What Annoys You (About Yourself)?

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  • SandSeaSkySoul
    SandSeaSkySoul Posts: 212 Member
    bhadbahabi wrote: »
    I can't seem to maintain meaningful female friendships. I'm not even sure if the problem is me or not... but female friends have always been deeply disappointing and annoying.

    Same. I'm always so jealous of girls with a girl squad.
    @bhadbahabi "Don't get a squad, get a team!

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  • Gngr09
    Gngr09 Posts: 743 Member
    I am super self critical of body image. I hate that about me!
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  • Mandylou19912014
    Mandylou19912014 Posts: 208 Member
    I can't seem to maintain meaningful female friendships. I'm not even sure if the problem is me or not... but female friends have always been deeply disappointing and annoying.

    Girls can be quite bitchy and jealous, it’s hard to find decent girls to be friends with!
  • Mandylou19912014
    Mandylou19912014 Posts: 208 Member
    kroe4 wrote: »
    I can't actually be mean to people. Even those rude people who deserve to be told off sometimes, I always default to the "kill them with kindness." I wish I could be more of d***.

    I could do with having your attitude! I’m quite the opposite haha
  • pandacsek
    pandacsek Posts: 42 Member
    I feel like I am a bother all the time even when I’m not and it annoys me that I can’t tell the difference

    Just be yourself. I am sure you are not a bother at all. It's all in your head. And if it's all in your head, you can change that. So just imagine you are not a bother, or in fact, don't even worry about whether you are or not. Just be you.
  • Pour_Decisions
    Pour_Decisions Posts: 1,053 Member
    edited July 2018
    I overthink just about everything.

    edit: No, I'll take that back. Not everything, but I do overthink way more than I should.
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  • Sami488
    Sami488 Posts: 149 Member
    I procrastinate. And I have recently developed anxiety so yea, I could do without those 2 things.
  • Sami488
    Sami488 Posts: 149 Member
    I can't seem to maintain meaningful female friendships. I'm not even sure if the problem is me or not... but female friends have always been deeply disappointing and annoying.

    Same. I've had lots of friends over the years and I feel like Im pretty cool (obvi humble) but for some reason I cannot maintain friendships with, well anyone really. Aside from my boyfriend. I need some estrogen in my life though! But I am also disappointed often by females. I'm usually pretty picky on who I really like though so I'm sure that has something to do with it. lol.
  • slessofme
    slessofme Posts: 7,740 Member
    Trust issues. Lots and lots of trust issues originated by my family and continuously reinforced by people I take a chance on.

    I struggle with graciously accepting a compliment (which makes me feel rude). My knee jerk is to assume that they are being facetious and to make it a joke.
  • bojack5
    bojack5 Posts: 2,859 Member
    My anger at the moment is boiling over and I'm cursing way to much.
  • KosmosKitten
    KosmosKitten Posts: 10,476 Member
    I can't seem to maintain meaningful female friendships. I'm not even sure if the problem is me or not... but female friends have always been deeply disappointing and annoying.

    Story of my life. However, I have to add that most of my female relationships don't last because I find them to be into activities that don't interest me, or even worse.. I find that they are really petty (IE. catty) individuals who are only interested in creating drama.

    I don't particularly care for drama, even to watch as a train wreck, so I usually cut ties.
  • 81Katz
    81Katz Posts: 7,074 Member
    Too many thoughts, too many words.
  • Sami488 wrote: »
    I can't seem to maintain meaningful female friendships. I'm not even sure if the problem is me or not... but female friends have always been deeply disappointing and annoying.

    Same. I've had lots of friends over the years and I feel like Im pretty cool (obvi humble) but for some reason I cannot maintain friendships with, well anyone really. Aside from my boyfriend. I need some estrogen in my life though! But I am also disappointed often by females. I'm usually pretty picky on who I really like though so I'm sure that has something to do with it. lol.
    I can't seem to maintain meaningful female friendships. I'm not even sure if the problem is me or not... but female friends have always been deeply disappointing and annoying.

    Story of my life. However, I have to add that most of my female relationships don't last because I find them to be into activities that don't interest me, or even worse.. I find that they are really petty (IE. catty) individuals who are only interested in creating drama.

    I don't particularly care for drama, even to watch as a train wreck, so I usually cut ties.

    I could have written all of these words myself. I wonder what would happen if anti-girlfriend girls all became girlfriends? Where do I find these women? Should I start a Facebook page? ;)
  • I can't seem to maintain meaningful female friendships. I'm not even sure if the problem is me or not... but female friends have always been deeply disappointing and annoying.

    This. Outside of my two close girls friends I’ve not been able to maintain female friendship and rarely do I succeed in even making them.

    Well, you have two close girlfriends. That's two more then I do.
  • kam26001
    kam26001 Posts: 2,794 Member
    Sometimes when I'm having an intense one-on-one conversation with someone my mind will wander to a dark place for a split second and I'll think to myself, "what if I just chop this person in the throat right now". Haha. 😥
  • 81Katz
    81Katz Posts: 7,074 Member
    :lol:
  • kam26001 wrote: »
    Sometimes when I'm having an intense one-on-one conversation with someone my mind will wander to a dark place for a split second and I'll think to myself, "what if I just chop this person in the throat right now". Haha. 😥

    Hahahha!!
  • R3d_butt3rfly
    R3d_butt3rfly Posts: 1,127 Member
    kam26001 wrote: »
    Sometimes when I'm having an intense one-on-one conversation with someone my mind will wander to a dark place for a split second and I'll think to myself, "what if I just chop this person in the throat right now". Haha. 😥

    :D
  • SandSeaSkySoul
    SandSeaSkySoul Posts: 212 Member
    edited July 2018
    I am so awful at taking selfies that I've to mute my cellular, to not hear the camera shutter because I take several & then choose the best 1! Well I usually forget to then return the volume to normal, since I don't take selfies daily & of course, that's when people decide to call me! Luckily, I'm single & don't have any friends, since I'd lose them if I did because of this!
  • WorkerDrone83
    WorkerDrone83 Posts: 3,195 Member
    I can never remember what kind of electric toothbrush I have at home when I'm trying to buy a new brush head. Rather than making another trip, I just buy a whole new toothbrush. You'd think I'd be safe to buy any head with the amount of brushes I have at home now.
  • SandSeaSkySoul
    SandSeaSkySoul Posts: 212 Member
    I can never remember what kind of electric toothbrush I have at home when I'm trying to buy a new brush head. Rather than making another trip, I just buy a whole new toothbrush. You'd think I'd be safe to buy any head with the amount of brushes I have at home now.

    @WorkerDrone83 how about taking a picture of it, with your cellular & then compare the picture to the products, when you're shopping?
  • WorkerDrone83
    WorkerDrone83 Posts: 3,195 Member
    I can never remember what kind of electric toothbrush I have at home when I'm trying to buy a new brush head. Rather than making another trip, I just buy a whole new toothbrush. You'd think I'd be safe to buy any head with the amount of brushes I have at home now.

    @WorkerDrone83 how about taking a picture of it, with your cellular & then compare the picture to the products, when you're shopping?

    What?! And just open my photo gallery in the middle of a public place? That's madness :p
    Good idea, though. Thanks!
  • urloved33
    urloved33 Posts: 3,323 Member
    that I cant say what bothers me the first time it bothers me. I rationalize why its not such a big deal and I should just quietly do/deal/accept then of course...it gets done/said/asked of me over and over til I blow up and the fact is I should be able to speak up the FIRST time it bothered me.
  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    I can never remember what kind of electric toothbrush I have at home when I'm trying to buy a new brush head. Rather than making another trip, I just buy a whole new toothbrush. You'd think I'd be safe to buy any head with the amount of brushes I have at home now.

    I tore a flap off the box when I bought it and keep in my wallet
  • ShellyPru84
    ShellyPru84 Posts: 56 Member
    I’m a workaholic

    I constantly worry about money and providing for my family even though we are comfortable and financially stable.

    I’m very blunt and to the point. I don’t consider this a flaw but I think others do.

    I have an effective resting witch face which makes people think I’m unfriendly. I’m actually very friendly, outgoing and funny.
  • slessofme
    slessofme Posts: 7,740 Member
    I have been a staunch supporter of aging naturally. I think expression lines are beautiful... On everyone else. I struggle with accepting and seeing the beauty in my own expression lines. I don't think I'll ever do Botox or filler, but I've had a consultation for Halo.
  • KeepRunningFatboy
    KeepRunningFatboy Posts: 3,055 Member
    My lack of self control