thank you! These are all very helpful tips. Monthly calorie planning sounds like an interesting idea! I'm going to see if I can do the same. It should be definitely less scary to overeat by a 1000cals if I know that I don't have to make up for all of it the same week!

    Yeah, I think I need to experiment more with different eating schedules for these days. I am too attached psychologically to my habits. I'm so used to eat 4 400-500 meals every four hours or so. Generally I'm not satisfied with smaller meals. But maybe eating smaller meals is a way to go for these days? Or I may try what another person has suggested and try having a huge lunch and see if it manages to hit the spot and keep me full longer. I'll experiment more. I mean, I'm pretty sure I will still feel hungry but maybe it'll make things more tolerable.
  • oat_bran
    oat_bran Posts: 370 Member
    edited June 2018
    deviette wrote: »
    O yes. I know this feeling. I normally get it for about a day a month, but sometimes it's worse, sometimes better. It is the reason that sometimes I'll finish the day upwards of 1500kcal over, feeling sick because I'm overfull, and yet I still want to continue eating.

    I've always put it down to hormones.

    I normally cope by munching on a whole iceberg lettuce until it's time to eat properly. It doesn't stay it on bad days, but on most days it keeps me distracted long enough until the next meal.
    I actually just had this happen recently...I felt like I was craving something specific but I didn't know what it was, and I wanted to eat everything I could to see if it would satisfy that craving.

    I found that tea with honey helped me, instead of sugar or sweetener. I'm not opposed to sugar or sweetener, in fact I use both regularly, but on days where I have a constant grumbly tummy the honey seems more satisfying.

    Another thing that helped was finding something time consuming to eat (I think another comment mentions it also). I like to get the steamfresh edamame in the pod, toss in a little kosher salt, and eat it after I open each pod (my mom likes to open all the pods first into a bowl then sit down and eat, but I found I can eat a lot very quickly, defeating the purpose). I've also carefully portioned pistachios in the shell, so I have to work on opening the shell to get the nut out (same with walnuts/almonds in the shell).

    Thanks for the tips! I especially like the iceberg lettuce idea. I mean, I'm sure it'll do nothing for the "hunger", but keeping my mouth and hands occupied may help to distract myself for a while. And it's so little on calories that it's ok.
  • amusedmonkey
    amusedmonkey Posts: 10,330 Member
    oat_bran wrote: »
    deviette wrote: »
    O yes. I know this feeling. I normally get it for about a day a month, but sometimes it's worse, sometimes better. It is the reason that sometimes I'll finish the day upwards of 1500kcal over, feeling sick because I'm overfull, and yet I still want to continue eating.

    I've always put it down to hormones.

    I normally cope by munching on a whole iceberg lettuce until it's time to eat properly. It doesn't stay it on bad days, but on most days it keeps me distracted long enough until the next meal.
    I actually just had this happen recently...I felt like I was craving something specific but I didn't know what it was, and I wanted to eat everything I could to see if it would satisfy that craving.

    I found that tea with honey helped me, instead of sugar or sweetener. I'm not opposed to sugar or sweetener, in fact I use both regularly, but on days where I have a constant grumbly tummy the honey seems more satisfying.

    Another thing that helped was finding something time consuming to eat (I think another comment mentions it also). I like to get the steamfresh edamame in the pod, toss in a little kosher salt, and eat it after I open each pod (my mom likes to open all the pods first into a bowl then sit down and eat, but I found I can eat a lot very quickly, defeating the purpose). I've also carefully portioned pistachios in the shell, so I have to work on opening the shell to get the nut out (same with walnuts/almonds in the shell).

    Thanks for the tips! I especially like the iceberg lettuce idea. I mean, I'm sure it'll do nothing for the "hunger", but keeping my mouth and hands occupied may help to distract myself for a while. And it's so little on calories that it's ok.

    My meals aren't exactly "small". My allowance is about 1500 calories, this makes up for a total of 2500 calories plus exercise, enough to have 5 reasonable meals or 4 with one extra large meal for lunch. As for how I save calories, I have a period of about a week a month where I'm not very hungry. During this week I just don't eat back exercise calories, which results in 2000 extra calories saved. I also calculate my loss for the month for a 4 week interval, not the full 30 days, so that leaves me with 2 more days of being able to eat at maintenance for a total of 4 higher than average days a month.