Approaching men at a bar
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caloriecount2018 wrote: »caloriecount2018 wrote: »Go to said bar. Dress seductively, but maintain your mystery. Very important. Also, red lipstick. Touseled hair.
Pick a table at the back, the one with the candlelight and sit there drenched in mystery, maybe a touch of mystique. As the bar man passes your table you ask him to buy said guy another of what he just ordered. Now you sit back, take out your cigarette and cigarette holder and light your Marlboro, puffing gently, adding to the mystery as the smoke billows and creates a big Smokey atmosphere. That will naturally draw his attention.
Now you just give him 'the glance' note this is different than 'the look'. Once he is locked in on you, it's time for 'the look', a searing, pouting, come hither, you-had-me-at-hello, whatcha doin later kinda look. By this stage he has forgotten where he is or why he's there, he's on his way over to your table. Winning!
Or. You could make eye contact at the bar and just smile, see if he notices you.
You had me at using the word tousled...
It's a great word isn't it? Let's just meditate on the word 'touseled' I feel all relaxed and sort of light. How are you feeling ?
Most people use disheveled, or something like unkept which doesn't portray the wild, unrely, and sexiness as tousled emotes. I feel...likey about it.
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Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings wrote: »Smile and keep your body language open... if he's feeling you... he will approach
This^. You're absolutely gorgeous OP. Enjoy your evening out with your friends ... As stated above, "he will approach." It's on you to CLOSE.0 -
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SnackherBarrell wrote: »"Excuse me, you have got something here on your shirt"
*man looks down
*you boop his nose and then snort laugh
Gets 'em everytime
somehow I think that if the gender roles were reversed, it might not work every time.....0 -
A great ice-breaker is to ask where you can find a great locally made pizza.
why?
everyone loves pizza and everyone values their own opinion of pizza.
and.... on the off chance that she doesn't like pizza, do you really want to know her anyway ??0 -
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SnackherBarrell wrote: »"Excuse me, you have got something here on your shirt"
*man looks down
*you boop his nose and then snort laugh
Gets 'em everytime
Trying this friday night 😊2 -
mustacheU2Lift wrote: »SnackherBarrell wrote: »"Excuse me, you have got something here on your shirt"
*man looks down
*you boop his nose and then snort laugh
Gets 'em everytime
Trying this friday night 😊
@mustacheU2Lift
then what do you say after you laugh ?
....... or do you just stand there for 3 minutes in awkward silence ??0 -
Do a reverse Trump. Men love that.1
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Just say hi. Don't make it complicated.0
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jennifer_417 wrote: »Just say hi. Don't make it complicated.
wait.
you're suggesting that a woman not make something complicated ?
...... you just might be a comic genius.1 -
Just be forward. If you get eye contact from a guy at the bar just smile and carry on what you're doing. If you keep getting eye contact go over and say 'I'm drinking X and my name is Y, what's your name?'
Worst than can happen is he tells you his name and tells you to buy your own drink.
Don't fear rejection, fear missing out.0 -
rickswifey83 wrote: »caloriecount2018 wrote: »Go to said bar. Dress seductively, but maintain your mystery. Very important. Also, red lipstick. Touseled hair.
Pick a table at the back, the one with the candlelight and sit there drenched in mystery, maybe a touch of mystique. As the bar man passes your table you ask him to buy said guy another of what he just ordered. Now you sit back, take out your cigarette and cigarette holder and light your Marlboro, puffing gently, adding to the mystery as the smoke billows and creates a big Smokey atmosphere. That will naturally draw his attention.
Now you just give him 'the glance' note this is different than 'the look'. Once he is locked in on you, it's time for 'the look', a searing, pouting, come hither, you-had-me-at-hello, whatcha doin later kinda look. By this stage he has forgotten where he is or why he's there, he's on his way over to your table. Winning!
Or. You could make eye contact at the bar and just smile, see if he notices you.
This is too much trouble my dear...I will just sit in my granny panties with my mom bun and happily eat my wings, pizza, and beer. Someone is bound to wanna join in
Where do i sign?! 😘0 -
You could always approach the same way you would approach a rockstar.
The "NO APPROACH...APPROACH." Just act like you're board to be there. Look at your watch alot, and stay in the outskirts. Then when the time seems right, drop a pen and do this move....JeepHair77 wrote: »
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You walk right up top them, grab 'em by the jimmy and - if you like what you find - growl, "You ready to use this or what?"1
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Motorsheen wrote: »mustacheU2Lift wrote: »SnackherBarrell wrote: »"Excuse me, you have got something here on your shirt"
*man looks down
*you boop his nose and then snort laugh
Gets 'em everytime
Trying this friday night 😊
@mustacheU2Lift
then what do you say after you laugh ?
....... or do you just stand there for 3 minutes in awkward silence ??
Awkward silence is golden.0 -
mustacheU2Lift wrote: »Motorsheen wrote: »mustacheU2Lift wrote: »SnackherBarrell wrote: »"Excuse me, you have got something here on your shirt"
*man looks down
*you boop his nose and then snort laugh
Gets 'em everytime
Trying this friday night 😊
@mustacheU2Lift
then what do you say after you laugh ?
....... or do you just stand there for 3 minutes in awkward silence ??
Awkward silence is golden.
It really is the best.
just stand there and stare at him...
after about 3 minutes, just give'em one of these:
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AgainWithTheSurfyPants wrote: »mustacheU2Lift wrote: »Is this ever a good idea?
Headed out for a girls night. Listening to a live band. Would you be offended if a lady approached you/flirted? Whats the best way to let a guy know im interested?
I have never had the nerve to approach any man in a bar setting, or anywhere for that matter!! If you ever find me in a bar, which is a rarity, best leave me alone because I am there to drink. Period.
But, but...
i would so approach you and boop your nose 0 -
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AgainWithTheSurfyPants wrote: »mustacheU2Lift wrote: »AgainWithTheSurfyPants wrote: »mustacheU2Lift wrote: »Is this ever a good idea?
Headed out for a girls night. Listening to a live band. Would you be offended if a lady approached you/flirted? Whats the best way to let a guy know im interested?
I have never had the nerve to approach any man in a bar setting, or anywhere for that matter!! If you ever find me in a bar, which is a rarity, best leave me alone because I am there to drink. Period.
But, but... i would so approach you and boop your nose
Jus' grab my jimmy
and if i like it? 0 -
then you may own the jimmy temporarily1
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send him a drink...0
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AgainWithTheSurfyPants wrote: »mustacheU2Lift wrote: »AgainWithTheSurfyPants wrote: »mustacheU2Lift wrote: »Is this ever a good idea?
Headed out for a girls night. Listening to a live band. Would you be offended if a lady approached you/flirted? Whats the best way to let a guy know im interested?
I have never had the nerve to approach any man in a bar setting, or anywhere for that matter!! If you ever find me in a bar, which is a rarity, best leave me alone because I am there to drink. Period.
But, but... i would so approach you and boop your nose
Jus' grab my jimmy
Oh. Oh my. May the schwartz be with ya.1 -
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throw stuff at a guy you like....we still get it even tho elementary was years ago...lol1
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