What Annoys You (About Yourself)?

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  • 2baninja
    2baninja Posts: 518 Member
    OMG, where do I start... I'm too fat, I eat too much junk food, I don't exercise enough, I don't sleep through the night, I do nothing, truly nothing on my day off. I dislike my job. There's not much about me that doesn't not annoy me.... but I have depression, something else that annoys me, and no medicine helps, so I'm just screwed....
  • TarryTaffy
    TarryTaffy Posts: 883 Member
    My lack of patience with others, when they begin telling their sad tales of woe. I'm fed up with people dumping on me... told I'm a good listener, but I don't want to be anymore, so I usually say "I don't care" or get up & leave... which only means, then I'm labeled rude. I'm now trying to figure out how to appear nice but unapproachable, like Cher, or something...
  • Svanel
    Svanel Posts: 6,255 Member
    Fast120 wrote: »
    My lack of patience with others, when they begin telling their sad tales of woe. I'm fed up with people dumping on me... told I'm a good listener, but I don't want to be anymore, so I usually say "I don't care" or get up & leave... which only means, then I'm labeled rude. I'm now trying to figure out how to appear nice but unapproachable, like Cher, or something...

    I totally get this. I think I've reached a point in my life where I just don't want to hear anymore bad stuff lol I've always been the "good listener" too and sometimes it's just hard to take in all that negative and not be besieged with the aftereffects.
  • SummerTwentyOne
    SummerTwentyOne Posts: 521 Member
    Oh god where do I start off with. I really
    Don’t like my face, it’s very annoying looking (I hope that makes sense to people). I’m very immature and clumsy. My arms are really chunky I could go on and on lmao
  • kds10
    kds10 Posts: 452 Member
    Starbee01 wrote: »
    I have no patience 😦 and focus alot on negatives... trying to improve my behaviour. Books are helping.

    Any book recommendations?
  • noexcuses0626
    noexcuses0626 Posts: 60 Member
    I can be a super nice person, but if you piss me off, watch out!!! I lose my temper so easily!!! I HATE it. It's embarrassing... and possibly dangerous.
  • hammm103
    hammm103 Posts: 1 Member
    I'm really annoyed by my *kitten* stepdad jeff he made me cry today he said i was cute
  • brittcarmona
    brittcarmona Posts: 3 Member
    I speak too fast and I tend to mumble through what I say. And I overreact easily. After I'm like "wtf" to myself.
  • waluouija
    waluouija Posts: 61 Member
    I'm super pretentious. I try not to be, but I never really think about how I'm coming across when I speak, so I end up having a lot of "oh god why am I like this" thoughts after I get finished with a conversation.
  • lauriep715
    lauriep715 Posts: 17 Member
    I care too much what other people think.
    I overthink everything.
  • Skeels
    Skeels Posts: 929 Member
    That I’m never happy with the way my body looks. Always feel fat.
  • cbstewart88
    cbstewart88 Posts: 453 Member
    I'm not very tolerant of stupidity anymore. Maybe it's my age...or at least that's the excuse I use for everything these days - LOL.
  • waluouija
    waluouija Posts: 61 Member
    I love watching youtube, and that would be fine if I did it in moderation, but I do it every day, and I do it when I should be doing more productive things. I do it even if nothing in my feed seems interesting. It's pretty much my equivalent of channel surfing, since I can't afford cable.
  • dcresider
    dcresider Posts: 1,272 Member
    edited August 2018
    Eating too fast. Need to slow down and enjoy the moment.
  • Lisa8823168
    Lisa8823168 Posts: 139 Member
    I am annoyed by the concept of "safe places", over indulgence of "emotional needs" and corporations catering to these ideas which feed crappy work ethics. If you want to be a grown up, pull up your big boy/girl panties and do the job you were hired to do! A paycheck means you should have graduated from training pants into reality.
  • Versicolour
    Versicolour Posts: 7,164 Member
    I care too deeply about people who don't give me a second thought; but then people who do care about me, I battle to show I care, even though I do
  • Versicolour
    Versicolour Posts: 7,164 Member
    And I spend way too much time in Chit chat
  • Dakase83
    Dakase83 Posts: 2,524 Member
    Overthinking
  • RunHardBeStrong
    RunHardBeStrong Posts: 33,069 Member
    My procrastination. I am leaving in 2 hours for a girls weekend and still have clothes I want to take that need washed.
  • Pour_Decisions
    Pour_Decisions Posts: 1,053 Member
    My procrastination. I am leaving in 2 hours for a girls weekend and still have clothes I want to take that need washed.

    Have fun!
  • bhadbahabi
    bhadbahabi Posts: 575 Member
    Everything, probably already posted that. I'm in a very self hate sort of mood lately. I've been trying to think of redeemable qualities and I'm pretty sure I'm the crappiest person I've ever been right now.
  • RunHardBeStrong
    RunHardBeStrong Posts: 33,069 Member
    My procrastination. I am leaving in 2 hours for a girls weekend and still have clothes I want to take that need washed.

    Have fun!

    Thanks!! It's gonna be a crazy blast. I am still waiting for my laundry to get done though. 😂😂 But I am ready to take off and start out with lunch and drinks with the girls I am carpooling with. Then happy hour drinks with the rest of the girls when we get to the hotel. I have a feeling our whole weekend will be based around food, drinks, shopping, gossip and laughter.
  • AmberGlitterSparkles
    AmberGlitterSparkles Posts: 699 Member
    I’m too nice and too understanding. It leads to getting taken advantage of a lot.
  • tinak33
    tinak33 Posts: 9,883 Member
    I can be so understanding that I become a door mat and get walked on and taken advantage of. And if I try to "harden" up so that it doesn't happen, I feel like a horrible person who wasn't helping someone, or being kind and understanding. It's a double edged sword.

    I can hold a grudge for a very long time....

    I am easily distracted, and I am often ruled by my stomach.....
  • Somehow I have a carefree, nothing bothers me attitude, but I still struggle with loads of anxiety

    The anxiety may be due to your nothing bothers you attitude, you may be ignoring something that needs addressing and so it just sits there... in the back of your mind... under the radar... creating the anxiety. My anxiety did not let up until I looked at all those things I resist and cleared them up. Anxiety is not something I would wish on anyone, so I offer this advice, fwiw :)
  • 81Katz
    81Katz Posts: 7,074 Member
    I was too nice.
    It screwed me.
  • ChaelAZ
    ChaelAZ Posts: 2,240 Member
    81Katz wrote: »
    I was too nice.
    It screwed me.

    Never.
    Be.
    Nice.
  • ChaelAZ wrote: »
    81Katz wrote: »
    I was too nice.
    It screwed me.

    Never.
    Be.
    Nice.

    You should ALWAYS be nice to yourself :) well... almost always
  • 81Katz
    81Katz Posts: 7,074 Member
    ChaelAZ wrote: »
    81Katz wrote: »
    I was too nice.
    It screwed me.

    Never.
    Be.
    Nice.

    I'm working on it. Not everyone deserves my kindness. 😎
  • KosmosKitten
    KosmosKitten Posts: 10,476 Member
    I am indecisive when it comes to really important matters that may or may not hurt other people I care about.