Not losing weight!
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Note: sorry this is so long i feel passionate about it aparently >.< Feel free not to read anyone but OP
if you only wear clothes for pregnant women no wonder you think your stomach looks huge with alot of extra flowy fabric. The weight you want is simply unhealthy and while im all for you losing weight and being happy with your own body i have to ask you to dig deep and really ask yourself if you were happy with your body 2 years ago.
chances are if you are honest with yourself you will say no. Just going off the fact your small right now and feel huge and unhappy, Thats a red flag to body dysmorphic disorder. Im sorry your going through that.
If you insist on losing weight, You will get help here. But id like to recommend you look into the term recomp (search for it using the search for the forums youll find a ton of info). Also as weird/difficult as this sounds sit down and write out a list of pros/cons of your body. What do you like, Do you have pretty eyes? your hair? nice legs? What dont you like. Your stomach? I only ask you to do this because if your honest list has alot more negative and barely any things you like it will sort of show you your body image may be off. Honestly i think everyones is we just dont really think about the negative stuff our brain says to us. We quiet that voice.
Write another list of what you want to achieve by losing weight. Mine was to be sexy, Healthy, I wanted to slim my shoulders (i swear like 20 of my extra 100 was sitting right in my upper arms it was gross lol) And i wanted to help my social anxiety by giving myself 1 less thing to worry about. Think deeply about your list, Will losing weight truely help you accomplish the stuff on your list? Are there other things/steps you could be doing in order to achieve it? For me i realized weight loss was 1 piece of a puzzle.
I started something emberassing honestly. For my social anxiety i began to force myself to go for a walk daily, Into public places, And talk to one person. Normally id ask a stranger for directions even though i didnt need them. Now i can talk to anyone. It took time. And for the sexy bit, I went out and bought 1 nicely fitting top. I instantly felt beter about myself. Still needed to lose my weight, But in the moment i tried it on i felt a bit beter instantly. No one feels sexy wearing a circus tent. Id also go get my nails done really nice.
TLDR POINT: IF you want to lose weight, Thats fine. But please research and do it healthily, You currently arent and you wont love yourself or your results if you starve yourself there. But please take some time to soul search and find other things that could help you achieve your goals. Weight loss is just 1 thing, And it honestly works better when your not obsessing over just it, Hoping that it fixes everything on its own. Because it wont and that can lead to obsessing over it and sort of spiraling into an unhealthy sort of self hate if you begin it from a negative mindset (which im sorry if im wrong but im hearing you have)
Just try to practice a little self love and do some other things aswell as your weight loss, Practice self love and be very honest with yourself. Work to feel beter NOW and quiet the voice telling you your not good enough. Work to improve your mind, As you improve your body.41 -
mirrormirror77 wrote: »estherdragonbat wrote: »So, you were an unhealthy weight two years ago, now you're a healthy one, and you want to go back to being unhealthy?
Then...107?? Isn't 105-110 the average weight of girls my height??
I don't think so. At 5 feet and 115 lbs I wear a size 2-4. I can't image being 3 inches taller, even smaller than that, and wanting to a size zero. That is underweight.6 -
mirrormirror77 wrote: »JaydedMiss wrote: »at 5 ft 3 120 pounds and only 2 weeks in i can say a few things
1. Your stomach isnt huge...Though yes eat some solid foods so you poop.
2. Your expectations are way to high...its been 2 weeks.
3. your goal weight makes you underweight, Weight loss is slow when you dont have much body fat...Which at your weight you dont
Im your height and 140 in my profile pic. Not the slimmest but i wouldnt call me huge or whatever so i wonder if your self image is a little off. May i ask why you want to lose weight? Do you not like how you look? Maybe youd be beter off looking at building muscle instead of losing weight
My digestion is dead slow and I used to be 105lbs two years ago so I want to be happy again with a new weight
also my body image is really negative so I only brought and wore clothes for pregnant women hehe
Well, you were a teenager two years ago. Aspiring to get back to that weight is likely not healthy goal.17 -
mirrormirror77 wrote: »Gebe I’m sure she read the other comments too and probably the reason she replied was because of me looking it up Myself if she’s not eating enough (which was obvious) we basically said the same thing so hopefully she does the right thing which is probably go to a doctor
a doctor??? um, which section should I go to><?
(public hospitals in my area are super crowded and dirty)
I've never had a primary care physician (PCP) whose office was in a hospital.
Don't you have a PCP? Or a GYN? Are you in the US? What do you have for health insurance? Are you a student?
I'm concerned that you have a distorted body image and suggest you get a GP, discuss all these issues with them, and ask for referrals as they see fit.5 -
mirrormirror77 wrote: »estherdragonbat wrote: »So, you were an unhealthy weight two years ago, now you're a healthy one, and you want to go back to being unhealthy?
Then...107?? Isn't 105-110 the average weight of girls my height??mirrormirror77 wrote: »estherdragonbat wrote: »So, you were an unhealthy weight two years ago, now you're a healthy one, and you want to go back to being unhealthy?
Then...107?? Isn't 105-110 the average weight of girls my height??
Yeah you're right.
Being 5'3 120lbs according to your bmi 105lbs is the lowest you can go and will be boredline underweight.
105-110 You'll still be at a normal weight just on the lower end of your bmi.10 -
kshama2001 wrote: »mirrormirror77 wrote: »JaydedMiss wrote: »at 5 ft 3 120 pounds and only 2 weeks in i can say a few things
1. Your stomach isnt huge...Though yes eat some solid foods so you poop.
2. Your expectations are way to high...its been 2 weeks.
3. your goal weight makes you underweight, Weight loss is slow when you dont have much body fat...Which at your weight you dont
Im your height and 140 in my profile pic. Not the slimmest but i wouldnt call me huge or whatever so i wonder if your self image is a little off. May i ask why you want to lose weight? Do you not like how you look? Maybe youd be beter off looking at building muscle instead of losing weight
My digestion is dead slow and I used to be 105lbs two years ago so I want to be happy again with a new weight also my body image is really negative so I only brought and wore clothes for pregnant women hehe
Well, you were a teenager two years ago. Aspiring to get back to that weight is likely not healthy goal.
This. Your body is still maturing and that's going to include putting on a few pounds as you develop a woman's body instead of that of a child.5 -
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It means that you haven't tracked accurately and/or not been patient enough. It means that you're messing with your appetite and playing with disordered eating.23
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You need to see a doctor, preferably one specializing in eating disorders. Your other thread was very concerning.
Can you say what region you live in? Perhaps we can find some resources local to you.19 -
It would be helpful to know your height and current weight. In order to lose weight you need to eat enough calories so that your body doesn't think it is starving!
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You need professional help for more than just your physical complaints. Because the two are very inter-linked. Please get some help.10
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mirrormirror77 wrote: »JaydedMiss wrote: »at 5 ft 3 120 pounds and only 2 weeks in i can say a few things
1. Your stomach isnt huge...Though yes eat some solid foods so you poop.
2. Your expectations are way to high...its been 2 weeks.
3. your goal weight makes you underweight, Weight loss is slow when you dont have much body fat...Which at your weight you dont
Im your height and 140 in my profile pic. Not the slimmest but i wouldnt call me huge or whatever so i wonder if your self image is a little off. May i ask why you want to lose weight? Do you not like how you look? Maybe youd be beter off looking at building muscle instead of losing weight
My digestion is dead slow and I used to be 105lbs two years ago so I want to be happy again with a new weight also my body image is really negative so I only brought and wore clothes for pregnant women hehe
just FYI, maternity clothes will make you look pregnant... pretty sure thats the opposite of what you're after...8 -
mirrormirror77 wrote: »
I love Taipei, I stayed in Ximen last time I was there.
The City Hospital in Taipei has a link, but I don't see a hotline. It might be a place to start, or you can see if your family doctor has some better resources.
https://english.tch.gov.taipei/News_Content.aspx?n=E3FB89FAFCBD4C78&sms=8EEA3C411C74E2A0&s=223D4E728DC4C4AE
Unfortunately, since I don't read Chinese I probably can't find any resources that only have Chinese language pages. I hope you can find a source for help there.6 -
What is your height, weight and activity level like? Do you sit down most of the day?1
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It would be helpful to know your height and current weight. In order to lose weight you need to eat enough calories so that your body doesn't think it is starving!
You mean starvation mode? Nah.... no worries with that since that’s not a thing. Of course eating enough calories is the right thing to do to fuel the body appropriately.2 -
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Have you seen a doctor?1
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How tall are you? What is your current weight? What is your goal weight? What does a typical day's worth of activities look like?1
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I think you need some general information about how things work, and investigate your actual situation, and generally just calm down and focus. Talking to someone you trust, would help. It doesn't seem like you trust us here at MFP - even though you keep returning, you're asking the same questions - do you have someone in your life/neighborhood that you can trust?
Do you have ulcers, or do you just think you have ulcers?
Why are you only eating egg whites, cucumber and watermelon?
How long can you stick to extreme undereating and monodiets before you crash?
Are you even sure you're eating so little? You're being quite active, and physical and mental activity expends energy.
If you breathe, you have a metabolism.8 -
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I used to think fruitarians only ate fruit? Is egg a fruit? Why are you even a fruitarian? Do you think going fruitarian can be some of the reason why your situation, including your digestion, is weird?mirrormirror77 wrote: »kommodevaran wrote: »I think you need some general information about how things work, and investigate your actual situation, and generally just calm down and focus. Talking to someone you trust, would help. It doesn't seem like you trust us here at MFP - even though you keep returning, you're asking the same questions - do you have someone in your life/neighborhood that you can trust?
Do you have ulcers, or do you just think you have ulcers?
Why are you only eating egg whites, cucumber and watermelon?
How long can you stick to extreme undereating and monodiets before you crash?
Are you even sure you're eating so little? You're being quite active, and physical and mental activity expends energy.
If you breathe, you have a metabolism.
actually, I am a fruitarian and I am used to eating like this cuz I can't digest anything else without peacefully
><I do trust everyone but this time my situation is kinda weird
nono
either gastiris or uclers, I need to go back to tw to get it tested cuz right now I am in a poor country with bad meds
yeah, I weigh my foods befor I eat them
idk what happened ><7 -
Have you managed to poop since you last posted? If not, have you seen your doctor about that? Given how much time has passed, you really should if the issue has not resolved.
Do you realize that both posture and malnutrition can create the appearance of a large stomach? Have you seen a doctor/dietitian who can go over what you eat and ensure you're not malnourished?2 -
It seems obvious that you have not seen a doctor. You need to go see one. Go to your primary care physician and he/she can refer you to to a gastroenterologist ....1
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Up your calories for awhile to about 1500 and make sure there is tons of fiber in it. Your cals are crazy low and that is just not healthy. Hugs dear and best of luck.2
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Go to a doctor. Whatever is the normal, day-to-day family doctor or GP in the country where you live.
You keep posting the same kind of thing and what you are doing now is very unhealthy. You need some professional help to check your medical situation, not just strangers on the internet.2
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