Do you get hit on?

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  • KaliannaRT2003
    KaliannaRT2003 Posts: 28 Member
    Yes. All the time and it's creepy af.
  • eurotrashcc
    eurotrashcc Posts: 26 Member
    What's getting hit on? I've heard stories and legends about it......
    That is one of my reasons for trying to lose weight though. I think I have a good personality, but people can't see that right away.😁
  • BlackDahliasLastSmile
    BlackDahliasLastSmile Posts: 369 Member
    I don't, I mean, not in person...like ever...online, maybe some...but never like hey, you look cool, I wanna talk to you and get to know you in person...I don't even think that exists anymore, lol.
  • futureicon
    futureicon Posts: 348 Member
    The only time I get hit on is by creepy drunk (and usually old) women at the bar.
  • cmfougere
    cmfougere Posts: 931 Member
    I wish, but it never happens. I'm too shy to put myself out there, must be a turn off
  • Justn83
    Justn83 Posts: 5,226 Member
    I did last night on the highway! Haha by a middle-aged woman driving a new Land Rover.
  • BIGFNR0B
    BIGFNR0B Posts: 2,965 Member
    Not really
  • AliNouveau
    AliNouveau Posts: 36,287 Member
    futureicon wrote: »
    The only time I get hit on is by creepy drunk (and usually old) women at the bar.

    Geez sorry I didn't think I was That old.
  • Mrsindepenant1
    Mrsindepenant1 Posts: 196 Member
    edited July 2018
    I’m married, I get hit on a lot. I don’t know why because I have serious *kitten* face alll the time. It’s faltering sometimes but sometimes it’s just down right creepy. I have married friends that are never hit on, but they are very quiet stick to them self’s kinda girls.
    Hubby says wedding rings don’t scare men off.
    Doesn’t help I have big boobs, iv even started wearing oversized hoodies to hide them. Hubby always jokes that guys are always looking at them, and he always stares at them when I run, doesn’t make me feel good, it makes me self conscious.
    But if your a good looking girl that’s not being hit on it could be a vibe your giving out or your just intimidating.
  • rickiimarieee
    rickiimarieee Posts: 2,212 Member
    _lyndseybrooke_ wrote: »
    I can honestly count the number of times I've been hit on in the past 7 years (since I met my husband) on one hand. I'm far from cocky, but I'm not ugly and I've got a decent body, especially with clothes on....

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    (No, I don't dress like this daily. It was a country-themed bachelorette party this past weekend.)

    But I never get hit on. The girls I'm with get hit on, I see other girls getting hit on. But not me. I'm not exactly heartbroken about it, being married and all, but it does make me wonder what kind of look or vibe I've got going on that causes men to not approach me. In some cases, it''s probably the wedding ring. However, I asked my husband what he thought and he said, "You just look too smart and high maintenance. Guys probably think you're either going to reject them or make them spend all of their money before they can get into your pants." Say whaaa? Haha!

    So, do you get hit on a lot? What is there to say about decent-looking girls that don't get creepy guys trying to hit her up in bars?

    To be completely honest I barely get hit on when I’m alone only a few times (a lot when on vacation). I only get hit on when I’m with my husband. In my fair point I don’t go out much when I’m not with my husband but I feel like the social aspect in person of everyone is gone. Everyone just compliments everyone online, people are now afraid of rejection.
  • Squishywishy
    Squishywishy Posts: 54 Member
    A hundred pounds ago, I never got hit on. I was pretty much invisible to everyone. Since losing the weight, I've had to adjust to being in public....people talk to you when you're not over weight. They hold the door for you and offer to return your shopping cart. I get better service at restaurants and people are more helpful in stores. People are just generally nicer. And yes, I get hit on way more than I did before...which isn't saying much. I don't know if I am just more comfortable in my own skin now so my vibe has changed and I'm more approachable or if society is really just that crappy to overweight folks.
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  • rickiimarieee
    rickiimarieee Posts: 2,212 Member
    squishypotpie wrote: »
    A hundred pounds ago, I never got hit on. I was pretty much invisible to everyone. Since losing the weight, I've had to adjust to being in public....people talk to you when you're not over weight. They hold the door for you and offer to return your shopping cart. I get better service at restaurants and people are more helpful in stores. People are just generally nicer. And yes, I get hit on way more than I did before...which isn't saying much. I don't know if I am just more comfortable in my own skin now so my vibe has changed and I'm more approachable or if society is really just that crappy to overweight folks.

    This is definitely correct. When I was heavier never got a second look!
  • dmille2
    dmille2 Posts: 208 Member
    Not that I know of, but my hair gets some looks.
  • Eddy_Hunt
    Eddy_Hunt Posts: 435 Member
    Yeah but I am an outrageous flirt 😬... At least I'm honest!!
  • PaperDoll_
    PaperDoll_ Posts: 32,857 Member
    Not recently, but if I do, my dad taught me how to hit back. :|
  • bojack5
    bojack5 Posts: 2,859 Member
    Once in a while
  • Egger29
    Egger29 Posts: 14,741 Member
    Nope. Never.
  • kloet_22
    kloet_22 Posts: 1,691 Member
    Nope
  • SouthernMamaUnderConsruction
    SouthernMamaUnderConsruction Posts: 2,724 Member
    Possibly 50 lbs ago... But I didn't notice it then either. I would see them look at me but nothing more
  • desg1218
    desg1218 Posts: 78 Member
    Egger29 wrote: »
    Nope. Never.

    @Egger29 lies.

  • desg1218
    desg1218 Posts: 78 Member
    Yes but that's only because I'm the only chick in a place full of mechanics, lol. If I was a young, hot blond I would be dismissed.
  • Hotspur11
    Hotspur11 Posts: 2,673 Member
    nope, no one wants an old, balding man!
  • Egger29
    Egger29 Posts: 14,741 Member
    desg1218 wrote: »
    Egger29 wrote: »
    Nope. Never.

    @Egger29 lies.

    The biggest forward remarks I've ever gotten in my life have been from Gay Men. (Who knew I was straight so they don't count as a hit On in my book)
  • desg1218
    desg1218 Posts: 78 Member
    Egger29 wrote: »
    desg1218 wrote: »
    Egger29 wrote: »
    Nope. Never.

    @Egger29 lies.

    The biggest forward remarks I've ever gotten in my life have been from Gay Men. (Who knew I was straight so they don't count as a hit On in my book)
    Egger29 wrote: »
    desg1218 wrote: »
    Egger29 wrote: »
    Nope. Never.

    @Egger29 lies.

    The biggest forward remarks I've ever gotten in my life have been from Gay Men. (Who knew I was straight so they don't count as a hit On in my book)

    Maybe chicks are intimidated.
  • Egger29
    Egger29 Posts: 14,741 Member
    desg1218 wrote: »
    Egger29 wrote: »
    desg1218 wrote: »
    Egger29 wrote: »
    Nope. Never.

    @Egger29 lies.

    The biggest forward remarks I've ever gotten in my life have been from Gay Men. (Who knew I was straight so they don't count as a hit On in my book)
    Egger29 wrote: »
    desg1218 wrote: »
    Egger29 wrote: »
    Nope. Never.

    @Egger29 lies.

    The biggest forward remarks I've ever gotten in my life have been from Gay Men. (Who knew I was straight so they don't count as a hit On in my book)

    Maybe chicks are intimidated.

    Unlikely. I've never been one of the popular ones, either here, there, or in real life.
  • waytoofat3
    waytoofat3 Posts: 278 Member
    I don't think so,but I've been told more than once that I'm oblivious to it lol.As I'm focusing most of my energy into whipping myself into shape right now,I'm even more oblivious
  • Fit4Life_79
    Fit4Life_79 Posts: 93 Member
    Nope.. I've started noticing people watch me or check me out but I don't get approached.
  • Muscle_for_Fitness
    Muscle_for_Fitness Posts: 2,198 Member
    Fit4Life_79 wrote: »
    Nope.. I've started noticing people watch me or check me out but I don't get approached.

    I'll try to make it less noticable
  • Fit4Life_79
    Fit4Life_79 Posts: 93 Member
    Muscle_for_Fitness wrote: »
    Fit4Life_79 wrote: »
    Nope.. I've started noticing people watch me or check me out but I don't get approached.

    I'll try to make it less noticable

    :D

    I'm so oblivious to stuff like that.

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